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writes:my ex started to talk to me all of a sudden, its been almost a month since ive seen him really. He has talked to me before and basically telling me to contact him any time, text him, and to see each other real soon. But then he just disappeared and i was hurt by that. But he's my ex for a reason. anwyays, he kept asking how i was and calling me by my nickname and he was telling me how bummed out he was for not seeing me for a long time, and that we should do something. All that time, i thought he decided on his own to move on, and to forget me. This is kinda surprise for me. Any ideas on whats going on and what to do?confused :S thank you everyone in advance! you guys never fail to give such good advice :)
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reader, Jays  +, writes (17 January 2010):
just meet with him and see how it goes, you never no seeing him may help you too realise your true feelings and help you to be more clear on the decision you make :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionafter i broke it off, i never really gave him a chance to talk to me, until after a really long time he asked to be friends, and i dont know i guess i got soft hearted and said okay, i hate keeping grudges and ive known him for so long, and we've been there for each other through many ups and downs.
I understand everyone saying he's keeping me on a string, and yes I guess it's something like that. More like keeping one foot on the door. I understand he doesnt want me to disappear, thats like his biggest fear.
I told him we'd talk bout this "seeing eachother" after my exams are done this week. and he just replied with an alright and that was it.
I knew we'd talk sooner or later, he doesnt seem to give up.
But i really don't knwo wat to do. I don't think i like him as much as before because i havent seen him for so long.
well thanks everyone, you guys are great. This beats awkward convos with mom :)!
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reader, Jays +, writes (17 January 2010):
maybe being away from you has given him time too look back on memeories you have had together and led him to realise how much he misses you and his true feeling for you .
meet up with him as friends and talk it out and see what he has to say, dont rush into anything :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Even though he's broken up with you, he doesn't like the idea of you being with other men. Men are possessive animals. Maybe he's dating other girls but found no one interesting.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
Sounds like he's trying to keep you on a string to me. He has no right to just cut all contact, then suddenly enter your life again as if nothing has happened. He should have thought about that before he hurt you. As you said, he's an ex for a reason. Keep him that way. You're not some form of entertainment for him.
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