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How can I best manage my (someyimes) desire to cross dress? I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

23 July 2016 (M age 22-25 - I'll start off by telling you I'm a crossdresser (I think). My life seems to be in a loop where I go through phases of wanting to dress up 24/7 and then phases when I don't even think about clothes or being feminine. I feel really comfortable wearing lingerie, and a dress or ... (275 words

Is this stringing him along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - Is it wrong of me to accept help from a guy who was interested in me before? Im not sure if he is still interested or not, I have not spoken to him for two years. Just happened to run into him, and he offered to help me when I mentioned I was in the process of moving. Im n... (96 words

Men's opinons needed on this man's behavior

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - If a Shy guy who has a crush on me asks me why don't I come to buy my meals when he is working at the cashier desk of a coffee shop of our company. He then nervously changed the topic even before i could say something. Even when he was asking me the questions he wasnt making ... (104 words

My girlfriend doesn't like traditional sex. Is that a red flag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

23 July 2016 (M age 36-40 - Maybe this is a problem a lot of guys would wish to have, but my girlfriend of one year doesn't like traditional sex. She loves to give me oral and when we do have sex she always steers it towards anal sex. I say this jokingly, but feel like I am dating a gay man. It's not... (141 words

Why are all the girls wearing shorts that show their butt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - Why are teenage girls and young adults wearing cutoff shorts so short that there cheeks hang out the back ?? I have seen this for most of the summer and is this the new fashion, to show off as much of your bottom as possible ?? I myself wear cutoff shorts but these are really c... (62 words

I want to date him but I don't want to rush things. Do I tell him now or give it time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - Opinions please!!! So I am newly out of a long term relationship, and after it was over, but before I was moved out a met a guy. I was attracted to him physically but that was about it. Anyways long story short we ended up hanging out, talking, texting and I started to like ... (302 words

I need to return an item to my ex, but don't want to see him when I do it because I'm not over him. Is this wrong of me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 36-40 - I had written in here a few weeks ago. I broke up with the guy who I was dating. Since I do not date much, it's been increasingly difficult to not cry because I got attached. He was super cool, casual about the whole thing. He moved on very quickly.I am happy for him. His ... (218 words

I only attract men who focus on my physical appearance. How do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 18-21 - I've never dated, and it makes me insecure that I might not be good enough for dating. I'm a very attractive girl, and everyone loves my looks, I had 3 guys purposed for me this year, and it's just because of my looks. Don't get me wrong but, I hate the fact that I'm attracting ... (168 words

Cheating. How do I respond to this? I really loved this girl, and was going to propose to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 July 2016 (M age 26-29 - Well me and my gf are both 26 years old and have been with each other for the past 4 years. Met her in my last year of College and have been with her since. We started living together about 3 months of getting together and everything was lovely, for about 2 years. Recession... (584 words

How should I tell my boyfriend about this kiss with a girl while I was drunk?? I feel so guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I am seeing someone for the past year(my boyfriend)but yesterday I stupidly got drunk and kissed a girl nothing more than a kiss and she was cool about it said it's not a big deal and it was obvious that we are both straight cuz I felt nothing and felt like attracte... (77 words

My potential date is acting strangely. How should I approach this issue? What can I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - My friend and i have decided to go on a date next week. We always chat online ( we have met in person ). The other day he said him and his family were doing something for his dads birthday going to a seaside so the original date was canceled till next week. When anyone ever ... (193 words

What help is available for a man who feels "lost"? Loving wife and family, and yet I feel so very alone and isolated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

23 July 2016 (M age 41-50 - I am at the apex of my career. I have a wife who loves me and three great kids. Everyone sees a picture that is so far from what I feel inside. I feel increasing disconnected from everyone and everything. I have no one whom I can ask for help, or even honestly share m... (220 words

Should I give up on a girl I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

23 July 2016 (M age 18-21 - I've known this girl, for what seems like an eternity, we get along great and I can always be myself around her, and I've always felt some form of attraction for her, nothing has happened between us, but in the last few months I felt I was losing her to another guy, ... (151 words

He avoids eye contact, it makes me angry!

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - brief backstory was seeing a guy, became a push and pull relationship, i got sick of it and ended it. went no contact for about 6 weeks until he called to check in on me, saw him in person after that and he shook my hand and wouldn't make eye contact. after that, i got prom... (239 words

How can I stop caring about what people say about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - This is a tough question as I have spend most of my young and early adult life caring about what people think- my life revolves around other people's opinions and how to be a people pleaser - most recently I have gotten a great corporate job and it was going great and still is ... (178 words

How can I stop these obsessive thoughts about men 24/7

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 30 year old woman that has on the outside everything going for her 1.hearh 2. A family especially a love sister and a sown what great materialistic things such as looks- money- and a great job. Even though my life seems structured and great on the outside i feel that ... (236 words

Four years of texting, how do I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 18-21 - Please can someone give me advice on how to forget/let go of someone! I'm holding onto scrapings of hope and I know it won't work! it's been 4 years of texting and only meeting a handful of times and nothing has progressed! ... (51 words

Almost twice my age, will he freak out if I tell him I find him attractive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

23 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - How would men in their late 40s feel if a girl in her mid 20s had feelings and a few x-rated thoughts about them? Would they be repulsed or find it a joke, or be interested in her? Yes I do like a man a bit older and I'm so scared to hell him incase of above. I am mature f... (195 words

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