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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I sent a text to my boyfriend that was meant for my boss. Will my BF get upset?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Let me start by saying my BF of two years can be insecure and has expressed jealousy at times. I was texting my boss trying to set up a meeting and sent the text by accident to my BF as I have both conversations saved on my phone. I said in the text... "Tues or ... (234 words)

I didn't like my boyfriend's behavior in front of friends. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - One night, we had some friends over for drinks and we decided to play truth or dare. My boyfriend was asked what is the best sex he has ever had, and he said a threesome he had with his ex girlfriend and her friend. I had no idea this had even happened and I was shocked. The ... (330 words)

Having sex is painful for both of us, but I still have needs and I'm hurt when my boyfriend rejects me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod note: Two questions from the same poster have been combined.] I am in a 7 month relationship, I have 2 children from a previous relationship, one of which was 9 pound! I always worried I wouldn't be tight enough in my vaginal area after having a huge baby, however,... (392 words)

Boyfriend told me his brother is cheating - and now I think my boyfriend is too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles of Dear Cupid, I hope someone can advise me on what to do here. I've been seeing an older man since early November last year. He will be 50 later this year. I am 40. Early days and we have been taking things fairly slowly, although I met mo... (1046 words)

My girlfriend told me to pack up and go since we have been arguing so much. How do I show her I want to stick around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

12 April 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I are having twins together and her and I are both excited. She has two kids already from a previous relationship and their dad isn't around and so I've pretty much have been dad and I love her kids to pieces and they love me also. So almost a week ago we ... (148 words)

I'm confused and feeling guilty but think I need to end my marriage to my gambling husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so confused and riddled with guilt. I am married to someone I've been with for nearly 4 years. I do love and care about him very much. However a few days ago I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore because I'm not inlove with him. He's had a gambling problem ... (218 words)

How do we continue to enjoy ourselves despite the language obstacle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - As most of them go, I met him online. He's a German intern only around until June and this works fine for me as I was not looking for anything too long term either. However, I have little knowledge of German, and only speak English and Xhosa. He is fluent enough in English to ... (278 words)

I'm struggling with jealousy in my FWB!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read my question. Basically, my issue is to do with jealousy. At the moment I'm in a FWB with a girl, we've been on this arrangement for about 7 months. Through this time we've had a few bad patches where we argued and didn't... (555 words)

Do I try to convince my boyfriend that he still loves me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Yesterday my boyfriend of a year broke up with me. It is all rather confusing. But this week I saw a girl had been texting him and he was trying to bring up her self esteem by calling her hot but I saw it as flirtatious. We met up and we made up. Then the next day I went out ... (381 words)

I've ruined my chances with a guy I really like, don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. There has been this guy I was seeing for two months, and I invited him to a birthday get to together, he was very excited to come and spoke about it regularly. The night before, he said he doesn't think it's going to work because I'm very insecure (I guess I am ... (341 words)

Do you struggle with people's scathing comments daily, if it offends you like this & how you deal with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently rescued a beautiful dog. My very first dog, who I love dearly. Having a dog, I've been out socialising more at the local dog playgroup. I thought this would not only be a great way to socialise my boy, but also an ideal chance to meet new people. I'm a sensitiv... (493 words)

Do girls enjoy having their bodies rubbed with other men in crowded bus?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Before I continue, I want you to know that I am around 19 and an attractive male. People and friends adore me every now and then, I don't have girlfriend though and don't even have female friends. The reason for all that is I am shy and not much into it. I feel uncomfortable ... (335 words)

I want him to be able to pay for himself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone.....I have known my boyfriend for almost two years and we've been dating for seven months. I love him and I know he loves me too. We've decided to get married next year. Here is a little background. We both have degrees from the university and we both have ful... (662 words)

Colleague turned off by platonic comment I made?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking to a male colleague about keeping in touch when he leaves for vacation. I joking said, "you're not going to blow me off if I try to reach out to you over the next few weeks?" and he became really uptight and offended. He just ended the conversation. I guess I used ... (103 words)

I feel my boyfriend has just given up on getting a job and I'm tired of paying for everything!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is very on and off with jobs but now it's gotten to a point where he is unable to take me out anymore. When i first met him he was working hard at two jobs. He moved to an area where it is very isolated, no bus and he had no car. We live about an hour away from ... (370 words)

We've been married only a year and have big problems. When do you call it a day?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I‘ve been married for almost a year now and already we're in a bit of a crisis. We have many issues in our relationship, too many to mention but i'll give some examples. I think he's become very controlling since we got married, I am admittedly a vey independent pers... (319 words)

Is this just a good friendship? Or is she flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

12 April 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Okay, I really don't know what to think about this, like at all. My best friend, let's just call her Katy, I've been crushing on. I think she may like me too, but I don't know exactly. A few nights ago, her and my other friend "Kelley" invited me over to Kelley's house to ... (168 words)

My mother needs to stop undermining my parenting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a four year old daughter who Macey who is my whole life and I have tried to do everything in my power to do right by her. However, my family keep undermining my parenting. For example, when she was a baby I breast fed, and they made fun of me for doing this. I am now ... (316 words)

I want to overcome my fear of starting a conversation with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

12 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't have a lot of relationship experience. It has taken me some time to figure out what it is I want out of life…one thing is to get married! currently, i think i like this guy but i seem to be unable to give off any signs that i like him…i get the feeling from him that ... (104 words)

There is an eleven year age gap!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

12 April 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - In December last year I met a girl standing in line at a fast food place, I was standing behind her. When it was her turn to pay, turns out she forgot her money in the car. I saw this and offered to pay. After I had payed, she thanked me over and over, and said she would go ... (373 words)