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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I hate being part of a list,but all the boys of my age don't want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1848 days ago

30 August 2013 (F - Hi guys. I have an issue i need some advice on! Over the weekend i was at a festival and kissed this guy. We spent e whole night together and he was really sweet. I kind of knew it would be a 'one night thing' (we didnt do anything more than ...

Is it childish to ignore someone who rejected you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1849 days ago

30 August 2013 (F - I have a male acquaintance from home, I've never really known him very well but as we both go to the same riding club I see him quite often and am good friends with a lot of his good friends. It's a big riding club with many people from my old ...

I really want to talk to him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1844 days ago

30 August 2013 (? - Ok well it's sophomore year and my friend J(first letter of his name, not gonna reveal his full name) finally is a high schooler but he's older than me by a month. Ok back to the story, we've been talking since I was in the 8th grade and he was ...

He has a girlfriend but she's no good. How can I get him to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1850 days ago

28 August 2013 (F - Dear cupid, There's a guy at my school my age. Our dads know each other so I know a bit about him. He has a g/f of 9 months. I've liked him for a year so I was gutted to find out he had a g/f. She's so horrid and flirts with his friends. We aren't r...

She said she likes me, but I don't want to lead her on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1849 days ago

28 August 2013 (M - About a month and a half ago, I told a girl that I liked her. After a few dates she gave me a letter on my birthday that told me she liked me back. Ever since that, I've been worried about it and regretting saying that, because I don't want to be ...

Was she suddenly aloof? If so, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1847 days ago

27 August 2013 (M - Hi, I am an older guy, early 40s, messed up some key choices in life. Am single, have middling job, somewhat shy. Not so much experience with women, though trying to get better. In the beginning of summer, a woman from work called me to tel...

He contacts me after a year -- what's going through his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1853 days ago

26 August 2013 (F - Hey so I met this great guy just about a year ago at a summer music intensive. We got along well and I found him extremely attractive. A lot of us exchanged numbers at the end of the camp so it wasn't very meaningful that I ended up with his phone ...

Found him on Facebook but too chicken to add him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1853 days ago

25 August 2013 (F - Hey I met a guy whilst on guide camp, I'm 21 and a leader with the camp and he was one of the service crew I fancied him and we ended up staying up till 2am just talking with some other people but nothing happened I didn't see him after th...

Should I write a letter to my crush expressing my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1854 days ago

24 August 2013 (F - Hello everyone, I have a big crush for someone. He's a Police Inspector and he helps me in my work. Well, I'm not in the police sector but my work consists of prosecuting environmental offences. I never intended it and never wanted it, it just hap...

My boyfriend is trying to stir up drama when all I want to do is talk to him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1853 days ago

24 August 2013 (F - My boyfriend is on a lads holiday at the moment and last night he dropped me a message that he had to be honest and on his first night he had kissed another girl but it didn't mean anything. I told him I was glad he told me but I wasn't going to ...

How should I act around the man who rejected me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1854 days ago

23 August 2013 (F - I had a crush on a man, who was out of my reach. It was inappropriate. But I told him I had a crush on him and he pretty much rejected me, with no answers after a lot of flirting, when we'd see each other, smiling, waving, winking etc. he didn't h...

The girl I've had a crush on for years is moving away! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1856 days ago

23 August 2013 (M - the girl ive had a crush on since seconded grade is moving to florida this new year what do i do. should i tell her how i feel or forever be quiet and give up on her. if you have any better ideas please tell me. 8/22/13 ...

Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1855 days ago

22 August 2013 (M - Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it? I have a girlfriend and work with a woman who is married but gives herself away all the time - she clearly has a little thing for me. For a while now our ...

I want to find him again, we had the most amazing kiss chemistry ever, am I being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1857 days ago

22 August 2013 (F - hi everyone. this is going to seem a rather dumb post but its something i feel i need to get off my chest. from the ages of 12 - 18, i was a member of a karate club. i made a lot of friends there and was very close to a few members, includin...

I've been involved with a guy from work who also has a girlfriend. Things were great but I feel like he's backing off. How can I keep him interested?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1857 days ago

22 August 2013 (F - I've been seeing a guy from work for a while, i started there in April and I've had so much fun working with him and flirting away. We get on great! The flirting increased about two months ago and we started sending dirty texts and pics, which ...

I'm not sure if he prefers me or her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1858 days ago

22 August 2013 (F - So, I like a guy at my high school, and I know he likes me or at least likes flirting with me. We flirt often because we play the same sports, but don't have any classes together. One of my friends thought he liked me, too, which helps because I ...

If a girl at work or serving at a shop that I frequent tells me "I am so bored", would you think that is a signal of interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1858 days ago

21 August 2013 (M - If a girl at work or serving at a shop that I frequent tells me "I am so bored", would you think that is a signal of interest? I have had one or two telling me they are bored, and we should get together, to take away the boredom. I realise the la...

I want to know how I can ask him out without making a fool of myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1858 days ago

21 August 2013 (M - I have a crush on one of the chefs at my job. Ive known him for about six months and in that time the only time he notices me in when the chefs need dishes. Im 17 and he is 23. I want to know how can i ask him out without making a fool of myself or ...

I'm married, he's married. Do I tell him that I have a crush?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1859 days ago

20 August 2013 (F - I am married and I have a crush on a married teacher I met only briefly. Should I tell him? ...

How can I get a girl who maybe liked me in the past to definitely like me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1856 days ago

20 August 2013 (M - So last year around October I started liking a girl, which developed into a heavy crush. I fell in love with her but I never did any major moves with her. At some point at the beginning of this year things were moving greatly, but for several ...

any woman who gives me the least bit of attention I already become attached to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1854 days ago

20 August 2013 (F - Okay first off, I am a female myself. Lately, especially the last year that is, I've felt a sort of strange attraction towards women that I can't really describe. Not sure if this has much to do with it but I know of myself that I am definitely not ...

Pretty girl on the tube -- how to approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1859 days ago

19 August 2013 (M - so there's this girl I've seen on the tube a few times recently, and I thinks she's quite pretty. id like to say hi, but not sure of the best way to do so if I see her again? I mean to just approach someone like that in a crowded environment not ...

I have feelings for a man who is out of my reach, how can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

19 August 2013 (F - I have feelings for a man but he is out of my reach. I know we can't be together as he is just starting his career as a doctor and I am much younger than him. He will be leaving to another city to continue his residency in seven months and I ...

She seems more friendly to me than to others -- could she be interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

19 August 2013 (M - I sometimes shop at this supermarket and checkout by this girl, who is always very nice to me. She is always very interested in hearing about me and tells me about herself. When I first checked out by her, I asked her where she is from, which she ...

I really connected with him, but now what? Do I leave the ball in his court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

19 August 2013 (F - I'm currently a student on placement and began my six month placement at the end of April. I was appointed a supervisor to over see my work. Since i began my placement me and my supervisor have gotten on great. He's been really supportive and really ...

Could this man have deeper feelings for this girl? Known this man a long time but he still only appears to flirt, nothing more? Is he attracted to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

19 August 2013 (F - Dear cupids, is it just normal (attraction is there but no more than friendship) or there are deeper feelings involved when a man who has been friends with a woman for over more than 7 years acted and done the things listed below? First, let's sa...

Only my extreme shyness is stopping me from talking to him. How do I get over being shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

19 August 2013 (? - Ok so, school starts Next Monday and that means I get to see my crush again. Yay! But I'd be happier if I can actually talk to him. I'm extremely shy and find it impossible to talk to him. It's not even funny, whenever my mom always ask me to buy s...

He's 16 and I'm 17. Should I try to talk to him when I see him at choir?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

19 August 2013 (F - Ok so! Recently I finally got over my ex, it took like 6 months but I am finally over him, we ended up just honestly stay best friends. Anyway now that I have moved on I found this new guy I really kinda like. I always saw him around the schoo...

Should I act upon my feelings that she might be interested? Or wait until I return from a trip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1861 days ago

18 August 2013 (F - Hey everyone, I want to thank you all so much in advance for reading and responding. I'm having problems deciding whether to act on my intuition and would like to have some advice on how to proceed, as I have a bit of a 'deadline'. I've been havi...

It kills me to hear her talking about him. How can I ask her to stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1465 days ago

18 August 2013 (M - There is a girl that I could swear I am in love with. We talk so much and we both trust each other a lot. Recently she has been telling me about some guy who she is obsessed with. He is some 6 foot 4 "super hot" soccer player. I could not possibly ...

My crush, my soulmate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1862 days ago

18 August 2013 (F - I broke up with my boyfriend 4 months ago, and I've finally forgotten him, recently, (2 months ago) I started taking yoga classes to help me getting relaxed and to get to know me better, and it's really helping me, but the problem is that I have a ...

My coworker says that he might be interested but I think that he might just enjoy my company. What do you guys think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1860 days ago

18 August 2013 (F - I am massively attracted to my superior at work. I am 20 and he is 32. We both work at a hospital, he is a general surgery resident and I am a research student. Are these signs that he is attracted to me as well? He: Always takes me w...

He gives me really mixed signals. Every time I let go he comes back to me. What is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1863 days ago

16 August 2013 (F - So I need to know if this guy likes me or not. We are just friends, but i know he is attracted to me because he has mentioned he is.I have a huge crush on him.I know we have a connection because we have talked on the phone for 6 hours straight ...

I can't shake the feeling that she cheated on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1863 days ago

16 August 2013 (M - think my girlfriend cheated on me but she denies it. She had a very dramatic event occur in her life and had to go stay with family friends for a couple of months. The family had a son near her age who she opennly admitted she found attractive. ...

The girl I love is very goodlooking and she constantly posts pictures of herself online which other guys comment on. Why is she doing this and how can I show her how much I like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1864 days ago

15 August 2013 (M - Too make a long story short. Theres this girl whos really hot and from 1 to 10 shes a outstanding 10, i met her at my school and she was taken at the time, so time went by and she ended up becoming single and me and her became closer. i would ditch ...

I have very strong feelings for her and want to ask her to homecoming dance in a memorable way. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1864 days ago

15 August 2013 (M - The homecoming dance is coming up in a few weeks and there is one girl that I can't imagine going without. We dated less than a year ago but we broke up and I think she still has some feelings for me. The only time I get to see her this year is at ...

Not heartbroken or desperate, just confused. I'd appreciate your advice or opinion, thanks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

15 August 2013 (F - Just so some people don't call me desperate I just wanna make it clear that I'm asking for advice on this issue because I'm super confused. I'm not in love with this guy or am I heart broken, just plain old confused by it. Anyway, I met this guy ...

I finally got over my burning crush on a married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1863 days ago

14 August 2013 (F - I am writing this, so that I can tell people how I managed to overcome a burning crush that drove me crazy for over two years, which was too long for me! I am in a long-term, happy relationship with my boyfriend however I found myself lusting a...

At what point does a sales representive go from being a sales person to being interested in you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1867 days ago

12 August 2013 (F - This is for the guys and girls . . . At what point does a sales representive go from being a sales person to being interested in you? It started off normal, seeing each other through work now and then. As times moved on, the visits are more ...

How can I shut him out my crush on my boss while I'm working so he doesn't distract me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1866 days ago

12 August 2013 (F - I just started a new job a week ago, and I've run into a problem. Let me first say my job is very fast paced, and requires a good amount of physical strength. This normally isn't a problem for me at all. I've worked a job like this before, and ...

He stares at my lips while speaking. Does this mean anything?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1866 days ago

12 August 2013 (F - So there is an older man.. about 10 years older, I am 21... He is my superior at work. He's really smart and I find myself really attracted to him. Every time he is explaining something to me he looks at my lips while he speaks. And when he is t...

I really like him but next year we won't be in any classes together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1645 days ago

11 August 2013 (F - In may i posted: I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science ...

I slept with my boss who has a girlfriend. Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1849 days ago

11 August 2013 (F - Ive had a major crush on my boss at work for a while. A few weeks back when he was drunk he started texting me and said he would like to take me out one time. I didnt agree as wasnt sure whether dating my boss would be a good move. Anyway last nig...

Do I give up trying? Want to hang out with her. Are there better ways to interest a girl? How should I approach this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1869 days ago

11 August 2013 (M - There is a girl that I really like and have very strong feelings for. We have talked every night and have become very close. We have also hung out numerous times. One night I kissed her and she was completely on board. I like her and she likes me...

Why was she hesitant to give me a kiss? Before that we talked.Any suggestions on how I could have handled it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1866 days ago

11 August 2013 (M - I would just appreciate opinions on the following: I was sitting alone in a venue in the early hours, when a girl sat near me and started talking to me. Which is quite unusual for a female to do at 2am. The normal thing they do is stand around g...

How should I handle this situation? My parents would never agree to me going out with this senior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1867 days ago

11 August 2013 (F - There is a guy who is a senior and I am a freshman. (in high school) He is very sweet and isn't a perv who just wants to take advantage of me. He is very caring. I think he likes me because we have tennis together after school and he is always fl...

Why did she ask for a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1868 days ago

10 August 2013 (M - i melt this girl in uni two years ago....we love each other,,and so we decided to enter in to a platonic relationship,,initially she resisted it but i didn't rush her.then about two to three weeks later she brought the topic up she said "i accept ...

Are his texts just jokey or could he be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1868 days ago

10 August 2013 (F - I am in my 40s and have got a male friend who I have known for 8 years. We get on very well bantering and he is very witty and funny. Occasionally when I send him texts he will reply with a double entendre, it depends what it relates to. The ...

I'm devastated to discover my crush wants to marry by the end of the year and obviously not to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1870 days ago

9 August 2013 (F - I'm crying over and over and over :( I m in love with a guy and he also showed many signs that he likes me and I thought he'll ask me out one day.) But When I was talking with him today I realized something . He was talking about his marriage plans ...

I connected with a guy through the internet, he cancelled our first meeting and 2 years have passed since. I'm feeling really down and wonder if I should tell him how I feel.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1870 days ago

8 August 2013 (F - Close to two years ago, i met a guy online. I took the initiative to send him a message on youtube when i saw his videos about depression, loneliness and anxiety (which i was going through at the time) and when i saw that he lived in the same ...

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