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anonymous
writes:So there's this girl I've known a couple of years, last year we made out while drunk a couple of times, one of those times I confessed that I had a crush on her, and she seemed to be open to me, we even spent the rest of the night holding hands, of course I knew better, that it was probably the booze talking, from her end anyway. The day after she claimed she didn't remember and said she prefered to be friends with me. So last night at my bday party she came with, it was probably almost a year ago since I last saw her too. She has a boyfriend now, however he couldn't make it to the party due to exams.After a while she got really drunk, and started telling my friends what a great kisser I am, I was of course surprised because she told me she didn't remember, she said it was easier if I thought she didn't remember. there's where I need some help, why would that be easier? I still have feelings for her, but couldn't express them because I respect her, and her boyfriend too he's a friend of mine. But then why did she also keep saying I'm a great guy, very sweet, great body etc etc what gives? Once again I'm baffled by womens logic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your insight guys, I appreciate it!
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reader, llifton  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 Who knows what her logic is. I think she just said she didn't remember so she had an escape. Basically, if she said she didn't remember, she could pretend it didn't happen - making it easier for her to shoot you down.
I wouldn't give a second thought to her comments. She obviously likes to flirt when she's drunk but doesn't give much thought else to it. She just likes to get attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2014): You don't have to understand women's logic. You never will. They don't understand men and how we think either.
You don't seem to get the concept of a one-night stand. You have been complimented to be a great lover. You are a good kisser, you're a nice guy, and she appreciated all your wonderful attributes as a man.
She doesn't want a relationship with you, and she knew it was better not to lead you on. She wasn't looking for anything but good sex at the time, and you obviously made a great impression. You know how people are. Anyone can be more amorous and uninhibited under the influence of alcohol.
Are you trying to figure her out sober, or when she's intoxicated?
Sober, she made it clear she didn't want you for a boyfriend. Intoxicated, she thinks you're good in-bed; and
it took a few shots to refresh her memory.
She only confessed to the ladies what she'd rather not say to you; because you'd take it all the wrong way. She put in a good word for you. Letting all the eligible girls know, you're a great catch.
How difficult is that to figure out?
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