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Is it a coincidence that I see him there on my day off?

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Question - (29 June 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2014)
A female , anonymous writes:

A question for men or women.

I am in my 40s and know of a guy that goes to our local coffee shop every day at the same time in the morning (my friend and myself have noticed when we do school drop off). However there is one day that he goes into the coffee shop later and that day is the same day that I go in to have a drink as its my day off. He does this every week.

Can you call this coincidence in the fact that he may just go into work later that particular day.

If I am sitting down having a coffee he does look over a couple of times but then he could be seeing who is in or looking out of the window.

Would you find it coincidental and decide to change your day to see if they did the same thing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2014):

Or, if you think he's cute, why not just ask him if if he'd like to have coffee and a chat with you the next time?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (30 June 2014):

Honeypie agony auntHe might think YOU are following HIs routine...

Like Uncle Mark said, switch up your routine on that day off and see what happens.

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A male reader, Mark1978 United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2014):

Mark1978 agony auntOnly one way to find out. Change your routine and see if he follows suit.

At present we don't know enough to judge so I would give a variable routine a go and see what happens.


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