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Archived questions from: 19 March, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

IS it crazy for me to try to work things out with my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my bf last November after being together for 2 years. We're both in our mid 30's and were in somewhat of a long distance relationship causing us to only see each other on the weekend. The main reasons for the breakup was that we were arguing all the time and ... (290 words)

Does anyone know the meaning behind this song?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help song meaning??? 3 days grace sign of the times?? My boyfriend is listening to a few songs falls asleep to them. So if i know the meaning i can help cause i think he is sad if i done something wrong i can fix it. So that song and 3 days grace misery loves my company and 3 ... (80 words)

Should I get back with my ex even if he took advantage of me financially?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago and after seeing him at work . He texted me Good job tonight and he feels hurt and embarrassed to take a break from relationship. Should I get back with him even if he took financially advantage of me? I... (51 words)

Do you pressure for oral sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you or your significant other like to give or receive oral sex? If not do you pressure them (the whole "if you love me" thing") or do you leave it alone? I've been with my boyfriend for some years. I don't get sexually frustrated, but I'm trying to understand from his view... (200 words)

My boyfriend is tired of my friend and her lying cheating boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know who to ask about this so I thought id give this a go. I've got a close friend who has been seeing my boyfriends friend for about a year on and off. He has cheated on her and messed her around numerous times and he was expecting my bf to lie for him b... (413 words)

How do I remain level headed when younger b/f will be out having the time of his life in another country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is going to study in Miami for 1 or 2yrs. We have been together now for 4yrs and he is 22 and I am 27. Of course, he says he is madly in love with me and says he wants to marry me, have kids etc. He even suggested we get engaged before he goes. So far, he has always be... (415 words)

We can't have sex unless we are in a certain position. Is it the height difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have started having sex w a new guy. He's 6'5" and I'm 5'5". For some reason he can't ever get his dick inside me unless I pull my legs up. Why is that? Is it because of the height differential? I don't get it! ... (46 words)

Best friend going out with the guy I like and now I feel jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Basically I fancy this guy in my class, I have done for a while. 3 weeks ago my best friend told me she also fancied him. I like to keep myself to myself so I hadn't mentioned I liked him but we texted and flirted quite often. He asked her out a week ago. He keeps texting me ... (92 words)

Fiance is having people at our home, not telling me and then lying when caught

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Need your perspective to work out if I an being unreasonable or not... found oout my fiance has been lying about people coming over to our house whilst I am out at work and am really annoyed at him for omitting to tell me, and lying about his day. He has one weekday off per ... (623 words)

I think my husband has a crush at work and its making me uncomfortable

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Would anyone else think anything of this? Or am I just being paranoid? My husband of 6 years has recently started a new job. He's been there about 2 months now. He works in a team of 7 others, one Man and six women. For the past 3 weeks he has talked constantly about one ... (378 words)

I'm interested but she's in the middle of heartbreak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the story, there's this girl who I've taken an interest in, when I started talking to her, really talking she suddenly opened up about this guy she's been seeing, she was madly in love with him but as it turned out he wasn't with her, instead he was just using her to ... (122 words)

Is this a good time to tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been casually dating a guy I work with for nearly 6mths now. We both work shifts so we see each other when we can. Its great and we get on really well. He had a heart attack 2wks ago and it was touch and go for a while. This has made me realise I have strong feelings for ... (107 words)

Her male best friend is making me feel uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has a male best friend, they have been friends for years, he has a romantic interest in her, however she said she was very clear with him about she wants to be with me and not with him. They go out together for lunch, to the movies and even to the zoo together. ... (184 words)

How do I deal with my parents' concerns about a joint mortgage with my partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys Hope you can offer me some advice as I my head is in two minds. Basically, I have been gifted some money to get a mortgage and new home (Whoopie!). I have a lovely partner who I have been with for years. My parents want me to do the mortgage in my own which mea... (294 words)

How do I move on from an affair and a breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I posted before but for those who didn't read it... here is my story Late 2013 I moved abroad with my boyfriend. I had met him out there travelling and he came back with me to our home country(both from england), but we decided to move back out there to live. We had ups... (673 words)

I realize what he did makes him sound bad but he's a nice guy, do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I have liked this boy in my year for about 3 tears now and I really like him and sometimes he gives me signs that he likes me back but then he also flirts with other girls, he looks at me a lot and smiles at me a lot and we have loads in common however he recently slept with a ... (167 words)

My relative may pass away in the near future. I want to date, but should I delay and wait until I have work through my grief after my parent passes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, It's looking likely I will have a parent pass away in the next few months after what has been a pretty tough time helping support them through their decline. I am single and would love to meet someone. I have had short term relationships since my mid 20s. Som... (320 words)

Heard rumours about this married guy I like. Should I tell him about the rumours, without sounding jealous, nor like a gossip?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a good friend in the office. In fact i've a crush on him but will never act on this feeling because he's married. Don't want to get hurt as going out with a married man, it's the worst thing of all to do. Guess he also feels attracted to me. A woman can always sense... (164 words)

How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 March 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to strike up a conversation wit ... (478 words)

It's early days, but after just two dates - were his actions charming or creepy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Agony Aunt folks I have a question , So I met this guy online we had 2 dates so far he is a cop and seems very nice a lot different form the last guy I dated I have had bad luck lately in the men department and seem to end up with abusive men so I'm sort of on guard . anyway ... (236 words)

I'm feeling like a fool after calling my ex again

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I was at work Saturday past and i was thinking of my ex so i decided to call him, we talked and then he started to bring up the past so it lead to arguing and now he says that he feels good that he made me mad. My question is y do he keeps bringing up the past and why do he ... (86 words)

How on earth do I thank him for being so amazing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a very tough year with problems at work and in my family and I can honestly say this has been the toughest year of my life so far. Through it all, my boyfriend has been a total camp. We've been together for a few years so we've shared the good and the bad. They sa... (138 words)

What could I do about office gossip if I start dating a man for than 10 years older than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all... I can't believe I'm even doing this but I don't know where else to turn. Just about everyone I work with are gossip kings and queens and I need to be able to handle this in a mature, respectful way as I plan on sticking around these parts for a few more years to build ... (708 words)

How do we help an adopted child give a presentation about her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 March 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year my brother adopted a wonderful 8 year old girl and she's fitting in very well with our family. Thing is, she's about to start my son's school and he had to do a life story project (with the help of an adult) two years ago when he was in the year she's going into... (218 words)