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How do I stop my cell phone addiction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 22-25 - this isn't a relationship question, but maybe someone can help me. as silly as it sounds...i am addicted to my cell phone. it's been an on-again, off-again (mostly on-again) issue for the past six years; since i was in college. i've hesitated to call it an addiction for th... (232 words

He ghosted and came back... what now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - I posted a couple weeks ago. I dated someone for three months. The first two months were great. He was affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I) and reached out daily. We met 1-2x a week. However everything changed last month and I thought I would share the timeline ... (516 words

Is it OK for the guy I am seeing to keep on texting his ex when he is on a date with me? What can I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 36-40 - If the guy you are seeing, keeps texting an ex while he is spending time with you,would you be okay with it. Is it disrespectful to the girl? Would you turn a blind eye to it? Will you date a guy who is bff with his ex?... (51 words

How do I fill this void? I've lost hope in love and in a new begining.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 36-40 - I have written here previously as I am trying to collect myself after a series of events and a breakup that happened And wanted to know if, 1. This is normal and will it go away? 2. Any tips of developing a self esteem right as I hit 30 years old. A little background i was ... (417 words

Due to a chronic pain issue I cannot go ahead with this pregnancy. But is my reaction to this termination normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 41-50 - I've just found out I'm pregnant. I am in a happy relationship. We are both at university and have no money. I have 3 kids, he has 2 from our first marriages. This baby was not planned. I am 5 weeks. Due to circumstances including a chronic pain condition I have, we have deci... (171 words

I am involved with a married man and I'm worried he will take up with this other woman who works for him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - No judgment please. I have been having an affair with my married Martial Arts instructor for 2 years now. We still have the most amazing sex and electric chemistry and the relationship is mostly sexual although we both care about each other. It is an affair but after... (1365 words

I don't know if what he's suggesting is okay or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - Here is a bit info about me: I grew up in an unhappy marriage household. My parents never got a divorce(living in a conservative country) and argued everyday. To this day, I do not know how conflicts should be handled between couples or what is considered ok and what is not. I ... (307 words

Does he like me, even a little bit and if so will he think my behaviour is very strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 18-21 - Ok so this guy that i like I also suspect that he likes me but i cannot be sure... He is at the same university as me but we don't see each other all that often - maybe once or twice a week in passing. We have had conversations before (before I got all nervous about th... (696 words

Paper thin wall mean we can hear each other! What's the best way to deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 18-21 - I live in an apartment building in which the walls are pretty thin; so thin that I can actually hear what my neighbor is watching on the tv. So, for the past couple weeks, Ive been hearing my neighbors going at it and its really awkward. I havent said anything, but when i see ... (135 words

Should I just swallow my pride and tell him I really miss him or should I just wait for him to message me first?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

5 July 2016 (M age 18-21 - So I've been at university in Oxford this past year and at the end of April I started dating an amazing guy who lives in Oxford. I'm back at home in Surrey for the Summer now, so I haven't seen him for almost a month now and I really miss him a lot. The issue is made worse by ... (636 words

Everything I do seems to annoy him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 30-35 - Hi I've been together with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now everything was great up until recently everything I do lately seems to annoy him it's like I can't do anything right like for instance this morning he wanted to borrow some money I told him it's in the top drawer he ... (110 words

Is it because I'm moody? Or is my partner acting abusively towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 22-25 - I think I may be in an emotionally abusive relationship but honestly I'm not sure whether I'm just being silly or not. I can be a very moody person sometimes and often can be quite snappy, so I don't want anyone to think I'm wholly blaming my partner for our relation... (638 words

Is it because I'm a teen that I'm thinking about my friend like this? It's stressful

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 13-15 - This is my first time asking anything here, I am a 13 year old girl, going into 8th grade. I feel really awkward because I've been having kind of dirty thoughts about one of my closest friends who I've known for 3 years now, but I never felt attracted to her before. I already ... (140 words

Should I continue as a friend and hope he'll change his mind? Or let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 18-21 - I am in love with a friend of mine and he has told me once before he doesnt really see me as what I see him. He doesnt want to date; at first it hurt but I got over it after a while. The feeling is back and I cant shake it off as I used to worse I think he might not want any... (100 words

She thinks it looks cool. Anything I can say, or do, to change her mind about smoking again??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (M age 22-25 - I apologize in advance for anything I'm not making sense on. I've had this issue before and now its cropped up again but this time it's even worse. Just over 4 months ago me and my girlfriend finally came to an agreement that she wouldn't smoke cigarettes as after 6 whole mo... (711 words

Should I mention I found out he's leaving?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - I have built a rapport with my co worker and I fell for my co worker but we work in different departments.We have little to no work related interactions.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. However, 1 month ago I decided to give him my number and ... (263 words

All I've met is harsh judgement. But I need advice and some support on what to do in my situation. Help, please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

5 July 2016 (F age 26-29 - OK first of all please don't judge me on this but I got with my boyfriend while he was still married, he is now separated from his wife and with me. I guess he had fell out of love by the time he met me. There is 20 years difference between us and I have a toddler and he has 1... (224 words

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