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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
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16 October 2008: Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
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She has a really pretty face but she's fat!
Q. I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best foot...
A. 9 April 2009: Use this situation in a positive way! You are well liked and looked up to so stand up for yourself. You sound like a nice person so don't be so shallow and brand this girl that you really like just because of her size!
If they see you out with... (read in full...)
My girlfriend flirted with this guy in a way I thought was disrespectful. I'm not sure what to do.
Q. A couple of nights ago we went to a party. My girlfriend got a little drunk and was a little flirty with some other guys. That didn't bother me at all really, but what did is that there was this one guy, she had just met, she was extra talkative to. ...
A. 5 April 2009: I agree she was out of order here. If she's like that with 3 beers then what would she be like with 6??? You and her need to have a talk about boundaries in a relationship. Ask her what hers would be then you tell her about the incident and how ... (read in full...)
What can I do to find out if he's cheating?
Q. What should a woman do if she suspects her husband is cheating on her but there is no solid proof that he is?Also, if she can not afford a private detective and there is noone that can help keep an eye on him. A brief history into my scenario: -M...
A. 5 April 2009: You have your suspicions so that's enough to go on. You need to do your OWN detective work now. One way to tell if he's cheating is to catch him lying about a matter. You can follow his eye movements to tell if he is lying. Ask more questions if he ... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly and annoying that I can't even think about ever dating another man again.
Q. My ex and I broke up like an hour ago via messenger. We've broken up before and he always comes back. He is usually the one to break up with me. He doesn't trust me, because of my past. I've never cheated on him (or anyone), but he thinks I've been ...
A. 5 April 2009: Hearing about your ex classmate would have been a shock to you and of course you'd want to tell your boyfriend about it. The way he reacted made you mad and you acted hastily and broke up with him. You have insecurities about how you look but he ... (read in full...)
Waiting for the right one
Q. i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...
A. 2 April 2009: You're body is very precious and you shouldn't just "do it" because your friends are. That's the problem with the kids of today, there is so much peer pressure and they feel if they do the same things their friends do they'll be viewed as "cool!"
... (read in full...)
X boyfriend troubles
Q. Ok, this is complicated. My ex bf and I had a fight and he left. This has happened a few times. This time I told him I was seeing someone else(I lied) because I didnt want him thinking that he could leave whenever things got tough and Id be right ...
A. 2 April 2009: If he does make the effort then you can always tell him that you only saw the other guy a couple of times but your heart wasn't in it... so you finished it! (winks).
~Eve~... (read in full...)
X boyfriend troubles
Q. Ok, this is complicated. My ex bf and I had a fight and he left. This has happened a few times. This time I told him I was seeing someone else(I lied) because I didnt want him thinking that he could leave whenever things got tough and Id be right ...
A. 2 April 2009: I can totally understand why you did what you did and hopefully this will be the kick up the backside he needs to make him really THINK about your relationship. If he really cares for you and has some backbone then he'll fight to keep you. He'll ... (read in full...)
How do I REALLY turn him on?
Q. What really turns a man on, men tell me what you like for you woman to do to get you turned on, women please tell me what you do to turn your man on. I am trying to get ideas of what my man might like. Thanks to you all....
A. 2 April 2009: Different men like different things and what turns one man on might turn another one off. The best thing to do is to ASK HIM... simple! Talking about what turns one another on in bed can be quite erotic and can often get you in the mood so if I ... (read in full...)
My fiancee and his little brother passed away and I don't know how to express myself
Q. hi everyone. my fiance and his little brother just passed away. me and my best friend are supposed to speak at his funeral. they are having two separate funerals, and i am supposed to speak at them both. i have no idea what to say. right now i cant ...
A. 30 March 2009: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, can I ask what happened? How did they die?
~Eve~... (read in full...)
I am extremely controlling.. can someone help me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and I am extremely controlling! I tell him that he cannot talk to girls and that he can't look at girls and that he can't be friends with girls! We fight all the time about this but ...
A. 25 March 2009: Have a look at these links, they'll help you with your confidence.
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_esteem.htm
http://www.womensselfesteem.com/page/page.cfm/tips
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
Remember, even although... (read in full...)
I am extremely controlling.. can someone help me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and I am extremely controlling! I tell him that he cannot talk to girls and that he can't look at girls and that he can't be friends with girls! We fight all the time about this but ...
A. 25 March 2009: You have to THINK before you speak. Next time you see him talking to a girl be very aware of how you're feeling. You need to take back the control and tell yourself "it's okay, he's only talking to her, it's ME he loves." He must love you very ... (read in full...)
My beautiful baby was born dead and I'm finding it very difficult to cope... Please help me...
Q. On the 27th of February my baby was born dead... I'm finding it very hard to grieve and do anything. I have an 18 month old baby and I can't seem to hold her... I don't know how to go on. Please I need some help. ...
A. 24 March 2009: I can't begin to understand the pain you must feel in losing a child and I truly feel for you. You have been given some great advice from the other aunts here and some great links to look at. Please seek grief counselling in order to help you ... (read in full...)
What to say on a first date?
Q. Okay so I'm asking out a girl but if she says yes I have nothing to say after so can y'all give me some ideas???...
A. 23 March 2009: 1. What do you like to do when you're not working?
2. Where in the world would you most like to visit?
3. Are you interested in sport... if so what sport?
4. What do you look for in your ideal partner?
5. What really turns you off?
6. What re... (read in full...)
Tips on how to end my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. It's the usual story, relationship started off wonderful and then gradually it's began to become unbearable. I have had a long think about what to do and have decided it's time to end it. My ...
A. 23 March 2009: This link should help you do it. "How to break up with someone using style and sensitivity."
http://www.wikihow.com/Break-Up-with-Someone-Using-Style-and-Sensitivity
~Eve~... (read in full...)
Why did she jump and tell me to stop?
Q. Hey guys, Well I'm not that experienced in this so I came to this site to see if I could get some help. I have just started going down on my girlfriend and as I was doing it at one point she kind of got jumpy and told me to stop. She described it ...
A. 23 March 2009: It sounds to me as if she's had an orgasm and was maybe unsure what it was. After orgasm most women can be very sensitive and even be ticklish and any stimulation at all can be uncomfortable afterwards. Don't be put off by it though, at least now ... (read in full...)
Could someone help me interpret a recurring dream?
Q. I'm really curious about a recurring dream that I have and I was wondering if there is anyone on this site who knows how to analyze dreams? It involves me and a friend from college (whom I'll call Fulano) This is a strange dream, I know. I k...
A. 23 March 2009: The fact that you're singing in your dream means you're happy as singing represents happiness, harmony and joy in some situation or relationship. You are uplifting others with your positive attitude (in this case Fulano) and cheerful disposition. ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 23 March 2009: Well you said you can feel the chemistry between you and what he said was he wasn't interested in a serious relationship! Right?
~Eve~... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 20 March 2009: If you're both fire signs (Leo/Aries) then you both have a lot going for you. However if he's a Taurus you have an uphill slog ahead of you! lol. Leo wants to be first, King (or in your case) Queen of the jungle, you want to be noticed and ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 20 March 2009: Hey I told you all along, contrary to what others think/say... he DOES like you! I can spot the signs a mile off. Go easy on the emailing, might be a good idea NOT to reply to his compliment. Remember... play hard to get (guys like the chase) so ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 20 March 2009: 1. It's the vibes he's sending out, what he's saying and what he's not saying, the way he acted on your date compared to the way he was before. Lots of things, I explain it more in some of my posts. Trust me, I've been doing this job for over 25 ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 19 March 2009: I totally agree with you there Karen, it WILL be a lot of hard work, maybe years of hard work and it still might not work out. I agree too that she should be his friend and nothing more and continue to live her life and socialise too.
If he reall... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 19 March 2009: It's not a matter of "saving him" at all! How many times have you said something to someone you like to save face, when all the time you mean something else? Come on, we've all done it before and guys are no different. It's not just looking at ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 19 March 2009: Hi, sorry for the delay in replying. Every time I tried to catch up, more posts appeared, that and doing a million things besides…. Anyway, here is my take on it from what I’ve heard. I can see where Star and Rhythmandblues is coming from but ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 19 March 2009: In all fairness to the guy Karen, I think he's been hurt big time in the past and he's told himself he will never do "serious" again. It started out this way with the poster, chatting and a laugh but as he's gotten to know her better he's come to ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 18 March 2009: No, don't send him a text (he might even be expecting you to do that), leave things as they are. He might even be hoping you text him but don't! Let him sweat... Let him miss you! He'll realise that he's missed out having a relationship with you, ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 18 March 2009: Hey I'm not mad at you for talking to him. If you felt you had to do this to clear the air then it was the right thing to do.
The reason he's "switched off" is because he respects you and doesn't want to hurt you. He's probably used to taking w... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 18 March 2009: At least you got a lot off your chest asking him "what the score was" and now a lot of how he's been acting will make sense to you. He's told you he likes you but he doesn't want a serious relationship with ANYONE! You need to respect that. What ... (read in full...)
I've fallen off the wagon and I'm hiding it from my girlfriend
Q. A few years ago i was treated for alcoholism and for that period off time i stopped drinking for a complete year then only having a few beers with friends on a friday night. Everything was fine until last october when with pressures of work and my ...
A. 18 March 2009: If you had an illness of any kind you go to the doctor right? Alcoholism is an illness too and the only way to get help for it is to find your nearest AA Centre. There you will get the help and support you need to stop. Everyone there is in the ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 18 March 2009: If you prefer to send me a private message than that's okay. Just click on my avatar and click "send AskEve a private message". It will come up as female anonymous so let me know it's you.
Either that or you can write it on here, that way the ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 18 March 2009: Hi, Eve here... tell us your update!... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 18 March 2009: Is this other woman going to have this child? If she doesn't want to make things worse then she may decide to terminate. Have you spoken to her about this? The best thing you can do is give your wife TIME... time to get her head around things, s... (read in full...)
Scared of being rejected and his friends don't like me!
Q. I have to warn you this is major complicated, well for me it is... When I first met this guy he annoyed me so much. Him and his friends drove me crazy but they were all kinda sweet sometimes and they made me laugh when I really needed it... This ...
A. 18 March 2009: I'm guessing this guy is the same age as you are? We as women mature quicker then guys do. I do think he likes you but he's got to put on this "cool image" in front of his friends and that's why he acts like a jerk but when it's just you and him ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle this situation and could really use some advice.
Q. I've been dating a girl for two months. From the start, she has pursued me quite aggressively -- a fact that I initially found flattering. Unfortunately, as time goes by, I realize that I am simply not in love with her. She, on the other hand, seems ...
A. 18 March 2009: Be her friend for now. Visit her occasionally but not every day and only stay a short while, just treat her as a friend. You'll know the right time to tell her as she gets stronger. The reason we have relationships is to see if we are compatible ... (read in full...)
Was it my fault?
Q. Hi well a couple of weeks ago I met up with this guy he kept pestering me to meet him saying he really liked me and stuff and he kept putting pressure on me to meet him and I don't like that but anyways I agreed to meet him, I met him the one night ...
A. 18 March 2009: This guy used you to get to your friend, simple! No, it wasn't your fault at all but don't ever let him use you like this again. He doesn't even deserve your friendship. Remember what he's done and steer well clear of him in the future. That was ... (read in full...)
My brother keeps spying on me!
Q. I'm 16 and my brother is 12. He keeps spying on me, hoping to see me undressed. Should I invite him to look and get it out of his system, or should I continue to try to hide?...
A. 10 March 2009: To the female anonymous reader. All of the questions and answsers need to be approved before they go through but at times when it's really busy sometimes some can slip through the net. If someone continually gives good advice and has been ... (read in full...)
DAD's!! Should I tell her to marry for love or just a nice credit card?
Q. Dads, If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love? obviously both would be ideal!...
A. 9 March 2009: People go into relationships for lots of different reasons and unfortunately love doesn't always come first. Security is one, money is another, status is another. If your daughter can be happy living with a man she doesn't truly love and he KNOWS ... (read in full...)
My brother keeps spying on me!
Q. I'm 16 and my brother is 12. He keeps spying on me, hoping to see me undressed. Should I invite him to look and get it out of his system, or should I continue to try to hide?...
A. 8 March 2009: The last two anonymous answsers were absolutely spot on. The March 7th poster should never have given advice to let her see her naked and the answer has been removed. ~Eve~... (read in full...)
Can you still be pregnant even if you have your period?
Q. Is it possible to still be pregnant if you have your period? or can it be different for different women?...
A. 8 March 2009: "You CANNOT have a period while you are pregnant because both of these functions cannot happen at the same time. If you were pregnant and began menstruating, inevitably you would lose the pregnancy or have a miscarriage. Although you can't be ... (read in full...)
Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...
Q. I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...
A. 8 March 2009: Astrology is a hobby of mines and although lots of people say on here to forget what sign you are, I think you can tell a heck of a lot from a person's sun sign and how they tick. Go into it in even more depth and they're an open book! I have ... (read in full...)
I'm now living in the same flat as my ex and I still have deep feelings for her... help!
Q. At the moment, I feel like my life is pretty empty. I'm a 20 year old student and 7 months ago I split up with my girlfriend of a year and a half, I did love her very much, however, she was so controlling and demanding, it just forced my self ...
A. 8 March 2009: Never allow a woman to control you. Get some backbone and be yourself! Be assertive, confident and in control. Relationships are all about compromise. You should both be free to be yourselves in a relationship, things should flow smoothly and ... (read in full...)
Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...
Q. I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...
A. 8 March 2009: Long distance relationships can be very difficult. You can say anything to the other person you meet on the net but it goes nowhere unless you both meet up and see how that person acts, their mannerisms, how they hold themselves, how they look, see ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 5 March 2009: That is the reasons we HAVE relationships (go out, date etc), to see if we're compatible... you and him are not! You don't have to ignore him blatantly, be courteous, he'll be gone soon anyway so I would stop worrying.
~Eve~... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 5 March 2009: Do you WANT to give things another go with him (remembering how he's been towards you) or have you had enough and want to move on? THAT'S what you need to ask yourself. If you DO want to give things another go then the next time you both pass one ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 2 March 2009: Only he knows what is going on in his mind. The graphic texts would be a very big red flag to me I'm afraid and I certainly wouldn't encourage them.
~Eve~... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 2 March 2009: He's attracted to the CHALLENGE! I get the feeling he's not the best with words. He probably wanted to go into your office and make things right and when it came to it he couldn't put it into words. Does he seem shy when you dated him?
~Eve~... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 2 March 2009: Even if you DID get together with him, does he live close by that you'd still be able to carry on seeing him if he WAS nicer to you? No, I thought you did well. You rose above it and kept your cool. You could quite easily have started to sound ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 2 March 2009: The least he could have done was apologised to you for being such a twat in the past, but he didn't do that. You did well, well done to you. Hopefully now he'll get the message and leave you in peace. He's obviously still attracted to you but ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 1 March 2009: If he refuses to work with you then he's not very professional is he? He won't get you fired, not from what you've told us anyway, he'll just move on...
Don't let him get to you the way he's doing. You've had excellent advice from Star and Sati... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 28 February 2009: I don't think he's the type to gossip to others, telling stories, it just doesn't seem his style at all. Chatting and flirting and being the joker (when in a confident mood) yes, but I don't think he's the gossip type. (Just a hunch.) You were ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 28 February 2009: Don't text him again. It's all a game with him, the texts and telling you what he'd like you to do to him, it's as if he's "grooming" you for when he makes his move! Hey, men have mood swings too. He probably felt horny one night and that's why ... (read in full...)
I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!
Q. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...
A. 28 February 2009: This guy would love to settle down with someone but he has too many hangups at the moment. He seems the quiet sort, keeps everything inside and takes all of his anger and resentments out on others, in this instance... you! You have only ever been ... (read in full...)
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