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I want to overcome my fear of starting a conversation with him.

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Question - (12 April 2015) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2015)
A female Ireland age 41-50, *ineire writes:

i don't have a lot of relationship experience. It has taken me some time to figure out what it is I want out of life…one thing is to get married! currently, i think i like this guy but i seem to be unable to give off any signs that i like him…i get the feeling from him that he is interested…eye contact and glancing, smiling etc.. also, i've only had 1 conversation with this gut but i see him frequently as he works in my local shop… any advice to overcome my fear of talking to hime would be appreciated

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2015):

well since you are a woman, you are allowed to be passive, there is no societal pressure on you to be the initiator.

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A female reader, aineire Ireland +, writes (12 April 2015):

aineire is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice! I'll give it a go! :)

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A female reader, Fari United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2015):

Fari agony auntI agree with Nora B . Dating can be soo scary at times especially when you really like the person and you dont wanna screw up. I would just smile , be polite, talk about common topics ie The weather or some news article ... anything in recent events. If it goes well , you could invite him out for coffee .. something small and work your way from there.

Best Regards :)

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A female reader, NORA B Ireland +, writes (12 April 2015):

Well you have written a very nice letter which proves you have lots to say.I do understand that it is quiet more dificult for you with this man that you like.Remember it takes two so my suggestion is -Give him a smile and a cheery Good morning/evening and make some comment about the weather.he will reply and perhaps it will continue to a chat.Best wishes NORA.B.

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