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Archived questions from: 12 March, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

His new job isn't leaving much time for me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 1/2 years. We don't live together as of yet. He's started working a new plumbing job and it's getting me down. There's only 4 guys working therefore my bf is on call 24/7. Prior to this job my bf was struggling to pay his rent so he ... (488 words)

How can I regain his trust? How long will it take? And can someone fall in love again after this kind of hardship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So to sum it up I had feelings for this guy "E." Who didn't like me back. "W" helped me through the grieving process. "E" and "W"are best friends. W started to have feelings for me but I kept rejecting him because I was still grieving. Finally after he ends his relationship ... (259 words)

Why would he delete my number after all this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I've been dating this guy for a month we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend but he likes to say we are and act like it. Anyway we cut things off a while ago and decided to just be 'friends' his choice not mine (He's muslim and said we can't be together) which was fine and... (442 words)

I feel slightly embarrassed that he's sexually experienced and I'm not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there! I've been with my lovely boyfriend for about 8 months now, and we've been friends for years. Recently we'd spoken about having sex... However I'm a virgin, whilst he isn't. We've been doing a lot of oral sex for a while now, so I'm comfortable with that. I'm s... (112 words)

I have photo evidence of my girlfriend holding hands with another guy! Should I break things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

12 March 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I am dating a girl that I dated a couple of years ago. We have been dating for almost a month, and i got a picture of her holding another guys hand. She says he was only rubbing his hand. My other friends that know her say that I should cut it off. I don't know what to do. I... (74 words)

When I told him "no" he sent all our correspondence to my husband! Why would he do such a thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - He Was All I Ever Wanted.. Okay this is really long story I really need advice not commended for my actions or thus confession. It started 3 years ago I began work and myself and a colleague started to develop feelings but never acted on them. We are both married with chi... (325 words)

How do you get over a crush and what is the best way to do so?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

12 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid How do you get over a crush and what is the best way to do so? Can you stay friends or no contact is the rule! Staying friends doesn't mean there is hope of you being with that person any soon! So what do you guys think about it ? Please advice as I am h... (92 words)

I just can't help thinking that maybe he was more satisfied with her in the bedroom and now I'm even starting to think he may be comparing us in his head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A few nights ago my boyfriend and I were talking and just goofing around and joking etc, and we ended up talking about his past sex life with his ex. This is the ex where they lost their virginity's together and the only girl he's ever been intimate with besides me. He w... (342 words)

Am I being too stubborn and bitchy about the whole thing or is my anger understandable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I come from a very traditional Asian family. I have been told to respect those older than me and those with higher authority (example, my mom is the oldest in her family so all my cousins address me as big sister or so, even if they are older than me.) I am 20. I h... (370 words)

Tax credit awards. Is my dad taking all the money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I was not born in the UK I moved here when I was 8. I thought that if a child is not born in this country then they can't get child benefits or tax whatever. A letter can through today from HM revenue and customs about tax credits award with my college progress report ... (392 words)

How should I ask this guy for his number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - How should I ask this guy for his number? I'm on a course at the moment. It finishes this week. I like a guy on the course. He doesn't know that I like him though. I want to ask him for his number so that we can keep in touch after the course has finished. However, he is... (114 words)

Drinking is killing my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend from almost 1 year. We both like to go out. We both are social drinkers. But he loves drinking and he goes out every weekend to drink out, or if not out then at home. Everything was going good. We were residing in Australia. H... (211 words)

Feeling horribly guilty after breaking up with my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years, three weeks ago. I genuinely loved him and felt that we had a solid connection. Yet, throughout the course of our relationship, I had to pay for our $1800/month rent, the bills, and the majority of our outings. We never went out ... (212 words)

Why do the guys I get close to only see me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for quite a while now and I've never imagined myself falling for him. He's really fun to hangout out with and our conversations never gets boring we also share the same interests. We always joke around about us being single and would be jokingly ... (284 words)

Confused. Does he like me as a friend or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for my friend. It's sort of a confusing story. So let me begin describing the background and then where he has me very confused. It begins with a gay app that allowed us to meet. He was near my location so I messaged him. We chatted on it for a while, when he... (1009 words)

Is my boyfriend looking for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend a little over a year and I've noticed within the last few months he seems to be less interested in spending time with me. We live together but don't see each other that much because of work. The only thing we really do together is run errands. He ... (348 words)

Boyfriend is mad that I lost something special he gave me. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, When my boyfriend and I initially started dating like a month into the relationship he gave me something which he thought brought luck to him, we have been together for a year now.. It was something he valued and he gave it to me and I lost it, it was lighter I... (120 words)

I feel my boyfriend was happier in his previous relationship than he is with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to be having a problem and I would like to get some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I can honestly say I'm really in love with him and care a whole lot about him. This is what my problem is, I think he loved his ex girlfriend more than me and h... (318 words)

My friend is offended by her work colleages, was she right to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

12 March 2014 (?) age 51-59 - A good friend of mine has recently been on 2 wks vacation from work, she didn't go anywhere, she stayed in our city and relaxed, saw friend etc. She went back to work on Monday, when I met up with her yesterday (for a coffee after work) she complained that no one a... (303 words)

Need a place to turn in a marriage where I feel like I have no choice

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

12 March 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - My stepdaughter has always been a source of problems, particularly when it comes to her relationship with her mother: whatever stepdaughter wants, stepdaughter gets. Over the near 17 years of my marriage I've been mostly able to afford these extravagances. And despite any ... (387 words)