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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Heart broken. Is he just not "into" me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'd really appreciate other peoples views on my situation please . I've had great advice about this very man on here before. Finally seemed to be getting somewhere a month ago with him inviting me out most nights , I stayed over him cuddling me ...

Do women get scared of a man, when all he does is try to make her happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - Do women get scared of a man, when all he does is try to make her happy? I mean, can he do something that makes, her feel like he is getting to like her too much, an then she runs, but down the road, she goes out with other men, an she compares, the ...

I feel everyone will hate me if I see more of this guy. What do I need to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs but for the last few months we have had a smooth patch. As we starting going out quite young (ish) the relationship has sometimes made me a little i...

I slept with my brother's friend and hated it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

28 January 2016 (F) - I recently slept with my brother's friend. I knew the guy for a couple years and had a crush on him. We get along well and share common interests like playing boardgames so we always play games together with my brother. Whenever I hang out with that ...

I think her behaviour equals "playing games" with me. What should I do in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

26 January 2016 (M) - I started talking to a girl and we hit it off straight away. We began talking as if we were together, everything got stressful, it was too much. We stopped speaking for a bit, to which she proposed we could be together in the future and whatn...

I'm trampolining with my crush! What should I wear that'll impress him, but is still comfortable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - Hey everyone. So, on Saturday, I'm going out with this group of people, (including my crush). And we're going trampolining...And so basically, I just wanted some help on what I should wear. I mean, I know it's not a date, but I want to look good, ...

Is it normal for a person to have crushes on other people while in a relationship and do nothing about it in the sense that they don't act on it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - Hello, I've been classmates with this girl for around three years now in college, and she intrigues me quite a bit. Let me explain: during our first year she seemed to be a rather shy and socially awkward person. Cute, but very weird. She was ...

I've developed a crush on my former FWB but he's moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I was having a friends with benefits relationship with a guy in my first term at university and when we went home for Christmas we were texting all holidays saying that we couldn't wait to get back and carry it on. It was over the holidays i realis...

Considering breaking up, so why do I feel like crying, as if I'm losing something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm dating an guy for past 3 months, I connect with him so well it scares the hell out of me. I really like him, he never said anything about liking me, he is not really vocal in showing affection; his action also confuse me Fo...

Am I right to have reservations? Or is this guy a jerk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - DearCupid, maybe somebody can help me. I've been looking online for answers to this question and it seems like there are kind of two "camps". I will explain the situation. Met a guy at college and we had our first date a couple of weeks back. He s...

My Bf and I, both 14, kiss a lot. Should I be worried about the recent way he's behaving when we kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - my boyfriend and me have been in what i would say is a serious relationship for about 6 months. We are the same age and have got to the point where we kiss a lot, for a long time. recently, whilst kissing he's been pulling me a lot closer than usua...

Do you believe in destiny? That you were meant to meet a certain person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - I am curious about what everybody thinks. Was I meant to meet my BF of three years? Was it fate? Destined? We could have crossed paths twice before finally meeting the third time. The first time about 20 years ago at my work place where he...

I gave my crush my phone number, he never called but gets jealous??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - why would he act this way....i gave my crush my number figuring he wasnt flirting with me for nothing nor asking me what am i going to cook for him, well he didnt call and almost two weeks go by so i went to the store yesterday and he was there, and ...

I flirted with a crush that is my boyfriend's friend and our room mate. How do I get things back to normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

18 January 2016 (F) - I'm in a very confusing situation at the moment. I temporarily live with my boyfriend and his 3 flat mates. They are all boys about my age (19-21). Not an ideal situation to start with but on New Year's Eve while drunk with my friends I called...

I want to stop. How should I stop going after someone who ignores me like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I am dating someone for past 3 weeks, earlier he seemed to be ok, wanted to talk to me all the time, we connected well. Had sex previous week and after that he is ignoring me, my calls, when I ask says he is busy over work, and today...

Can't make head nor tail of this on/off friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

13 January 2016 (F) - I had a strong crush on an old colleague of mine. She and I use to be so close when I first started working at my old job. We use to laugh, flirt, chat and she would stare at me and smile all the time. She came to me one day and asked me for my ...

He's kissed me. Separately he's been cold too. What do his actions indicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - There is this guy on my college course and I really like him. We are quite close to each other and he knows I like someone in our class. The problem is he's kissed me a few times and flirts with me and then he can be really cold to me. I don't know ...

Was it the right decision? To not have child by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

11 January 2016 (F) - Over 30 years ago I met a man who became my first love. Cutting a very long story short, we met through music. In the 80's he got a break and was signed to a major label. Our relationship suffered due to other women and the fact that my life was at ...

Should I risk it all admitting my love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

10 January 2016 (F) - Last year,this guy came into my life, and i don't know how to tell him i love him. If I tell him how i feel it might wreck the friendship. If i don't then i will suffer my feelings. What should i do? Please help me....

If my ex tries to talk to me, should I listen, or stay with the new partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

10 January 2016 (M) - Met someone new, three dates, going great, showing me more then my ex did, but am still in love with my ex. In my past, this has happened, more then once, when things were really starting to be great with the new one, my ex would pop back in the p...

I'm fed up and tired of my girlfriend and her drama. There's a new woman on the scene. How do I approach her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

10 January 2016 (M) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my gf for almost three years. However throughout those years it's been good and it has been REAL bad. She has a short temper and gets mad real easy. She also loves to argue. When I ignore her she comes back ...

I'm crushing on my professor who I've heard sleeps with students

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

8 January 2016 (F) - I am a second year student at a university and am 18 years old. I took a class last year with a professor and I think he might like me, I just don't know if he wants me. He tells me I look nice, and compliments me a lot. He also hugs me and tells me ...

Help? Who do I chose? My ex or my child's father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

7 January 2016 (F) - I met up with an ex boyfriend last year July having not seen him for over 15 years. It was magical and he made he feel so good. WE dated a few times and he even came to my works xmas party. That's the last time I saw him. We had a good ni...

I am a beauty pagent winner who suffers body image issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

6 January 2016 (F) - Hi. I have been struggling with body image issues and it's ruining my dating life as well. I have this friend/crush with whom I fooled around a couple of times. We'll be meeting up again but I'm very self conscious about my body and scared he might...

Dare I approach my midnight supermarket girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

5 January 2016 (M) - I do my grocery shopping usually after midnight at one of the huge 24 hour supermarkets. At that time there are usually more workers(shelf stackers) than customers. Anyhow, the last one or two times that I went there was this girl working there. V...

I have a crush on a friend that I know doesn't feel the same but I can't concentrate because of him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 January 2016 (F) - Hi. I am 17 year old girl. I am little worried. I happen to meet a boy last year who had come from a different city. Initially we didn't talk much. After all he was a new-comer. But I slowly realised we had similar interests. And I came to know he ...

I became bored with him and we broke up. What should I do about the fact that I now miss my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

3 January 2016 (F) - I am not perfect by any means, but when I care someone I give that my all. I fell for my ex, believing he was my type of guy. He turned out not to be. I have goals/ambitions/interests and he had none of those. The guy I'm w/doesn't need t...

How do I just "grow a pair" and approach a girl who hasn't shown any interest in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

3 January 2016 (M) - When going out, I often have girls giving me signals of interest. Then there are some really good looking ones that seem uninterested. I would love to ask out one of the latter ones. About three times I've been told by others that after I lef...

I'm a manager and have fallen for one of our volunteers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

2 January 2016 (F) - Feels weird for me to ask others for advice like this but guess I need some perspective, thanks in advance. I am a manager and work with volunteers. I have a dilemma and kind of need someone to bring me back to earth. I have strong feelings ...

Why is he so confusing? Shall I just try to forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

1 January 2016 (F) - Ok, So I started talking to a guy 'C' a few weeks ago after matching on a dating site. He is 23 and I'm 20 and we live a few miles from each other. We got talking and he asked for my number. Things went really well for the first couple of...

Why is he lying about having a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

1 January 2016 (F) - Long story short: "Why does he lie about having a girlfriend when he does not have one?" So I met this guy (lets name him X) in a game, he's pretty cool and we hit it off really well. We often talk on a group chat channel together with...