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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How do I find out if this coworker is interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - Hi so i just started working at a new job, and the very first day I was greeted by a very handsome coworker. I dont usually get flustered around cute boys, but with him I was a mess. I noticed throughout my shift, this guy kept.coming over and ...

I still like the guy I used to date even though I have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I still like this guy that i used to date, even though i have a boyfriend. Things haven't been going that well with me and my boyfriend lately. When the guy i used to date found out that i had another boyfriend, he called me and asked if i was in l...

We are dating but she is playing hard to get

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 August 2012 (M) - i'm dating this girl she's playing so hard to get. i've tried all i can but it seems like im failing. i wrote her a letter and she almost agreed then i wrote her a joke and she didint like it so she was so agree at me then at the end of time she...

Does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I have known this guy for over a year. The first time I met him I was with my partner. Infront of me, while looking at me he said to my partner, "She's lovely isn't she? She's a lovely girl isn't she?". He even kissed me on the lips infront of him. ...

I think I'm falling for this boy who I have known for 15 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - I think I'm falling for this boy who I have known for 15 years. We never really clicked in a romantic way, or never really thought about each other in that way. And now it seems like we are getting along so well that we are almost like the best of ...

What's with this Personal Trainer at the Gym? He stares at me but then breaks appointments.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Why would he text me like that? Should I bother replying? There's this Personal Trainer at my gym that has been starring me at me all the time everywhere. On the bus, at the gym, while I'm in another room working out he'd be watching me through the ...

How do I ask this crush out without making a fool out of myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - So a few days ago I asked what I should do about the guy I have had a crush on for 2 years. I am at a point where I feel pathetic for barely saying anything to him and embarrassing myself through a facebook message when we were both drunk. I fi...

I told him I'd give him time to sort things out, but how much time do I give him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - I've know this guy for about a year and a half. I've always had a crush on him and kinda felt a vibe from his as well. But he had a gf so other than talking, we never did anything more. He is no longer with this girlfriend anymore and we finally ...

I have a crush on a Starbucks barista??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - I need advice. I have a huge crush on my local Starbuck's barista. He is just so cute, and I haven't had a crush on anyone for, I swear, 2 years. I go there frequently; however, I don't seem to be going during his shifts as much:/ I see him like 2 ...

Should I sponsor the guy I like at work for his charity event or will this make me look too keen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - There is a guy I really like at work; we chat, he says hello, offers to get me drinks etc and is generally nice to me. I have told a few people I think he's cool but I dont know if he knows. I can't work out whether he's being polite or whether he ...

Crush on my teacher and can't let go

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - So Im 17, and I 'love' my teacher who is 32(unmarried, no kids with a girlfriend). This has been going on for almost 2 years now, but circumstances have changed.... he has left and moved to the other side of the world where he once lived 6 years ago ...

I want out of the friend zone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - Hi all So a friend of mine asked me to a formal ball, suit-up etc. The thing is I like her and I flirt with her but she looks past it. I want to make a move on her but I'm clearly in the FriendZone, fml. In the past she was into me but I couldn...

Is this just a crush or is it something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - I will be 41 in two months and this guy I see from time to time makes me smile with my heart. We are not dating just we run in to each other every other blue moon.Man when I see him butterflies race across my stomach, I can't hear anything ,and my ...

I need advice on how to kiss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for a while and I am ready to kiss her. But the thing is I don't know what to do with my lips. I already have the perfect idea for it but I don't know how to do it. How do I do it? Please help me it's going to be ...

Does he even know I'm here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - MEN OR TEENAGE BOYS GIVE INPUT: Ok well theres this boy i like i mean really like and i thought he might like me a little too.well i mean what can i do i have no classes with him and if i wanna talk to him its hard to because hes always around hi...

I blew it with him! What now? I pretend that I don't care but I do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm having trouble with something i can't (and honestly don't) want to understand. about a year ago i went on a trip with my school, and made friends with a boy in my year, because my best friend also knows him. we spent loads of time together...

I still love her, but now she's with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something betwee...

I can't stop thinking of him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I have a problem with this guy I've known for a while he's lovely and I'm attracted to him, also he says he's the same with me! Problem is he has a girlfriend and we have chatted a few times they live together too, thing is he always makes way for ...

Why would this guy flirt with me and then tell my husband things bad about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I have had a huge crush on the guy next door for the past year. A day doesn't pass that I don't think about him. I know he has the same feelings for me too. The thing is we both had someone in our lives before living with. But I broke ...

He seems Perfect, I really like him. But a couple of things are bothering me, am I over analyzing things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Basically, there's this guy I really like. I met him at a training day at work, back in July, and he added me on Facebook and we'd been, speaking a bit and then we started texting. He's so friendly and kind, and I know this will sound odd - but ...

I want to ask a girl out that I've never even spoken to before, how do I approach this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 August 2012 (M) - So, at the moment I am researching in a chemical engineering lab at my university over the summer with one of the professors. Going great. Last week or so a girl was working in the lab space close to me on a different project. I reckon she is st...

The guy I fancy? Or the guy who fancies me? How do I act and what can I do when they are both in the room together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - I have a problem. I fancy this guy at work,and do not know what to do. He shows some signs that he fancies me too The problem is that there is another guy who fancies me. Usually with that guy we joke around. I do not know what to do and how to re...

He's married with 2 children. But WAS very keen on me, but now he's avoiding me. Should I tell the new guy about my (almost) relationship with Manager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I met a guy (manager) of different dept. a few months ago. We became good friends. I told him about some tragedies that happened in my life. He was sympathetic and I started having feelings for him. He is married and has 2 sons. I guess he fel...

Can I be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - i have been in a relationship with this guy(a) for 3 years,but last year he had to move out of town so we r in a long distance relationship now.we have problems(a lot sometimes) but we get bk together.i love him and he loves me too.now there is ...

He hasn't been in touch since our holiday romance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - So I met this boy on holiday (we are both 16) we had about 4 days together and I would sneak out of our house to go see him. we really bonded and it was sweet, we both made the effort etc... When we had to part ways, trust it was emotiona...

She's married and we talk about sex, a lot. Are our talks: Just Friendship,a Green Light or just conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

26 August 2012 (M) - I have a female friend, who was married a few months ago. We spend a lot of time together: grocery shopping, errands, etc. When we are talking about other women in my life, she seems to get jealous and threatening(verbally) toward them. She has ...

Using my friend to make my crush jealous. Big mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - Girl A is a girl that I use to be very friendly with. She and I would talk very often and she would unmistakably say flirtateous stuff to get a rise out of me. I was convinced that she had a thing for me. One day, I tried asking her out but she ...

The girl I love and my ex are going on holiday together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something betwee...

I love my ex AND my Boyfriend. Two different guys, and both with Issues. How can I solve this mess I am in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I love my ex and my fiance.. and they're 2 different people. I was with this guy for 4 years, we had 2 kids together but he was abusive. He was pretty controlling and I took him to court and had a domestic violence order put against him. I star...

Booty is one thing. But were this man's actions disrespectful and selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I met a guy who I slept with the first night. I regreted it the next day and didn't think I'd hear from him again. He works 2 weeks on 1 week off and has been texting me, asking me how I am etc and whether I wanted to catch up when he came back. W...

Men: I have a crush and need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Hi there, I would really appreciate some honest advice here as I am struggling with a particular situation and don't have a lot of people to ask and guess what it is about a MAN! There is a guy I have been working with for the last 5 months th...

Guys! why do I always miss out? What can or should I change to find a loving reliable guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - I am really losing faith in getting with guys so much so that I am wary of being involved with anyone! Every guy I seem to get with is all good and going well for 3 months and then it messes up. I am starting to think it will never happen as I am ...

Is this shaping up as another failed relationship? Or does he just need some space to be sure about us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Hi there I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months, we have been on some amazing dates. We did sleep together, but was not straight away and that was all good too. As soon as things started to get even better he has withdrawn and not aske...

How can an ex lover and ex Boyfriend successfully become a friend? Or am I wasting my time caring about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - I have a Ex-boyfriend who I still have feelings for AND miss. When I first started him he was very generous AND kind as he still is. I was scared to get too close to him because we were very different with out race, religion, AND race. From p...

I'm considering leaving my family for my boyfriend because my parents have made it clear that they are not going to let me be with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - This is quite long, but I really need help so please read it! I am from the UK and live with my strict Indian family. My boyfriend of 1 and a half years was caught with me by my parents a couple of months ago. At first they told me that they ...

So I've 'Given him a lot to think about'? What's that? A ploy to give me hope? Or goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - So, I met this guy at my college in April, and we've been talking and hanging out for the last few months. Things have been going well, and over time I developed feelings for him. I decided to tell him how I felt a couple days ago after we saw a ...

What things really matter and really impact on a true relationship and dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - Does fighting matter in a real relationship? Does sex matter in a true relationship? Do money matters also affect a true relationship? Please i ned your help dear cupid. And what's a good age for a gal to be to start dating?...

I thought he liked me the way I liked him, but I guess not.Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

22 August 2012 (F) - Why did he behave that way? Guys please help me understand this. So there's this personal trainer at my gym who has been staring at me whenever he sees me he even watched me through the doors throughout my work out. Anyway, because he has be...

Re-met my Ex. At first it was so promising. Now the interest has tapered off. Is this how guys are with their friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - Is this really the way that blokes behave with their friends? My story is a little complicated, but in a nutshell... I met up with an ex again after many years apart, we had both moved on in that time and are in new relationships. However ...

What should I say to him? Let alone do about him? Should I ask him out? Or let him do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - ok i,ve known this boy (X) since last august we met in school and we've been slight friends ever since. well in april i went to this concert with my mom and my 2 friends well when we were there my mom said my name and i was ma'am and she was like...

Why does he show me he loves me but won't say it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I am very close to a man at work. He is married. He has made comments in the past indicating that his wife gives him flak for him not telling her he loves her. They have been married for twenty years and have four kids. I know he thinks he should ...

I slept with my best friend's girl (whom I've been in love with since the day we met) Now she has broken up with him, should I come clean with him about what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 August 2012 (M) - Hey readers. I really need your help. My bestfriend introduced me to his girlfriend a year ago. I instantly found her attracive, she is so beautiful. When I began talking to her even her voice was beautiful. I have always had a crush on her but 2 ...

He's my ex. I accidentally saw him out wearing the shirt I gave him. But he ignored me. Why would he wear THAT shirt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - okay so i havent seen my ex since his birthday last month, where i gave him a shirt. we've only spoken a couple of times since then and they were not pleasant conversations. he started dating his ex before me and i moved on. ive never felt so reli...

Serious crush. So how can I manage these feelings every time I am around her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 August 2012 (M) - alright, long question here: ok so about 2 years ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years (prior to that) that i liked her as more than a friend. She was super cool about it but she told me that she like...

I would like to talk to her and eventually ask her out, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

20 August 2012 (M) - I have a situation where I am not sure how to approach a woman. In the past I haven't sought advice for this because all of my previous relationships started under more natural circumstances, such as being introduced by a friend or meeting at a ...

What does he mean by ‘settled in’?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I have known this guy for, about 6 months or so, but our relationship was a professional kind of one until a few months ago. We spent a lot of time together (once a week or more, for and hour or more at a time) and got on really well. Fair to say I ...

He is treating me badly after our fight, How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - I was really close with this guy. We flirted and things but I didn't think he liked me as more than a friend because his actions and words didn't always match up. We got into a fight and he found out I lied to him. Ever since he's done and said some ...

Why does he give me mixed signals? Is it now time to give up all hope of connecting with the Teacher I loved as a teen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - Nearly ten years ago I had a teacher that I fell head over heels for. He was only 5 or so years older than me and single. I was a pretty obnoxious teenager and I made my feelings known to him, and he rebuffed me (rightly so). However, he'd also ma...

Does my cousin like me? He stares and says sorry a lot. What else could it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - hey guys ! sooo i have this problem that i keep thinking about it everyday ! sooo i have had a crush on a my cousin since i was 12 years old and he travel a lot so when he leaves i forget about him. Yet when he come back i start liking him. For...

Does he likes me? Did he ever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

18 August 2012 (F) - I like thos co-worker who is 18...but is somehow a bit mature professionally...but as to relationships..i don't get him... He showed interest and i backed off...afraid because i was never in a relationship and he is so young and tells about me to ...