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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I really, really want to kiss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - It's nearly Christmas and I really want to kiss this guy I like (I think he likes me too) but I don't see him very often (I'll see him a few days before Xmas) and when I do our friends are always around, what do I do?...

Can somebody tell me what is in his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, am sorry this may be a bit long but am confused and need help.it started one and half year ago I met this cool guy in my college we are classmates we donot have close friendship we just help each other with things related to colle...

I need advice on how to stop obsessing over someone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I need advice on how to stop obsessing over someone. I'm a medical student in my 2nd year and i've had a crush on one of my classmates for alomst a year and a half now. First time I saw him was in our anatomy class in my first year. I think I was fi...

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...

Does he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - In the past month, I've been developing an attraction for a classmate of mine who I'm pretty sure likes me back. I'd really appreciate someone's opinion so I'm not so confused about what is currently going on. For starters, when I walk int...

I'm in a huge mess...and I have no idea what to do now!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - So there's a long story to this one. I like this girl that I volunteer with. She's three years younger than me and she's an EMT, I'm a firefighter and EMT driver. We both ride the same nights and have been friends for three or four years now. We ...

I'm not sure what the next move is....Do I just leave her alone and let her come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3794 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I saw this really attractive girl at my train station last friday she got on my train and she got off at the same station as me as well. As i was on the train i wrote her a note saying that i though she was very beautiful and i gave her my number so ...

He likes me, he likes me not .... which one is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hey I’m just started my new just as bar maid in this pub where I live. Been there about a month now I half of the guys there have been hitting on me that work there but I’m not that interested in them then one day when I was working the Friday shift ...

I told him I used to have a crush on him and he turned nasty

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend, for starters. And everyone knows about him. I was friends with one of my colleagues and I thought he was a really nice guy. We spent lots of time together and slowly, I developed a huge crush on him. I went totally out of m...

Should I stop flirting and let my friend have him since she's been dying for her first bf for ages? Should I tell my friend I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I have a crush on a boy 3 months my younger (I don't usually opt for youngers I think its weird). He's in the RAF and he's a very funny, mature and caring guy who makes me smile. The only problem is that one of my friends likes him too. ...

Really starting to fall for one of my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Im starting to really fall for one of my close friends. Were together all the time, we share the same group of friends and I was never interested in him in this way but a few weeks ago at our friends halloween party he said goodbye to me and when he ...

How do I ask my professor out - we're the same age

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - So it’s the end of the semester and there are only a few classes left. I want to ask my professor on a date. She’s my age if not younger. I’m in my 30’s and going back to school full time. We’ve spoken outside class and she seems interested. ...

What do you do when the girl you love, loves someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I am single,the old adage is I have really fancied this girl at work for so long, over a year in fact.We always have such a laugh, talk for ages we have so much in common it just feels right talking to her. I never did anything because she had a ...

Don't want to miss out on the opportunity but afraid I'll develop feelings for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi, just asking for your opinion. There is this 50's plus amazing guy at work. He is one of those rare types who attract young girls, more than guys their own age! At work, every and I mean literally every girl would do anything to go out with him(I ...

Don't want to lose her as a friend but she has inappropriate feelings for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Dear friends, I have a female friend at workplace (younger and single). These days I felt she has an interest to me thou she know I am married and have 2 kids. I have shown her my family photo too. As things proceeded I understood things are serio...

I just want a girlfriend but all I get are mixed messages

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - This happens to me a lot and I'm getting sick of it. What can I do to stop this from happening? It doesn't seem to happen to any of my guy friends. My guy friends just give me s**t and tell me I'm never going to get laid. When I try to approach ...

The guy who had a crush on me doesn't even want to be friends anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

23 November 2013 (?) - Okay so I'll tell my problem as a story just to make things easier. "Annie" was friends with "Wilbur" since freshman year of high school. Annie liked another guy named "Elias" who pretty much ruined her life Sophomore year by telling everyone...

Is he not interested in me? How can I get him to step up his game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I'm interested in this guy but I don't think he is as interested in me. My gut instincts and his actions (to me) suggest that he doesn't reciprocate my enthusiasm. Back story: I'm in university and he used to go to my university two years ago bu...

How do I keep an older man interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I really like this guy who is around 8 years older than me. Hes a great guy, has all the qualities I'm looking for but IDK how to keep his interest. I feel like he's losing interest even though he says hes not he's just been a little busy with work, ...

I just don’t see how all of these things could be happening and he still isn't interested!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I am in the middle of an extremely weird situation and am eager for a second opinion, even if it is harder to give valid advice if you have never seen me interacting with this person. So here’s the situation. There is this guy, I’ll just call him...

How do I find out if my crush is interested without jeopardizing our work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - Hi aunts, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this question. I've been dating somebody that is completely 'my type' from the way he looks, to his hobbies and dress sense for around the last 5 months, everything has been great. H...

Haven't seen him for years but I want him to see me now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, When I was 18 I met this guy on a social networking site we spoke for 6 months day in day out and he came to my city to meet,we just kissed nothing else happened..but I must add however superficial this might sound I wasn't a pretty t...

I really like her, but I messed up. I just want to say sorry, but is it too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - So I sort of messed up with this girl. See, I'm a firefighter who volunteers. And there's this female EMT, I've known her for 3 years outside of squad. A bit of back story, we dated for almost a month but on both our ends, it wasn't working ...

My boyfriend of a year and a half looks up pictures of half naked girls online.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half looks up pictures of half naked girls online. I found out through his Facebook page, because he left it open once and every page he had been on was like all pictures of sexy half naked women. My boyfriend loves me ...

Missing my LDR. Should I book a ticket to see him at Christmas? Or make him wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - What should I do? I miss him so much:(? So I'm in LDR with my boyfriend. He's the most sweetest and romantic guy I've ever been with. and his body is just amazing!! I trust him, and out married friends set us up so I trust them and him. We'v...

Does he like me? Very close contact left me shaken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - There's this guy that I really like in my music class. He's really shy and he's never had a girlfriend but he is possibly the nicest person I have ever met. I asked him once if he wanted to go out somewhere a few months ago and he politely said that ...

I think she might be the one, but she's with someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - have i found the one? i`ve met this girl 2 months ago n in 2 months we grown to be good friends and i am developing feelings for her trouble is she is already in a relationship but she seems to like me n spends more time with me than she does her ...

How do I follow up with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3808 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - Hello all, I've got another question that needs answering. Last night I got the phone number of a girl I noticed recently. I noticed her because while I was preoccupied with something she asked to see my phone. I didn't really care as it was locked ...

I tagged him on fb and he didn't respond and now I don't know how to act

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - i have a huge crush on a guy who is not in my class in college but he used to show signs of liking me too.even though we dont speak to each other we're frens on fb where he answers only when i speak first.a few days ago i tagged him and some of my ...

We are chatting online but I don't know if we are dating and I'm losing patience!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3808 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - Hey everyone....I started work about four months ago. And I met a guy there, I was instantly drawn to him. I have been single for more than two years and I have not been attracted to any guy since. Therefore my attraction to this guy is kind of a ...

A beauty you fancy turned out to have had major plastic surgery done. Would it bother you?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

13 November 2013 (M) - Right so this is a toughie. I'm hoping you guys can help me...cause I really need it!! I met a girl several weeks ago at a club. A real stunner. Beautiful green eyes, blonde hair, lovely figure, very high cheekbones, full lips. She was chatting...

She freaked out a little when I said she was my everything!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys, I'm in a real pickle with the girl I love. We have been together for about 6months now and slowly but surely she has become the centre of my happiness. When ever I'm with her I feel electric and alive. I have had a couple of long term ...

I like her and she likes me, but what about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - I really like my best friends ex and I know she likes me. They broke up 2 months ago but he is nowhere near being over her and to make things worse I live with him. I don't know what I should do...

I'm crazy about her -- do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3811 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I've known this girl for a while now, She's my bestfriend, but I think I'm starting to fancy her, a lot. I've never felt like this with another girl before, so it's a strange feeling for me. I've never thought about being with another girl before, ...

He's 21. Is that such a big age difference? Will people judge me about the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I met a lovely young boy who is 21. He is cute and nice. He's trying the best to makes me not feel the age difference. My problem is, do i date him or tell him to find a girlfriend his own age, or can i continue date him because i do love him? I...

How do I deal with a coworker where I feel there's some kind of chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3640 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupids... Started a new office job a few months ago and been working closely with this guy. Since the beginning there was some attraction however we've always acted in a professional manner (no personal conversations, just regular superfic...

Dealing with workplace infatuation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we are in it for the long haul I believe. Some complaints here and there, but overall happy and a good couple. We've been planning to get married as soon as we stop moving around. Built a nice nest egg ...

Does this sound like a happily married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I am 35 single female never married, has a crush on a manager 35 (he is married with 2 kids under 7) in the same office building. We connected on linkedin and after that it was non stop emails from him to me telling me about at first how he(only he ...

Does it sound like we are just friends or could he like me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - I'm really attracted to a man at work. He seems to like my company. He asks me things about myself, he bought me coffee once, he sits near me in the staff room and the other week, he asked where I was when I wasn't in. He is a nice man and a ...

Is he playing games or does he fancy me? Why did he delete my phone number? Yet still flirts with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - Very brief- The guy is mid 40s. We work together and used to get on really really well, flirting, he use to be my bodyguard, defensive protective and at times jealous. We had a big argument, i told him i didn't fancy him (rumours were going arou...

I don't want to come across as a stalker, but my feelings for her are only getting stronger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - Sorry for the length, any advice is really appreciated. 6 1/2 years ago I met a women who from the moment we were introduced I felt a connection and we clicked, for 2 years from that initial point I questioned my feelings towards this person, ...

I thought that he liked me, but now he completely ignores me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3815 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - Okay so last year I really liked this guy and I had a really strong feeling he felt the same about me cause I could tell by the way he acted. He's really shy and I understand cause I am also, he says hi to me every time he sees me, but after I saw ...

He gives me butterflies. He said he is "Falling for me hard" - what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three months now and I'm the happiest I've been in years, I literally can't remember the last time I was this happy in life. We have a lot of banter but he's also so sweet and caring and is a gentleman deep...

He wants to meet in person but I'm afraid

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - I've recently met this guy online who is 8 years older then me. I like him soo much but we haven't met in person yet. On my profile I have pictures of my face not my body, he hasn't asked me for a picture of my body yet and the one that I do ha...

Never had much luck with boys so wondering how to proceed with this one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

4 November 2013 (F) - I am seventeen years of age and have had much boy luck! I really like this boy in school and because of my luck with boys i am really not confident at all to do anything about it!He does come across as that confident around girls either. I talk to ...

How do I say goodbye to my teacher/crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

4 November 2013 (M) - I am a male sophmore 16 years old in southern california and i am upset because my english teacher 23 yrs old(teacher in training) is leaving beacause she has completed her training. She is extremley attracitive and even called me her best freind no ...

Do guys think it's wierd for a girl to make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

4 November 2013 (?) - I really like this guy and he knows. Hes super shy so he hasnt really made any moves (I think he likes me but im not sure because ive never had a guy like me before). I really want to kiss him next time I see him so I was wondering if it was weird ...

How do I tell my crush about my feelings towards her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm 18 and I have great crush on a girl. She is also 18 but one month younger than me. And I have great feelings for her. We text each other for hours at social networks. And I think that she also feels the same what I feel for her....

Was there veritas in his vino?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - Okay so this isn't a really major one but last night I went to a nightclub with my mates, then one of the guys who I've know for about a year (we don't really text or anything) well he's jut got a job which will mean he is living abroad for sixth ...

I know he just got out of a relationship ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - I really hope and pray someone can please help me out. When I was young about 14 or so I was at a party and I met this guy we made out, then at one point we went outside and walked to a park and just talked. At that time he was a bit older so when ...