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If she liked me so much then why push me away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

3 November 2016 (M age 36-40 - Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well. I need some advice about a girl i met just over a month ago. So ill tell you abit about the situation. So i met this girl on a dating site and we basically hit it off quick. I mean like we both talked like we knew and trusted each... (1222 words

My husband never agrees with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 36-40 - My husband never agrees with me . I will say , you siblings dont like me and he will say yes they do or i will tell him something that has happend and he will say no they didnt but if they say something about me he will do the same thing say i didnt . I told him we dont have ... (93 words

I just feel emptiness! How do I bounce back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (M age 30-35 - Hello people I suffer from anxiety and OCD. In the last 2 years, I found out my girlfriend was cheating, I dropped out of college, changed 2 jobs and currently unemployed. I spend most of my time in my room. My thoughts drive me crazy. I've tried behavioral therapy and meds... (150 words

My best male friend chose a g/f over me and 6 years later I found out he married her. How do I get over the hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 30-35 - So I was best friends with a guy who I had known all my life right up until we were 18. Even though we didn't see each other anymore, I still messaged him all the time and I still considered him my best friend. But he then got a girlfriend, who made him cut contact with me. I ... (292 words

Sex with my uni professor, help please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 30-35 - Hello I am 24, he is 42 (I know he is so much older than me) I have always been drawn to and dated older guys (besides my first boyfriend.) Anyway he is my professor, now when I say my professor, he is a lecturer at my university and he is the leader of several modules/classes ... (301 words

Was I right to kick it into touch?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 30-35 - I am feeling so crushed and confused right now. I was in a relationship and I thought he was perfect for me, good to me, great to my little girl. I was great friends with his Mum. Then on Saturday I was having coffee with his Mum and his brother were in the kitchen talking ... (218 words

Why do I get so upset when my husband masturbates??! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my husband for about a year and a half now, I'm 26 and he's 31. I have to say I am not bad looking at all but I just feel so unsexy when he masturbates! We don't have sex as often as I'd like to and I always initiate. He never does! I wait for him to and then I ... (213 words

Married for 15 years, wife confessed to cheating on me early on. I'm mad at her but also very sexually excited by the dirty details! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have 2 young boys. We are happily married and are of Indian origin but we were both born in the UK where we have both lived all our life. The first 2-4 years of our marriage was blighted by my wife thinking that I was in l... (438 words

Should I ask him the questions I have and perhaps finally get closure?

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3 November 2016 (F age 51-59 - I would like to seek an advice about an incident that happened way back 1990 when I was 19 yrs old. At age 15, I never had any boyfriend because my parents were very strict especially my father. I am not much exposed to society reason my parents decided that I begin to invol... (474 words

I was asked out on a date by an older man? Should I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 30-35 - Hello all, hope you’re having a good day? :) I haven’t posted on here for a very long time, so apologies if I forget some rules. I was at the bus stop the other day waiting for my usual bus to get home in the early evening. A gentleman was there before me, and smiled at me as ... (691 words

I'm not convinced she's stopped contact with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (M age 30-35 - I had found out that my girlfriend had accepted a married man while still in love with me, I ask her but there was no proper answer from her and I told her to call the man and tell him that she is going out with me but she refused to tell him on phone in my presence and when I ... (135 words

Have a child with my unhelpful ex, my parents are supporting me and I'm pregnant again by the same guy! How do I tell my parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 26-29 - When I was 17 I got pregnant and had my son, shortly after he was born my bf and I broke up. He isn't s bad guy we were both just young. My parents blamed him for me pregnancy because he was older they put more blame on him (he was 29 when I got pregnant). He has been around ... (230 words

How do I stay optimistic?

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3 November 2016 (F age 30-35 - It is coming up on two years since my heart was broken. In that time, I've gone on... Maybe 30 dates? I am actively using dating sites, trying to meet people in person, trying to improve myself... In short, I think I'm doing everything right. And I'm trying not to com... (259 words

He's different to me when he's drunk. Is he punishing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 36-40 - I met an Irish guy doing the regional work in Aus and became close. While he went on a road trip for a few weeks,I met someone else,which only ended up as a fling, and had to tell him when he returned before Christmas. He was very hurt and bitter. But eventually got over it and ... (453 words

He'll only communicate with me via the dating site

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age - Help, I have been messaging a guy for 4 months on a dating site. We seem to have alot in common and message for hours maybe 2 times a week. But we have never met and i have never heard his voice. He wont share his phone number with me or txt my phone number. He only contacts me ... (71 words

The man I'm dating keeps asking for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age - Hello. Looking for some advice. I have been single for 17 years and dating the last eight years. Have had a few relationships that lasted six months. I have had a lot of bad luck in relationships. Seems like men don't want a serious relationship. They want sex and that's all. ... (325 words

Three boys to choose from!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

3 November 2016 (F age 18-21 - Hello im a freshman in high school and I am having some problems with 3 guys... I know it seems like a lot but I really need help because it is taking over my head every single day. (Ill use Boy A, B, and C for their names). Boy A is a sophomore and I have known him for ab... (323 words

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