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Archived questions from: 27 March, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a massive crush on my much-older, married landlord. Would it be worth it if I could sleep with him just one night?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I don't know where to begin here but I have a massive crush on my landlord. Like I'm not saying I want to run of to the sunset and marry him lol, but I have fantasised sleeping with him! He's older than well by 20 years but looks like fecking action man, well he works out ... (166 words)

He's a healthy man of 21 so why is he having erectile dysfunction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We were originally in a semi-long-distance relationship (we'd spend about a third of the year in the same town) but I moved in with him about 6 weeks ago. We've been having sex for over a year with no problems, but ... (257 words)

My problem is, I know how to approach women, but how do I approach a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Okay, this might be a bit of a weird one, but here goes. Ever since I can remember, I have been attracted to women, I very rarely ever see a guy that I like even in the slightest but I've recently found myself drawn in by this one guy. I've known him my whole life (... (317 words)

How can my grandparents and I come to some consensus? My grandparents don't agree with gay marriage and parenting

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Hi. I'm struggling with accepting that my grandma and grandpa don't agree with gay marriage and parenting. Their reasoning is that marriage is a religious thing (though I pointed out that many non-religious people get married) and it would be unnatural for two men to raise... (387 words)

I love my teen sister, but do not like her behaviour.She disrespects our parents and causes mayhem. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I really need some advice. My younger sister is 13 and she is currently causing a lot of problems for my parents. I am in my 20's so there is a big age gap, but whenever I go home she almost always plays up. She swears at parents, plays us all off against ... (200 words)

Feeling fed up. Job going no where. Haven't met "The One". Has anybody experienced this situation and have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice. I'm 26 and just feeling really fed up with life. I spent 5 years in uni and trained as a teacher but I currently work as a sales manager. I didn't love teaching and jobs were few are far between so I didn't pursue it as a career f... (208 words)

Condom wrapper and girl's scarf found in my boyfriend's car… I'm having trouble trusting him! Any advice?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend of a year and a half . I have been burned in the past (cheated on) and am a naturally suspicious person. Here's my dilemma. 1) I found a ripped open condom wrapper in my boyfriends car. Near the drivers side - where his feet ar... (366 words)

I'm questioning my break-up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, Thank you for taking time out to read this, especially since it is so long. I was in a relationship for 14 months. He and I got along very well. I have never enjoyed someone's company as much as I did with him. I found him engaging, funny, and thoughtful. ... (1318 words)

8 months and I am still beating myself for the break-up. help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf of 8 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend. he said "We are comfortable but it doesnt mean it's gonna go anywhere." He said he originally planned to just let it fade away. He said he has been thinking for a few weeks and that I was getting obsessed with the ... (968 words)

Question about social media and I guy I like...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anybody know about the other messages folder on fb? I met this guy at work, I said hello to him on fb and I'm not sure if he got my message. Shortly after I sent it he hid stuff from me like all the porn and girly mags he's fans of (not my problem at this moment in t... (197 words)

Can I never trust a guy after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. In January I met a guy in Facebook and we both started chatting. After few days of chatting we both exchanged our contact number and he started calling me. After few weeks we decided to meet at one of his friends home. We both were alone at his friend's... (205 words)

How do I decide whether or not the relationship is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner of three years and I have recently been having some problems. Now I believe we are genuinely starting to work through them and he is happy in our relationship but I have been left with niggling doubts that all problems aside, we are just not right for each other. I ... (90 words)

Difficulty ejaculating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've had a real issue with ejaculating during any sort of sexual activity with a partner throughout my whole life. I can ejaculate eventually, but it just seems to take a long time (1hr+). For the longest time I was pretty happy about it, I can go as long as she wants, I ... (278 words)

Should I have unprotected sex to please my guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can you give me advice - my boyfriend and I have a great relationship, however he now wishes to make love without using condoms. I am not happy with this, as by his own admission he slept with a lot of women in the past . I just want our sexual relationship to carry on... (77 words)

My wife disgusts me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all! I am almost 41 years old and I have been with my wife since 2001. There are still some things that thrill me about her, but often I wonder what I ever saw in her. She is lazy, drinks too much liquor, has let her good looks go, and alternates between being... (504 words)

I'm worried I should have given it more time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy and we dated for 3 months and it was amazing in the beginning he chased me took me to places I met all his friends. The only thing was that he ended a relationship for 2 years and after 3 months she started to date his friend so that really bothered him but he o... (246 words)

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this possible? I'm a my wits end as ... (139 words)

They're getting married in nine days and I KNOW he is cheating on her!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my lifelong friends is getting married to the man of her dreams in 9 days. They have been together 4 years and have a daughter who is just 6 months old. This morning I've found out that he has been having an affair. I don't just suspect, I know and have solid proof... (123 words)

I feel lonely and alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I feel very lonely and alone in life. I unfortunately lost my mother a few years ago and it's just me and my father. I'm grateful for my father but he is literally the only person in my life. A lot of my family live in different states and have their own life and we ... (187 words)

His colourful past adds to my anxiety about my body!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I'm a very insecure woman. Throughout my dating life, I've had nothing but rejection and hurt. As a teenager, I was constantly rejected in favor of prettier girls. I've always felt ugly. Then I had a long relationship with a guy for whom I made MANY big sacrifices, who, in the ... (406 words)

Hpv in a long term relationship. Is cheating involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 36 year old woman. I have been with my husband for four years. I have had regular Pap smears my entire life. I have been tested for hpv every single year since I was 28. My hpv tests have always come back negative. Last month, I went in for a Pap smear. My docto... (196 words)

She said she was straight but I'm starting to wonder if she secretly has feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - basically I've been living with a bunch of friends for 2 years now. We all knew each other for an additional year before that. At the start of that year when we all met one another, I openly admitted that I thought this one girl in the group was cute and was attracted to her ... (623 words)

He disappeared from my life and now he is back, should I hear him out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I had posted a question a while back (My boyfriend has disappeared and I'm very worried.) After a about almost two months now I have moved forward but was still wondering what had happened I heard from him. I was looking at my emails and decided to just take... (188 words)