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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I so want to tell her how I feel but I can't. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - hey theres this girl im mad about who just came out of a ralationship, I have built up a strong friendship but she found out i like her. when i talk to her i lied out of instinct and said i didnt like her in this way and she replied "oh thank god". ...

Is it normal to want someone to love and hold you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Okay so Im 14, and I have an issue I hate. I wanna no if its normal to want someone to love you and hold you like a boyfriend haha. Like half of the day I wish I had someone like that. And when someone shows interest in me, im to scared to talk to ...

Does my best guy friend truly love me and what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (?) - Well me and my best guy friend like each other and everyone knows it and we were both each others first kiss. But anyway a couple of days ago i was at his house becuase it was pouring with rain(and flash flooding) and my parents were out of town...

Should I be with my boyfriend or the man I think I still love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hi All, Okay, well this guy Matt is amazing, he's kind and honest and passionate. I really feel alot for him, but there are alot of things holding me back. He is 5 years older than me (23 and i'm 18), lives in London and I have just moved to Un...

Cant over him, are we really meant to be. I'm going insane

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - hi there i just wanted some peoples advice and opinions on my situation. but basically i really like this guy and i have for a long while now, but i was talkng to him a couple of days ago and he told me he was seeing some girl to see how it goes, ju...

Why do I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - ok this is going 2 sound abit wierd and im sorry about the length, but im in love with a guy im embarrassed to like, because a few weeks ago there was this award thing at my school an we both won a award along with alot of oher people and my parents ...

I would love more from her but don't want to risk our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I have this friend and we are closer than you could imagine. She is the only person who can make me smile and feel good all the time. We cuddle and sleep in the same bed when she comes over. I even sit with her in the bathroom cause she doesn't ...

I dumped him on his Birthday, he wants me back, but can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I liked my boyfriend alot but I felt like we grew apart so I dumped him on his B-day. I know that seems heartless but I liked another guy and if I didnt dump my bf on his B-day then I would be cheating. Well I did it as nice as I could but he said ...

Why can I not get that chemistry with someone any more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - You know the feeling you get when you just meet someone and your stomach drops because of that amazing chemical reaction? I haven't had it in almost a year. Seriously, i'm going insane, no matter what situation, who i'm with or even if it was just...

Condom Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or at least hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i ...

Should I let my boyfriend know what happened between me and my ex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - hey there so for like i dont know the past month and a half maybe two months i have been dealing with my bf and the way he treats our relationhip like he doesnt need to try and make it work...its like he thinks he can act however he wants to and n...

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to give up on this idea, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - i am in love with my maths teacher, he was my form tutor when i was year 7 and im 13 and in year 9 now. he knows how i feel cuz one of my mates told him (which i hav forgiven her for now). he is so gorgeous and he seems to treat me more caringly ...

He forced himself on me after I said no, then 4 days later he broke up with me! I just feel so down all the time and don't know what to do next

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hello, i was recently in a relationship with a boy 1 year older, im 13 and hes 14. We were having regular meetings and having foreplay almost everytime, we were both virgins, until the other day he asked if i wanted to go all the way and i straight ...

Advice for a recently ex-virgin please....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - so i lost my varginity 2 days ago and after i didint feel anything but when i woke up my stomach felt achey and strange and i also bled for the next 2 days but that just stoped today but i still have a weird stomach ache. we used a condom so i ...

Help... am I gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - im 17 year old male. i perfer watching gay porn thinking of boys and penis and using anal toys. i think that this makes me gay so i decided to watch straight porn and i didnt get erect or feel anything, but when i watch gay porn it really turns me ...

My boyfriend just left for army training and its killing me... any one been in my shoes or could just give me some advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 3 months now, i know it doesnt seem long but you know when you have that connection that is soo strong and makes you feel like their the one, well hes that guy. Any way he just left for ar...

How can I make things better between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Help me please, i really cant stop thinking about this guy, i met him in may last yr and swapped numbers, then stoped talking then in october, we started talking again, and hit it off really well, i met him 3 times and slept with him twice, the ...

Do I shave... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - hey, im 14 years old, and i dont know if i should shave me pubic hair or not, i have heard it looks a lot better, but i'm not sure, please help? ...

I need advice on fingering.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm new to this site and don't get it that much. But, I have a question. I've been trying to finger myself a lot, and I'm a boy( Yes, I'm Gay.) How exactly do I? I've seen a lot of tips for girls to, but how do I do it since I'm a ...

Falling in love with an adopted brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - me(im a girl btw)and my family might adopt a guy my age (13)and im really excited about that its there is one thing im worried about.... what if we were to fall in love? I mean i dont don't think i would mind it at all! but at the same time I dont ...

Will he take my letter the wrong way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - if i give this letter to him is he going to take it the wrong way? i dont want to leave him..its supposed to be more of a wake up call or a warning.. "i think we both know how much i love you and that my intentions in where this relationship is ...

Is my obsession with wearing women's clothing healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - I like to dress up in a sari with all ladies materials make up and underpants i even like to wear other ladies clothing with all ornaments bra panties make up and a wig with long hairs I wore the sari first time when i was 13 wears and became d...

He has a girlfriend. Is he not falling for me because he's afraid he'll get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Well, I like a guy. This guy has a girlfriend. Their relationship is fairly new. I'm almost positive that this guy has feelings for me. He talks to me much more than he does his girlfriend, and we flirt often. Well, I think that the reason he isn't ...

How can I keep friends that will make me happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - i have a group of friends that lately have been treating me horribly i cry all the time. so i decided that i would stop being friends with them and they dont seem to care which hurts me even more. i tried making new friends so that i have new people ...

How do I relieve this sexual tension?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

3 January 2010 (?) - So, this is going to sound complicated and rather weird. Question #1: So last year, for about 8 months I had a boyfriend. We had sex nearly every day (Sometimes more than twice a day) we were very sexual. I loved him very very much. But we bro...

My cousin blows hot and cold with me... is he using me or does he really have feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - my cousin and i had sex last summer but i was drunk and he wasn't. well long story short, i love him so much and i think he feels the same. then about 4 weeks ago, we had sex again, and it was better than before!! well, he avoids me, and when it's ...

I'm really confused as to whether he likes me... or not...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - i met a boy a while back (who is a bit older than me)but never spoke then recently i went to a party and we got talking, he asked me lots of questions about me and seemed genuinly interested and always seemed to direct the questions at me. he was ...

I really think he's changed. How can I get my friends to like him more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I have been talking to a boy i met at a party a couple of years ago and he seems really nice so we have met up a lot these past few months, i have really started to like him but my friends dont, i dont see what their problem is as they have never ...

Premature when condom is put on...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or atleast hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i ...

How can I push things forward in the right direction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - There's this girl I have really liked for a couple of years now, who I am friends with. For the last year or so she has had a boyfriend, but recently she broke up with him. When she was still with him, I told her that I had really strong feelings ...

Are we too young to want to be together for the rest of our lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hello (: I'm new to this site, but every time I type something into google to look for advice, I always get sent here. Right now, I am dating a boy who is a year younger than I am. I am 15 years old (almost 16) and he is 14. He's (as I call him) ...

What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first move or just accept being horny all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - my new b/f and i have only had sex a few times..at first it was hard 4 me 2 get wet with him bcuz i was so nervous being that we had been friends 4 a few years. Now it seems like i always want to do him but he's not around.. What do I do? Directly ...

Should I let him continue to text me first or should I take the initiative sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Hey i was wondering if anyone could give me some advice please. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago we were togather for 10 months. we said we would still be friends and he's texed me a couple times. We talk just fine but i was wondering ...

Can I trust him again... I love him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - Here's the thing I was with my boyfriend for 8months when I found some texts from another girl being really flirty when I confronted him about it I asked him staight if he was flirting and he said yes! I agreed to stay with him if he didn't text her ...

Does anyone else feel like a stranger the morning after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - the other night i was round my blokes house for the night and we had amazing sex he kept going for ages which really pleasured us both. the next morning when we got up it was like the previous night never happened. Does anyone else feel like a...