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If he's interested in me, why won't he act on it?

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Question - (22 June 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok my question is for men. What are men really thinking when they stare at you like i mean not only even subtle to make it clear to you they are doing it, then flirt with you and steal looks at your chest.

I thought this guy may have liked me but he hasn't done anything about it. So i haven't bothered making any effort when i see him now, but he still makes attempts to flirt with me.

why doesn't he just ask me already??

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (23 June 2014):

Honeypie agony auntLooking at your CHEST doesn't mean he is interested in you as person, but that he would LIKe to see what's under the shirt.. THAT is all.

It's like appreciating a nice pair of legs or bum.. doesn't mean you want to DATE/BE with the owner of said body parts.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2014):

Really? Don't pay attention t those looks. They really mean nothing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2014):

I could have written this question myself but this guy listens to me when I talk and looks interested so I'm even more confused! I think like the others have said you can find someone attractive but not want a romance. He could of been collecting images for "the wank bank" for later use.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (23 June 2014):

CindyCares agony auntEh, if every guy who ever checked out my chest from when I was 13 on, had asked me out, I would never have spent one single night home alone watching TV.

Checking out your chest, or stealing looks at it, means " nice chest, I like what I see ", it does not necessarily mean : I want to date you, I am interested in you, I like you etc. For all you know he might not even be single.

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A male reader, devont United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2014):

devont agony auntHe thinks you're attractive but doesn't want to date you.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (22 June 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntMay I offer you a bit of detail from the "Dictionary of Guys"????

"...may have liked me..." REALLY means that he liked your breasts... AND got the impression that you might put out for him, if he "played his cards right" .... Beyond that, there is no meaning in anything else he says or does....

Good luck....

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