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writes:If a Shy guy who has a crush on me asks me why don't I come to buy my meals when he is working at the cashier desk of a coffee shop of our company. He then nervously changed the topic even before i could say something. Even when he was asking me the questions he wasnt making the eye contact and looked a bit upset...Why is it such a big deal for him if i dont go there when he is there ....What is he trying to say...? I am confused. I wanna know more of guys perspective on this. Thanks
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (24 July 2016):
 Aren't you the one who's asked all these questions?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-shy-was-he-hinting-towards-going-out.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-close-friends-are-saying-he-doesnt-like.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-this-shy-guy-acting-weird.html
Exactly what validation do you want? You clearly like him and you want him to like you, hence all the questions, but what exactly do you want us to tell you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2016): Clearly he likes you. No harm in encouraging the poor guy a little if you are interested in him too.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (23 July 2016):
 It's possible that he has a crush on you; if he does, he's coming off pretty insecure about it. He shouldn't be getting upset about you not coming around. Seems like a type that would interpret a lot of things as slights against him. I don't think you should follow up with him on whatever signals he's trying to put out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2016): He's being indirect because there could be a policy about approaching customers. He may have a crush like you say.
So ask him when does he work, and you'll be sure to stop-by.
If you do come in, strike up conversation. If he doesn't hold-up his end. Don't bother coming back when he's working. Either man-up or shut-up. Shy people can be annoying when they just lead you on. It's a waste of time.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 July 2016):
 I can tell you this even when Im not a guy, because it's obvious. You said yourself, HE HAS A CRUSH ON YOU. So of course he wants you to buy things when he is at the register, that way he will get to talk to you more often. Why is he upset? Because you're showing no interest in him.
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