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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How do I get over this really strong crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Please tell me if this doesn't make sense to you - it's just really hard to put into words. So I have this friend on Facebook that I've seemed to have developed a crush on. We'd occasionally share likes and comments on each others posts and when t...

Am I reading signals wrong from my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - After a long time of asking questions about my love life, this one really takes the cake. So to summarize my extremely long and currently non-existent love life: I used to have a huge crush on this girl that i had a connection with during high ...

I'm 16 and online dating. He's 2-3 years older. What did his weird remark about me mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi guys. Just wanna ask your opinions too. I've met this guy about 2-3 years older than me and we're texting and stuff and we're just friends. He's really nice. We are also on the same chat site But the thing is we don't talk that often, let...

How can I make her really mine? I know she is attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I met her in high school, and we have been friends ever since. I have told her I love her and she has told me she loves me too. I have distanced myself but she has gone out of the way to make me come back to her. Our boyfriends have been suspicious ...

Am I totally crazy for "loving" someone I've never seen, and who lives in another country, and he has a Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - Ok, this will be a long story so forgive me. So, I am a 20 year old gay male and I've played this online game for years now and like 2 months ago I met 2 really nice people, a male and a female. Over these 2 months I've grown pretty close to them,...

Can our LDR survive if we're not able to meet face to face until 4-5 months time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I joined an online dating site a few months ago. The first thing you need to know is that I'm currently living abroad. When I joined the site, my plan was to move back to the U.S. At the beginning of next year. But, things have happened since t...

A psychiatrist told me I am not mad, (when I asked him) but is it possible to feel something for an historical person who lived in another era? What is this feeling called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Since I was a child, I was always afraid about become mad. Two years ago I learned about the existence of a russian man who lived between the second part of XIX century and the start of 10's. I was enchanted for his behaviour and pe...

Is she still attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Do you think she is attracted to me? I have known my friend for close to 15 years and our relationship grew from just being friends, to close friends in a strange way. I have always been attracted to her and she knows the fact .. She let's me...

I feel like I really want to text him, after our date. What can I say to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3165 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I went on a first date with a guy last night. I had already slept with him after a very drunken night out. We spoke about this and said we will start a fresh. However, he works in the army so he goes away for weeks at a time. So he goes away on ...

She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking ...

I'm a university student with feelings for a staff member but I don't know if there's anything there or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3165 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I'm a mature student and i have feelings for a member of staff at my uni. theyre not directly my teacher but i dont know if theres anything there. We message for hours on end when we're talking, but there are periods when we dont talk at all. He...

I Love her to the max! But since she's not talking, has she found a new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3162 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - Should I still call her my girlfriend while there's no communication between us,we dated for 1 year and 7 months, so just because we not talking I think she found another guy at her school? Or maybe is't because of long distance relationship? I don'...

I just want to get over the crush I have on my friend! Does my dream mean the crush is over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - I have a crush on a friend. He is not a best friend, more of an acquaintance. He is straight and has a girlfriend, so I try to suppress these feelings. I am writing this because I used to have vivid dreams where we fool around. There are some dreams ...

My manager's crush makes him act inappropriately. Should I film him and send it to his supervisor and wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Has anyone ever cringed at their Manager, I work in retail and My Married should I add Store Manager has such an obvious crush on a customer. A young women around late 20s comes in every other day and my Manager, makes no secret he is checking her ...

Did I blow things with my crush when I was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3168 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Okay, I have a crush with one of the guys at my job. We get on really well at work and people often joke about us getting together. He is quite shy however when it comes to girls and would never admit he likes someone (even to his friends). We used ...

He says he ''can't do without me'' but he stays married. I'm single, but what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I'm 22y old and still single. i love married man and he also loves me more. He says he can't do without me. but I can't keep doing fake relationship.what to do?...

She's going out with someone but I still have a crush on her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3170 days ago

22 August 2015 (M) - There is this girl in my school, whom i've became good frineds with, and i've had feelings for her since before christmas 2014, and i've still got those feelings, and i do feel some sort of a connection with her, we share a lot of common interests, ...

How do I keep my hopes up? I'm not allowed to date yet.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - Hi there, I've had my first bf about a year ago, stuff happened, I got hurt etc. I'm angry with him but I still "miss" him. I don't know if he cheated or not, but I still have this feeling that he did. We met online and he's about 5 years older th...

Do I bother him too much then..? Or am I worrying again about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

19 August 2015 (F) - I have a crush. We've been friends for three years.I told him about 6 weeks ago at camp were we work that I like him kinda. I'm very conflicted as he's my first crush.I was raised in a male only household so i have a knee jerk reaction to not ...

Is my boyfriend's boss flirting with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has told me about his female boss who he insists is just being friendly. She often calls him handsome when saying good morning to him and has even commented on his body. I think this is inappropriate as she is his boss. I'm not sure if ...

What should I do?? What can I say to my parents that would result in them allowing me to walk to the cinema on my own?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I have been dating secretly. My parents are not as accepting as my friends' parents are. So whenever I go out for movies with my boyfriend, I have to tell half the truth and ...

How can I let down the girl who has a crush? And how to tell my good friend of 20 years to politely to back off and not involve herself in my business and my family as much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3174 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - My closest friend of almost 20 years in driving me crazy and I don't know how to tell her. She has always been "part of" my family in a way that she just kind of inserted herself there and I allowed it to an extent. But now I've been travelin...

I finally told her how I felt and it's like I'm the bad guy. Did I do wrong? Should I have just walked away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - I have a situation that I'm not sure about. I have a girl best friend of eight years. This past year I started to develop feelings for her. I waited until she was single to tell her how I felt. Before I told her she would give me mixed signals, ...

Is it weird that the guys in this one family in my small town always stare at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - Hi Agony Peoples. I'm just lookig for some insight. I work in a small town in a small business and there is this one family who always stare me out of it. They are all men and older than me. Some of them never married or had girlfriends because ...

Are her values too at variance with mine for me to consider an ''official'' relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

16 August 2015 (M) - Hey, been courting/dating a girl for 4 months. Nothing to full on but we do have a sexual relationship, looks like things are on the way to being a "official" relationship. Just found out she had a one night stand before we met. (I'm not judging ...

I miss the guy I made out with ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - So, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year (it's a year next month) and we have been very close and he has treated me well and never made me doubt him. However, I got a volunteering job to work overseas. Before that, we were having a few ...

Is it selfish to now tell him my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

15 August 2015 (F) - Ok so for a while now I've liked one of my guy friends, I've been sort of hoping it would go away but it hasn't. The thing is now he has a girlfriend and I'm scared I've missed my chance to tell him how I feel because next year we won't see each...

I want to tell my cousin I am in love with her. But what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

15 August 2015 (M) - I am in love with my cousin , she is my mother sister daughter. I afraid to tell her I am not sure she love me. i'm afraid to tell her because we're so close to each other and i don't want to ruin this if she told she doesn't love me back . I a...

Would you ever approach an average looking girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guys attention? Is there a (non-slutty) way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behavior? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attracti...

Should I let my Gf's sister know how I feel about this sister of my GF?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

14 August 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid... I have been going out with a girl for almost 4 years but i have always found her younger sister more attractive, lately i have been having thoughts about letting her know how i feel about her. I know she is attracted to me ...

Is it a sign she likes me? Should I tell her the annoying girl is my cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

13 August 2015 (M) - i like this girl. we were at a party, I have seen her a few times around my neighbourhood and I heard from my friend that she likes me also. the party was at my friends house and there was a dance as well. she was dancing and she was facing me, the ...

I can't see myself with anybody else, but she haas a boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

13 August 2015 (M) - I'm a 59 yr. old man.my wife passed away 22 months ago.i met a much younger woman about a year after my wife passed.i immediately had a liking for her although i know i wasn't ready for a relationship.so as time progressed i began to like her more ...

I have a LDR boyfriend. So why am I thinking of this new co-worker who is a player, with an aura of reckless confidence and crude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - I'm with my boyfriend for a year and love him very much. I would never do anything to hurt him. And I always say "don't do things you're not prepared to be honest about". The base of our relationship is trust, deep emotional intimacy, mental compa...

Should I message my work crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

11 August 2015 (M) - Hi there... So a few weeks ago a new guy started at work and he gets the same bus to and from work as me. He is totally gorgeous and I fancied him as soon as I saw him. Now after a few weeks of awkward eye contact and the occasional smile if we pass ...

In these last four days was it impossible to meet for one meal? Is she playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3181 days ago

11 August 2015 (M) - Hello,well hear goes,I've been talking to this woman on a dating site for two years, we finally met a month ago. Went great been texting,almost every day since,but a few days after we met, she went down south for three weeks, I didn't text her for...

How to take my time and not push things on and accidentally mess it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

10 August 2015 (F) - Im having my first real crush the kind were its not just he physical eye candy but someone I would enjoy having around for the rest of my life.anyways we both work at camp and have known each other a while..just this season we became good friends.I ...

I don't know how she really feels about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3182 days ago

10 August 2015 (M) - I have this friend I have a long on and off history with. We had some real rocky patches (Mainly attributed to my drug and alcohol problems apparently) and we ended up not talking for like 4 years. The not talking decision was mine and I ignored her ...

Do I text my brother's best friend who has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

9 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Oh god. So bascially my brother who is 3 years older then me has this really cute friend. A couple of months back I developed a crush on this friend and i used to think he liked me too. But then he got a girlfriend and I haven't seen him...

Why do I get so much rejection if I'm what people say I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

9 August 2015 (M) - Okay so I'm a bi man who's not out as bi. I am confident and friendly and funny (so I'm told) here's my problem. I've been told more times than I can count how good looking I am by both men and women, people telling friends your friends good loo...

How can I get a date or even just talk to the guy outside work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

8 August 2015 (F) - I have saw the guy that i liked so much when i was younger and still like today i always have. It was sometime last year and when i wanted to talk to him i actually did with words coming out for a change lol. I found it really harder back then...

Her actions have confused me. What do I need to know to understand her better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

8 August 2015 (M) - Hi everyone I met a girl a few months ago, and we got along so well. we would speak often and when we met up she seemed to really enjoy it and would message me all day they day after saying how much she enjoyed it. if i compliment her appearanc...

How do I decipher the confusing actions of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

7 August 2015 (F) - hello.. i'm pretty confused right now. I broke up with my ex for a month now, we rarely talked on the phone, most contact we have had was via email and probably like once or twice a day.. He asked me to phone him yesterday for just a general c...

Will I ever be able to move on, despite realizing that he never really loved me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

7 August 2015 (F) - I don't know how to move on... Maybe I never will? We met senior year of HS and lasted a whole year until he cheated on me in college (we attended the same college). He is transferring. I can't move on. I have his snapchat password and I l...

Hot and cold? playing hard to get? Does this guy like me? Or just loves me as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

6 August 2015 (F) - Hello, here is a guy at my college that i've met him in a party. He started adding me on social medias. And he also texted me alot and asked for my number 3 times until i gave it to him. He would flirt with me a lot and compliments me. He also som...

Why do women do this? why allude that we have a future and then jump ship in the middle of the ocean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

5 August 2015 (M) - I've been trying to date a friend of mine for a few months. She said she didn't want a relationship. And I never forced her hand. So for months you don't want a relationship, but you were cool with us talking all night on the phone, video chatting...

Which girl should I keep? Foolishly started dating 2 girls at the same time. Love them both.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

4 August 2015 (M) - I am 22 years of age and a few months ago I foolishly started dating two girls. One girl lives locally and is a kind and generous person, we share many hobbies and interests and my family worship the ground she walks on!! however on my end the at...

He's seeing someone else. But also wants to see me. What's my best response to this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

2 August 2015 (F) - I have been good friends with a guy for a number of years and about a year ago we both found out that we were attracted to each other. We became fwb as neither of us were in a position to have a relationship, even though I really would have like...

Smitten for my online date. What should I do, wait for him, hoping he may text some day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

2 August 2015 (F) - Please help, I met this guy via a dating app. He's 40. We met once and slept at the second date. We both liked each other but I'm new to this and newly divorced and he's very seasoned. I clearly seemed to eager and after he didn't reply to 3 of my ...

Am I chasing a dead end relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

2 August 2015 (F) - Will a relationship come out of my chase? I dated a guy for a year and a half. Everything was perfect until one day my jealously became violent when he left me at his house to go pick up his children from his baby moma's place. After some tim...

Do I consider his efforts to reconnect? My ex has been pestering me for a second chance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

1 August 2015 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a year, but putting it realistically as a "long distance relationship" it was about 6 months. It started off amazing, but then of course that phase faded, and as each month went by i was seeing more of his real sel...