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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My dad's new partner won't let him have a relationship with me. is she insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - He cheated with her on my mother!!! Then he left her for my mother after 4 weeks of being with her and dumping my mum. Everytime me and my dad arrange to spend time together she seems to put a stop to it. My dad has to call and text me secretly behind her back too. I don't ... (75 words)

Should I have to beg this man to see me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I would really appreciate some objective advice as I am feeling very confused and stressed. I started seeing a guy 4 months ago. It was going well until he met my 25 yr old daughter who took an instant dislike to him and made it clear Since then it was a bit awkwar... (491 words)

Should I have given this guy a third chance to meet up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy contacted me on a dating website and he was originally from my area. He is a good listener, has a good sense of humor, and actually knows how to use a phone unlike other guys on the website who seem to like to hide behind texts. We hit it off and we started texting ... (487 words)

Stuck in the middle and not sure what to do with holidays and family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - This Christmas my boyfriend's family have very kindly invited us (me and my two children) to their house for 3 days. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he is really great with my two boys,and he is a fantastic dad to his own daughter who he sees regularl... (367 words)

My boyfriend cheated but I want him back..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a 2 year relationship, and after the first year I would catch my boyfriend trying to talk to girls once in a while. He always apologised and used excuses such as "i was bored" "i was just trying out my game again" "it dont mean anything" Just 3 months ago, I fo... (403 words)

My friend has blown hot and cold for three years. What is going through her mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - This happened a while back. In fact, it's kind of been something that's happened over the years. At the age of 18 I had a part time job at a restaurant and was acquainted with a girl there my age. I wasn't at all attracted to her but she seemed very chatty, and invited me to ... (258 words)

Truse issues, especially with older men. How can I find a healthy balance and deal effectively with this pressure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to have trouble trusting men, especially older men. Being in a work environment where I am usually the only woman in the department, and a still semi-young one at that, I tend to get the attention from older colleagues. I'm sure most of them mean no harm and I br... (712 words)

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. We have been talking almost 9... (477 words)

Fiance issues. What should I do? What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - MODNOTE two issues concerning fiancé combined. . . . . . . My fiancé a couple of years ago, made some very bad decisions and cheating on me many times as well as lied, hid a 2nd phone to be able to chat with other women, and was sleeping with his ex which is his sons mother ... (693 words)

Should I keep talking online to "her" if I have doubts about "her" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (M)

age - I made friends chatting with a 'woman' online. Due to a bug, her e-mail address was revealed to me. (She doesn't know this.) The email address is a male's name. I'm just curious-- what do you think the chances are that this is a woman sharing an e-mail account with her partner? ... (70 words)

She broke her virginity with my brother and friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

23 November 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Well this happened Saturday during her 18th Birthday celebration, after I left for the night. anyways she had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother and lost her virginity as well. (they did it about four times that night), and I didn't even know about ... (180 words)

How much should I be involved with friends' love life?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

23 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - As I grow older I recognise things that make me hurt and angry. One of those things that trigger me is when good friends stay friends with people I dont think are nice people and are mean, Another is friends dating people i dont like, also when freinds sleep with people they ... (324 words)

Does he really still care for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm trying to figure out if my ex still has feelings for me... We broke up just over 2 months ago, we were together for four month and up until the last 3 weeks our relationship was amazing, we broke up because he had decided he was too busy to have a relationship (basical... (300 words)

What's my best stategy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - I want to ask a girl out but i dont now how to because i want to do it in a creative way since i wont be able to do it in person for a long time.... (37 words)

Won't tell me how he feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Do actions speak louder than words? He my new guy in my life about 5 months is not one for being open about his feelings. I took a break from talking to him because I felt he didn't want to talk about us and our relationship. He said it takes a lot for him to fall for someone ... (154 words)

My crush. He's 20, I'm 17. Should I wait 2-3 years for him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a 17-year-old Asian international student. And I'm having a crush on a guy for a few months who is 20 right now. Actually he already had done some sexual stuffs with me although we're not in a relationship. Days ago I confessed to him that I liked him. He replied that ... (195 words)

Am I falling for the same type of man all over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been single for over a year, not been near anyone since and have been working on myself. My last breakup I realised was an entire lie... A lie which ended in a court case for me ex for assault... He should of got ABH if not attempted murder really, but I finally feel I ... (306 words)