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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Girl needs space... I think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Alright, so I've talked with a few of my other friends, and they are girls, some are guys... and it's regarding my situation with this girl. We hung out almost every night when I was available (work, etc...) Whether it be by phone, or somethin...

How to get back with my girlfriend...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok so thank you for reading my question and I really need help so any suggestions would help a ton! Ok so lets start off with this im a guy in high school (sophmore) and I HAD a girlfriend and she was sophmore too. I started dating her in late ...

I need tips on how to be more confident

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hey Everyone :) i was just wondering if ye guys could help me out :/ i have a little problem, okay here goes.. I need tips on how to be more confident..i find it really hard to look people in the eye, i want to be able to be more socialable :/ i ...

Sex worries because of his size!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt, i have seen his penis before and it is rather big and thick, he has poked me a lot of times and the most with three fingers, is my hymen broken yet? and will sex be really painful with him seeing as he has a big ...

Does my mate have feelings for me but is too shy to say? He's acting really strange.

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16 January 2010 (F) - hey. Im a little confused, im think my mate could have feelings for me but im unsure. I do like him and he got told that a long time ago now, meaning like a year and a half ago by someone. Things werent easy between us at the time and theres no way ...

I am doing the right thing in stopping him from kissing me, aren't I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - This guy that I was sleeping with tells me he doesn't feel he is ready for a relationship and he doesnt want to have just causal sex, so we both decided to remain friends. The day we decided that, he came over to mine and we were watching a movie ...

Why the sudden interest in me again by the ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - my ex started to talk to me all of a sudden, its been almost a month since ive seen him really. He has talked to me before and basically telling me to contact him any time, text him, and to see each other real soon. But then he just disappea...

Sex isn't great with him, how to spice it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hi guys, ok so here's the thing me and my bf have been having sex for a while now and have done it a fair few times, though not millions!!! But it doesn't feel as good as I think it should for me. I mean yeh it feels ok but not as amazing as I ...

I was sexually attacked 2 years ago. Why am I getting nightmares now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I dont really know where about to start as this is a very long problem and been goin on a couple of years. in november 2008 i was sexually abused + was repeatedly abused every week for 18 months. I will not say anything about the attacker as im sc...

I really do feel that he is the one for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - so i met this awsome guy and it seemed like we were really into each other, and for the first time in my life i went all the way..a week later he told me that he wanted to remain friends because he was going to join the marines. he explained to me ...

I've been 2 years now with my best friend's ex but now she's started to like him again... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - my best friend went out with a guy for like 2 weeks and they broke up. about 3 months later he asked me out and i realy liked him so i asked my best friend if she was ok with it and she said yes. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and i ...

I'm infatuated with him but I so much want him to like me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i'm 16 and in high school. i have this problem, ok theres this guy i met last year. i've liked him ever since i met him. sometime during last year he liked me but i didnt know and i said i only liked emo guys which he's not, so he gave up. towards ...

Shyness towards the girl of my dreams...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - hi. im 17 very shy and unconfident. never had a girlfriend or hardly even spoke to any girls. but since the first day of college i have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. i just cant seem to bring myself to talk to her. ive said a quick hello as ...

It's so unfair, I should be able to date who I want to!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - well hi there it's kind of a long story but anyway here it is I have met a guy after a year he asked me to marry him, we are completely coming from different culture he is christian and I'm Muslim he changed his religion as I can't marry someone ...

I have to hold a speech about Canada, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - So i have to do a speech (after dinner) in school about canada and i was wondering if you guys could help me come up with funny things to put in it if you have a funny story or just something funny for me to say i woud really aprreciate your ...

We are both 17 and have been secretly been trying for a baby - please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

16 January 2010 (?) - Thankyou if you read this. I have been with my partner for nearly two years now and she is the best thing thats happened to me. However, we are both 17 and we cant wait to get our own life started. Really I am looking for personal advice rather t...

Body image - I need reassurance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello. I just need some serious reasurrance. For the last year ive noticed i have a little extra skin down below and its really starting to get me down. I dont thinks its really bad but its a little more than i would like. I know its normal, but ...

How can I strike up a decent conversation with my teacher who I adore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Ok I havent written on here before and I have tried a few times but every time I write something it doesnt sound right so I never publish anything. Basically, I think I am in love with my teacher and have been for a few years. I will not go into det...

Could this be my first period, at 14?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Okay so my mom didint start her period till she was 16. so today I started bleeding like dark brown and it was In my underwear? I'm only 14 never had sex what's going on? PlZ help? ...

Should I turn to lifting weights?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I asked a question a short time ago about how my confidence is so little when I am at school. From what I can gather I need to make myself - be myself. I need to stop careing about what others could think of me and be who I am. But I get so bitter ...

My ex is playing with my feelings, how do I go back to no contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me at the beginning of December because, in his own words, he didn't have time for a girlfriend. Straight after he dumped me I applied the No Contact rule, and was doing great until he text me at New Year asking how every...

Hypocritical boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and when we first started dating i made big life changes for him; i gave up smoking tobacco and weed, i changed friend groups, i started eating etc. for the simple reason that he wanted me to. now, ...

Can you point me in the right direction here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Just before the new year I went through a really bad phase of my life. I just didn't feel the point of being around, nothing was going right then. Now however I am the happiest person alive (even though my A-level exams are currently going on but ...

With this implant is it safe for my boyfriend to cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hiya, I can't think of an intelligent way to say this so I am just gonna' say it :) I currently have the contraceptive implant in my arm. Me and My boyfriend have a great sex life, and on occasion we have sex without a condom and he pulls out ...

Should I see whether she misses me by not having any contact with her for about a week or two???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok I am really in love with this girl for 2 years already. I waited for her even though I knew she was in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. Her relationship wasn't going well. She broke up with him a couple of times but patched back with him ...

I'm tired of him and want to break things off but how do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - 3 days ago I told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like talking to anyone or dealing with anything without bitching and he said okay I won't talk to you. I was having a really hard time cause my period was late and I was stressing out cause of school ...

He is my ex and I am his... so why should I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - so my problem is that im too shy and too scared to call up my ex, and totally depend on msn. It's been a a while and he's nowhere to be found. I feel like he doesnt want to ever talk to me. But he was the one who wanted to be friends in the first ...

How do I completely cut guys out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I am so done with lying, cheating, good for nothing guys. My ex boyfriend was enough to turn me into a nun, and the two guys I've met since being with him have made me want to reconsider my sexuality completely lol. Seriously, I'm still youn...

HE asked for a one night stand does this mean he likes me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - this guy in mii class asked me to have a one night stand with him...oh n i aint in skool...so does this mean he likes me? that he wanted to start a conversation? or was he just a perv? n he never texted me/messaged me since i said no... but i really ...

We haven't met since we were little kids, now I get butterflies thinking about meeting up with him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - okay so, i went to primary school with this guy, we didn't speak for about 5 years after that but now we have started speaking again, i'm starting to fall in love with him and i think he's perfect for me, but the thing is im not sure if he likes me...

She wanted a break but gets angry because I don't contact her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of a year now decides that she wants a lil break. i for the last three days now, i've haven't actually called, text or tried to get in contacted with her in anyway, but we still would talk because she would call me or text or even when ...

Everytime I hug and kiss my girlfriend my body reacts and its embaressing ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and ...

I told a girl I loved her, and she said she has feelings for her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - i told a girl i loved her n her reply was "oh rite" the following day she told me still has feelings for her ex but she cant go with him..... was i right to till her to stay out my life forever?...

My boyfriend confides things in my best friend that he doesn't tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - There's a guy I really like who is really sweet and funny and great. He and I have been talking and getting really close. He always compliments me and tells me that I look pretty. We talk about everything and I tell him things I don't tell anyone ...

My b/f and I fight often, my mother hates him and he also lacks self esteem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - So I have this boyfriend, I've been with him almost five months and we have a bit a LOT of fights. We're kinda in a tight situation because my mom hates him because of something that happened, and he won't let me go to his house ( yeah, i know...

A general enquiry about sex and pregnancy and timing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Lets say you have unprotected sex two weeks before your period is due to start. If you were to get pregnant would you still have your period that month...like two weeks after you have sex?...

I have really liked him for more than a year, but he seems clueless to the fact!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - hi, i need some advice, ok well there is this guy that i have really liked for over a year now and we are friends but hes completely cluless that i like him and i dont think he likes me but i want him to, what do you think i should do?...

I'm really worried about a date I was on tonight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I'm really worried about a date I went on tonight. I was really nervous throughout the date, my shyness always seems to get the better of me. As a result I didn't express myself as much as i'd have liked to. We went for a drink first which calm...

Humiliation in front of my classmates... was it my fault?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Around a year and a half ago a fairly new teacher started teaching me for my Spanish course. The first few weeks of term were relatively normal, as I came into the school year two weeks late as I was on holiday I had missed some of the syllabus. I ...

How can I get it through my sister's head that I can't and will not raise her kid for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - When my sister had her daughter, I promised to help her take care of her (for example, babysit her while she's at school). I never promised to raise her kid for her. My sister is a very blessed (aka spoiled) fifteen year old, who got involved wit...

She says dating me is like dating her own nephew!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been dating for a few weeks now, and everything was good until I told her how old I was compared to her, it really bothers her and she said that it changed how she looks at me, I don't know what to do and she said it's really ...