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female
age
26-29,
*hequeenishere
writes:Hi! I'm 17 years old, and I'm bisexual. I will be starting my senior year in the fall, and I am a high school student. I also have feelings for a 55 year old administrator at my school. Her name is C, and I have been in love with her for about two years now. She is married and has no children. The thing about C is that she knows more about me than my mother or any of my friends. She seriously knows everything about me. The only thing she doesn't know about are my feelings for her. During the school year, she and I talk every morning and every afternoon. I go up to her office often. I feel like she's the only person who really understands me. I also have a crush on another teacher, J, who taught me English my freshman year. C knows about my feelings for J, and she has accepted me and kept the secret between us.C just shows a strong interest in being friends with me, and sometimes I feel a strong energy around her that sets off signals to me that she wants to become romantic with me. I will NOT date anyone my age. I REFUSE. I will NOT date anyone my age, or anyone in college, even. My age range goes from 35-60 for the men, and 35-55 for the women. My question is, should I tell her my feelings at the end of my senior year? I don't think she will reject me or be harsh, but I want to know for sure if she's comfortable with the idea of us being friends first or dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2014): Once you have graduated and turn 18... no one can stop you telling her how you feel. Just don't hold high hopes that she feels the same way. In all likelihood... she doesn't.
You really need to bring your age limits down a bit. These crushes are just that... crushes. To act on them or entertain the idea of acting on them... shows real immaturity on your part. And until you understand why it is such a terrible idea to pursue this... All you will ever be to these people you claim to love is a misguided and delusional little girl with a crush.
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