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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I'm going abroad for a job, shouls I let him know how I feel for him? I've only met him once but I just know he's specialw

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I'm leaving in a month for a job abroad. Should I just tell him how i feel. I took him into consideration but I just feel like I need to move on. He hasn't made a move, we only met once, but I just know what I like. I know what I want and it ...

What does it mean that he walked past me and blew in my ear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3915 days ago

31 July 2013 (?) - Is he being friendly? is he playing? does he like me? what the heck is he doing? If you've read my questions before, this is the same guy. If you have not, that's ok. About three days ago I was just standing in the auditorium looking for ...

I need advice on how to get over this foolish crush I developed on my boss at my work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I need advice on how to get over this foolish crush I developed on my boss at my work. Ever since I started that job I began to like him. He is the more quiet and serious type that is pretty much all about work. I can't understand why I ...

Is she really busy as she says, or just keeping me on hold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - There's a girl I really like and know through my summer job. We talk quite a bit and I enjoy her company. We can be really honest with each other, she tells me about things how she felt a bit overwhelmed away at school or goings on in her life, etc. ...

If a guy 'likes' a photo of a woman in a bikini, does that mean he likes the woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - This is likely just me over-thinking things again, but a little input would be lovely anyway :) So, a social media question - I recently put a photo of me in a bikini at the beach on Facebook (which I found tremendously difficult to do. I've had...

I have strong feelings for my friend but am sexually restricted by my culture. What do her actions mean? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - I am an Arab man (but also a Christian). The rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. Of course man and woman can do whatever...

I've been burned before and I'm worried it will happen again with this guy who lives in another country.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago at a music event. He was the producer of the event, but I didn't know this until much later. I just saw him there and was immediately drawn to him. After the event was over I went up and introduced myself and had a chat ...

I feel like I'm falling for my best friend but I'm worried about pushing him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - i feel like i am seriously falling for my best friend. this is very confusing to me, though not really because i guess it kind of makes sense. we seem to be perfect for one another but i think we are both afraid to make any initial steps into doing ...

How can I get talking to this guy I like or perhaps even ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) - I have been trying to get healthier and since I am not dating and am retired I devote more time to myself. I don't go to the gym or anything but I have been a little upset because I have gained a little weight. Anyway, I went to a health food store ...

I like a guy from my karaoke club and he flirts with me but he comes in with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) - Usually about every Saturday I go to a club(karaoke) and I have some friends male and female. One guy there he is a really good singer and him and I have done some duets together. I have been told that I sing good as well. I know it might sound ...

We were close friends until I told him how I felt, now he has cut contact with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - Been close friends with this guy for over 3 years; friend, confidant, etc. He was widowed over 2 years ago, and in the past year, we became close as he was ill and i was helping out etc. Long story short, too much contact, too much sharing, I fell ...

Do I believe the things he tells me when he's sober or when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We were once best friends but we have decided to take our relationship a little further. (we're not officially together though). He likes to go drinking with his friends but he's not a heavy dri...

Is it ok to have a crush on my 20-year-old karate sensei?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I'm 15 and I go to a karate club in my town 2 days a week with a Sensei who is now,quite literally my best friend. I am the sort of person who doesnt really have friends apart from a few and I trust people a lot once I get to know them. Anyway...

Is it ok for me to send a fan letter to a singer I admire?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - Hey guys :) Okay, so for a while I've become a huge fan of Josh Groban (a singer). Now, I've never been very talkative with my family e.t.c. about what I like and stuff, but I really want to write my first fan mail to him by post. He's fr...

How do I resolve my feelings about my sexuality? Should I wait until I have my first crush on a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) - I think im bi. Not completely positive, but i will see another girl sometimes and be totally turned on. Like girls my age. i KNOW i like boys though. but i dont know how to tell my parents or anything. its so wierd. I dont really know what im asking ...

I've found out my crush has a girlfriend and I need advice on getting over him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - So my crush that I've had for awhile, I think he has a girlfriend . I found out a couple days ago over social media . I was heartbroken . I'm still trying to get over it . Now I wanna make sure that I don't like him anymore after this . I don't ...

Considered cheating?? Deserve another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - First and foremost, I please ask you not to judge. I am totally aware snooping is unacceptable, however, when one feels that something is going on... there is sometimes no other option. And please bear with me, the conversation/timeline of events is ...

I really like this girl but all my friends hate her! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - I realy like this girl but all my friends absolutly hate her. I want to keep my friends and i want to keep my girl what should i do and then to make it worse im to shy to ask her out in person and im not going to ask her out on the phone. i think ...

My questions are is it normal feeling like that because I just met him once?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - About three days ago I met this guy while I was on the beach. Suddenly I stated to stare at him he was very attractive , and at the same time he caught my eyes and I felt so weak my heart started to beat and I started to shake . we were just staring ...

We haven't meet yet. I want to tell him I like him but I'm nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Hello, I sent this guy a friend request on Facebook and he accepted me. A day after he accepted me he liked my photo and he messaged me saying that he wanted to say hello cause I am beautiful. We chatted for a little bit and he said he had to go ...

We're not together but we're jealous of each other. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I'm in a complicated relationship with this guy. We are not together, but we are somewhat talking I guess. We are close friends who have feelings for each other. We made a vow that we would always be open and honest with each other no matter ...

Can I fancy a man without a 'crush?'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Hello there. I apologise if I've contacted you before. I've been in touch with many, in the hope of finding someone who can relate to my problem. I'm a 42 year old woman. I can 'fancy' some (not many) men, and 'fancy' loads more women. I ...

What is the right order for me to approach my attraction to this woman, as I do have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I've been with my bf for around 3yrs now, he's my first bf and I love him a lot. Since a few weeks, though, I think I've been falling more and more in love with a girl who's a few years older than I am (around 10yrs I think) and I need some advice ...

Will I get played by the HUGE player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I've known this guy for 4 years, we met through my ex because they are childhood friends, He continuously made an effort to converse with me and finally I talked back and we became close, Like best friends . tHey lived in a different state. To m...

Guy seems to date a girl but still makes eye contact with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, There is this one guy in school whom I met the first time on the train as we both came from the airport back to the dorm together. We saw each other from time to time and in the beginning, made brief gestures to say hello, either mu...

I have a great husband and family but can't forget a guy from my past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

22 July 2013 (?) - Am a 26 year old lady married with 2 kids. I have everything I want. Am educated/smart, Great hot husband with enough income, 2 amazing kids, lots of sex with my husband but I still can't get over a guy I met 3 yrs ago. He is married too and I know ...

Is it normal that my feelings swing from being in love with my boyfriend to not feeling so in love with him and thinking about my former long-term crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3924 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - Hay everybody, the mess i'm in right now is a bit complicated and i really hope someone could give me some useful advice. I'm 23 and before i met my current boyfriend of 4 months i've had a crush on one guy for 4 years. I've actually been singl...

Is a threesome a good idea? Should I delay decision making, until I return in a month?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles :) I'll start with a bit of back story first. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now and we believe we are in a strong relationship. We've been through a lot what with family death and serious fall outs be...

He's in a relationship, but is he attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I need guys opinion. If a guy teases you a lot would that mean he likes you? Or is it just for a play? I have a guy friend from uni who always say he likes me. but its all for fun. I never took it seriously. But everyday he does...

I feel like I'm in love with my teacher and I don't know how to stop feeling this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 July 2013 (M) - I feel like I'm in love with my maths teacher and I don't know what to do. I'm quite young and I know it's not legal for me to have an intimate relationship with her but I just can stop this feeling. The last thing I would want is for her to lose ...

Does the fact that my best guy friend, whom I like, and I are not a couple yet mean that he's not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - My best guy friend and I've became best friends since our high school years. We talk and text each other almost every single hour. We share our moments and stories together, even when we both had relationships with other people. Lately I start...

Should I get in touch with the guy I like, wait until we're at the same social event again, or just leave it altogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - I went to a posh boat party a month ago, and met this guy there, for convenience lets call them "Tom". We spoke and for about 20 minutes and I realised we had a lot in common with football, tennis etc! I then went to a garden party and he was...

Would it be creepy if I texted the girl I like to tell her I think she's cute?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 July 2013 (M) - Hi. Girls in the forum, I wanted to ask whether you would find the following thing I'm thinking of creepy or not: There's this girl whom I find to be really attractive whom I've met (or rather come to know of) as part of occasional workp...

Like a fool I told my crush how I felt ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - So I told my crush of 6 years I liked him and he replied "I understand. Bet you feel better now that you got that oft my chest." See he was a good friend. I was dating my ex when this guy and I met. We totally hit it off and since my bf was a truck ...

I want him to be my first kiss, should I move on or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - There is this guy in my year at school and we are good friends we flirt a bit but it's really awkward because everyone in our year knows that at some point one of us has fancied the other.I still fancy him but I'm not sure he fancies me. We are at ...

Why did he react that way to my confession ? Please help me to understand...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Hello ! So here it is, sorry in advance for the length of this message... but I'd really need an enlightenment on this :/ I'm at university and I met a guy almost a year ago in class: he is the one that approached me at school. We talk...

Should I carry on until he leaves and let it die out or do I tell him it's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, I think I'm in deep with this one. Someone I met through work recently started talking to me a lot more than they used to. We had a flirty relationship at work but he was like it with everyone so no one took it too seriously...

I call my crush, but he never seems to make the effort to call me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - dear cupid i have a crush on my best friend of 5years. he doesnt know it but i really like him. we are very close and used to talk with each other everyday.. we say things like i love you and really really like each other alot. but im tired bec...

Does that sound like he was keen to come and see me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I just wanted some opinions on my situation. About three weeks ago I hooked up with a guy in a band (they were on tour). He gave me his number and we had been texting back and forth for about two weeks. He's not from my state so I went ...

I really like this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

16 July 2013 (M) - Hi everyone, I was talking to this girl on a dating site and we had been talking for nearly a month. We were getting on really well and we had similar interests, she even admired that she really liked me and I liked her a lot too but I feel really ...

Should I try to date my child's teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

15 July 2013 (?) - I had been working towards pursuing one of the teachers that i had got to know in my childs school throughout the year and finally got round to increasing the flirting to encourage an opportunity to get to know him more over the summer holidays, i ...

I rejected him then developed a crush on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - I think I'm in love. but im not sure. i hate to admit it but i think i have this strong feelings for someone i rejected. I told him to leave me alone. he did. Life went on as normal as it was. 3 weeks had past and I had been dating with othe...

My long distance boyfriend insists we get married so we can be together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Thank you in advance for any advice regarding my problem. I am pretty torn up inside and I'm not sure of what I should do. I'm 25 years old and so is my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been in a transatlantic, long distance relationship for about ...

I'm shy but I want to tell him how I feel!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - i really like my cousin. hes not my blood relative cousin. my friends think its weird anyway i want to tell him how i feel about him but im a shy person and its so hard when i see him i always look my best and try to drop hints that i like him ...

Heartbroken, in love with ex crush

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 July 2013 (?) - Please help. I have been noticing this man around a lot the last 3 weeks and we've been flirting (staring mostly by him and lots of smiles) we have not had chance to speak but have feeling that we would have got along, just didn't have chance to ...

I really want to make plans to see him again, but I feel like he should get in touch with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm 31 years old and recently met a guy who is 37 through an organization for which we both volunteer. We made plans to meet outside of the organization last weekend. I went into it thinking that it was just two people hanging out, but...

I really don't want to get into this relationship because we are both married but my heart tells me otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Hello. Am having strong love feelings for my workmate. He is married with four children and according to what he always says he loves his wife and no woman can replace her although he can be available to any woman for fun without his wife knowing...

How do I make her love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

10 July 2013 (M) - i am in class 10th and love a girl who is a year younger than me.. The problem is that she hates me a lot. Once i had proposed her but she said no with a reason that she thinks me as her brother.... I can't take big steps because it's school days so ...

Should I be giving up my best friend just because I have feelings for him? He said he's happy to stop having sex, but doesn't wanna lose me as a mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - I have fallen for someone I can't have, but I knew that when we started and now its too late. I met this guy about 9 months ago, we clicked immediately, he had a gf but decided to sleep with me.. I knew it was wrong but he said it was just a bit of...

I really want to know if she likes me or not but I don't want to ask her because I don't want to ruin our friendship if my friend is wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - So I have been friends with this girl for about a year now. We're best friends and everything was fine up until recently when one of my friend told me that she is bi and likes me... Which I don't have a problem with seeing as I'm bi. I just fi...