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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I have a crush on my lecturer. How can I stop this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Hi I'm 18 this year currently a college student and I have a huge crush on my lecturer. He is 22 years old which is only 4 years difference. In class he acts like a Lecturer but out of class he is like our friend. During short breaks between o...

I think my teacher senses that I like him and now he's avoiding me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Lately I've been developing a crush on my teacher, which I sense is something more genuine than an infatuation. I think he likes me. We've conversated about books and music and just everyday things. There is a connection between us, if you under...

I am not sure whether my friend likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I have a friend who I am crushing on and I have a feeling she might like me. She always calls me cute and laughs at my jokes, and every time she comes over to look at my work [at uni], she'll either put her hands on my shoulders, play with my hair, ...

How do I show her that I won't listen to my friend's advice anymore and convince her to give me a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - hi i'm 16 year old boy and I i've been such an idiot..... I liked this girl and when I eventually asked her out she said that she wasn't sure if she liked me. then her mate says to me that she likes someone else and that she doesn't like me. the ...

I've never had an opportunity with a girl like this, let alone, any girl interested in me. Should I stay away from this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - This is sort of a dilemma. It's been a couple years since college graduation. My former roommate and female friend who have been together broke up not too long ago. I had visited them along with other friends from college. Well, the female frien...

What exactly is going on between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I have a fairly weird relationship with my male best friend. We started off purely as friends initially, but then as we got closer, we became increasingly flirty around each other. We will admit that we think of each other day and night and miss ...

Do you think I have good reasoning to question his sexuality? Do you think he could possibly be gay or bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I have this friend, who I'm head over heels for. He's extremely cute, smart, kind of socially awkward, etc. We hang out a ton and I consider him one of my best friends. Although there's one problem - I think he's straight and it would never work ...

One of my best friends is in love with the boy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - There is a boy that is in all of my classes and has been all year. When I met him, my first thoughts were of how good looking he was. As I got to know him, I also found out he has a crazy sense of humor. He's tastefully halarious and isn't ...

He says to wait for him, but it's been three months

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - Dear cupid lately iv been feeling lonely i haven't been been talking to any guys because i feel that they do not care. i have a friend who iv had a crush on since i was 15 a few months ago we made out and tried to start a relationship but...

I want a relationship with him, but I don't know if he feels the same and I don't know how to bring it up in conversation. How do I find out how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I have become really close to a guy who is 2 years older than me (I am 18, he is 20) It started in the new year when we were walking home with a couple of friends from the pub and we were walking in front of everyone else as he had offered to walk ...

Fiance had feelings for old school friend, how should I have handled this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am a 23 year old woman, and am about to get married to my fiance, but I have an issue. He has some feelings for a girl he used to go to school with, and I let my insecurity get the better of me and caused this girl a situation where I humiliated ...

If you attended a rather large school and some person identified you and complimented you. Would you reply back? Would you feel creeped out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - Hello agony aunts and uncles! All advice is welcome. The sooner the better, as the problem is quite simple. I am on a dating site, and this guy from the university happens to be on there as well. Once I found this out, I went through stages ...

Hopeless Crush on a Childhood Friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3983 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - There's this guy that lives a couple houses down my street. He's only one year older than me, and we used to play together all the time when we were much younger. I didn't see him around for the past few years, but since the past couple weeks I've ...

He has a nickname for me and fights to sit near me, but we don't talk much. Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3978 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I have a friend 7th grade. (Lets say person A)Now i am in10 th grade and we are classmates. We weren't actually talking to eachother since this year. In school at breaktine everyone was stressed bec. we had an exam in few minutes and a close friend ...

I have a friend I'm in love with. Do I just leave her alone? She still loves her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Okay,so recently I reconnented with a former best friend who stop talking to me because of her then boyfriend. Anyway we started back talking april 15th and we were dating that same day. We been together before she broke up with me Thursday, because ...

He wouldn't even say "happy birthday" to me after I used all my lunch money to buy him birthday presents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - i like this guy who talks to a lot of girls and we started talking and texting for two weeks and we even stayed up together until 3 before but then things started to change..he found out that i like him and just started to ignore me. yesterday was ...

I'm single again. Now I think I've fallen in love with my best friend, What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3983 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I've been extremely close to my friend for a little over 3 years now. Our friendship started out with us liking each other, then we kind of got over it and I got a boyfriend and was with him for 3 years. But my friend and I talk for hours on end on ...

I fancy him but he is not really paying attention to me. Should I pursue this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - There's a guy I see around a lot at university - everywhere from mutual friends' parties to the gym to in lectures (we do some of the same modules). I'd noticed him looking at me a lot (as in, all the time, and every time I caught him doing it he'd ...

How will I manage not being able to see the guy I have a crush on as often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - So i have an issue, im currently about to leave my sixth form after 7 years. I have liked this guy for majority of the time, and i'm wondering just how i am going to manage with not seeing him so regularly. We've always had a sort of weird relation...

How can I tactfully reject him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hello, First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and offer advice :) I have a FRIEND that insists on hanging out with me and stuff. He invited me to a wedding in Washington state, he calls me "sexy", "Pretty lady" and things...

I'm drawn to my girlfriend's friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We have had our ups and downs like anybody and currently we have been getting along great and having a blast together. But for the past two years now, I have not been able to stop thi...

Text him again? Wait a few days, then text? Or just forget about him altogether and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I sent a guy I've been meeting a text last Monday at almost 12am (end of monday). Monday was a day off here for most not sure if him since he always works night shifts and he doesn't always know when he works. Usually he's off Mondays and Tuesdays ...

Should I go for it or not? Is he into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Last October I got to know this guy on a night out (found out we had stuff in common, are on the same course, same uni etc) nothing happened that night but he emailed me on Facebook about timetables got talking and he gave me his number. We w...

I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love...

Should I act on this. I can't get him out of my mind. It's been three years since we've seen or spoken to each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3991 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Greetings everyone, I am unsure as to whether or not I should get back in contact with an old high school teacher. I truly enjoyed his class and his passion for teaching emitted in the classroom. He was attractive, and well respected by his coll...

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. O...

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...

My crush knows I like him but he's back with his ex and treats me the same, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science and english. In science ...

Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead? A coworker flirted with me via email and in person for a few months. He stared at me all the time, emailed me but in some ways was reserved. I thought he was shy. He was actually flirting...

Do I tell her how I feel, despite having played down my feelings in the past? How do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - I have been training with a woman 1 to 1 at karate for six months we are both instructors. Over this time we talked about many things including relationships, i knew i was fond of her, but not to what extent, and I am also in a relationship where sh...

Why is he really chatty with other girls but not with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Why does he do that? I don't understand him? So there's this cute guy that I've liked for a while now. He has alot of girly friends and is very chatty with them but he tends to be very quiet with me. Whenever he's talking to them and ...

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i ca...

Do you think Steve and I will ever have a normal relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I've been with Steve over 1 year. I'd consider myself a fairly attractive and confident 26 year old, he's 31. We've had an extremely tough year so please bear with the long background info. I used to work with Steve then...

My boyfriend maintains a friendship with a woman who has a crush on him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even tho...

My co-worker cannot take a hint!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - One of my co workers gave me a ride home one time. On our way there, my neighbor called me and said they were having a party in our building and to come join them. So I asked my co worker if he wanted to join the party and he said yes. I was just ...

I haven't heard from him for a long time, and miss him a lot!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Thanks for help first. I knew a man three years ago from a party. Since I was married at the time, we never talked and saw each other again. I am separated now. Since I was lonely, I went to sing and met the same man again. I told him I wo...

I'm scared to ruin this friendship. But why hasn't he made a move, when he knows I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - I'm friends with a guy at college and I really like him. He knows, but not from me. He doesn't act on this though and he seems to like someone else. I'm so conflicted on what to do. Should I seek advice from his friend? I'm scared to ruin our frie...

Out of hand crush, how can I speak to this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - Hello I would really like some advice about a crush i have that is getting a little out of hand. Last year my brother moved into a shared house full of men. I went to visit him when i met the most attractive man who owned the house, he shook ...

After connecting via a dating site, then what do I say to a potential girl friend, who I've only met online, in a first email to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - Hi. I use dating websites, but when it comes to emailing someone I have no idea what to say. I suppose I could just say "Hi I like your profile and would like to get to know you." But that just doesn't seem good enough. Do I ask her things about...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

I'm confused about this girl's actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

17 May 2013 (M) - Alright, so long story, I'll attempt to make it short. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out last year and she said yes. Come to find out, she had a boyfriend that I wasn't aware of. I cut my ties and said forget it. Yesterday...

Am I demasculated pushover?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

17 May 2013 (M) - Hey everyone, this is something that plaeged me growing up and especially in my teen and college years. Despite the fact that I love him to death, my Father seems to fit the bill for the "Nice Guy" profile while I grew up in the far more than sim...

He's convinced we're becoming closer. I don't feel that way. So how do I ensure I don't hurt his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3995 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Moderator note: please mention the ages of the two boys you have been talking to in your first followup? I'm really stuck.. I've been talking to a boy for a while he said he likes me and I said I like him but I just want to take things slowly, ...

I'm scared I might be a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

17 May 2013 (?) - I hate telling this, But im in need of a little advice. I'm 15 years old, and have been questioning for a long time now. I dont know where to begin. -I had my first lesbian crush to my 2nd grade teacher. Grade 2-5 i went to a very school private s...

He said he wasn't interested in me so why has he started staring?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I send a guy on my class a fb mail. He replied he isnt interested in me. I ignored him totally. One month later I saw this guy looks/stares at me at lectures, sometimes he stares deeply and long at me. Until now we had 15 lectures and he stare...

My coworker gives my butterflies is it morally right to invite I'm to dinner knowing he is spoken for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid ,I am in Lust with one of my co- workers at my job but he is spoken for we flirt with each other every time we get a chance over the week end I spoke to him on the phone my heart was melting with pleasure I could n't believe I was talking ...

We both like each other and want to go on a date but we are too busy to meet up, how do I act in this situation? Can I flirt with other guys or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - I confessed to liking him and he told me he likes me back. He has tried asking me out, but since we're both busy with exams at the moment, we haven't really decided on when. What is he expecting from me? Does he expect us to be dating now or a ...

Does he like me? Is he just taking it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3989 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - I recently saw an old friend whilst out and spent a good amount of the evening with him catching up. He's 17 and very nice and friendly, too nice I might add. On that day we talked about a lot of things, we've got quite a few things in common. I ...

How can I get him to flirt with me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - I have a huge crush on my classmate since the start of the semester so during the last day of the semester I decided to approach him and introduce myself. It went pretty well. He told me that he actually wanted to talk to me too and he was very ...

If he thought I was pretty and he liked me, why wouldn't he just ask me out already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first semester instea...