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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What can I do to get boys to like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - How can I get boys to like me when im ugly? I need help... i feel really ugly all the time. Everyone around me is so much prettier. I get made fun of because of my short hair. I am 15 and a boy has never shown any interest in me, plus I am flat ...

How can I get a pregnancy test kit without my mum finding out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - hello im 14 and i need a pregancy test how can i get one without my mum finding out? i want to make sure i am before i tell my mum as she will go mental if she found out...

Should I tell him I'm 2 years younger, and if so how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - hi, i need some advice from someone who knows. i am a 13 year old guy. sometimes i have kinda thought i might be bi cause even tho i like girls, i also feel attracted to some guys sometimes. last weekend i was hanging out at a park with mostly ...

Should I let my friend have him? And how do I have phone sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - 0k.. i am currently talking to one of my closest friends bff and he is very very sweet and i am starting to like him but yesterday i was talking to my friend and was like y u didnt tell me u was talking to my bff i didnt know what to say because i ...

My girlfriend has changed for the worst

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I can't really decide what to do, What I mean is, I've been with my girlfriend for aprox a year and 2 months. But she has changed, A lot, Now she has no respect for me or anyone around her. Sometimes she is really mean and sarcastic to me,...

I find it difficult to be outgoing around my confident friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I'm 16, and starting Sixth Form next year. It's in the same school I'm at at the moment, so I will know most of the people. But most of my friends have all these friends in the year above (who will be with us next year) and I don't. I mean, I...

Her parents won't let her date, how can we approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i just started dating 3 weeks ago...i really feel like i love her...we talk all night, and we never run out of things to say to each other...i live in north carolina and she lives in north dakota, im moving out to nebraska soon to ...

What's the reason for all these mixed signals?

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4 August 2009 (M) - I have finally "got in there" with a girl (I'll call her Holly) who I've fancied for a while.....so I thought. I presumed I was friendzoned before until just recently. She had told me (a few months ago) that she would like to go out with someone...

Should I give this boy up now or carry on living in a pretend world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Well in April i was with my ex.. then my boyfriend and his friend from wales came down with is about two hours away from where we live. When he went home i added him on bebo and we got talking and then when me and my bf broke up we got quite close ...

I thought teenage boys were supposed to be very interested in sex; why does my boyfriend not want it anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months but he's not been wanting to have sex as much as he did. Whenever I want it he says not today (but not in an angry way) or 'Lets wait til another day' I dont get it because we'r...

Neediness in relationships... I can't have it happen next time! How can I calm down while still showing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi there, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend around 2 months ago and I'd say I've done a pretty good job about getting over her completely. I even get happy when I see her photos on Facebook, etc. with her new girlfriend because they suit each o...

I like him as more than just a friend, but now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I am confused about my guy-friend. I really like him as more than a friend, and for a while, thought he liked me too. We are pretty tight, we text every day, we talk on the phone for hours (i "make him feel like a girl ;)" for talking to me for 3-4 ...

I miss my teacher and I feel bad because I think about him more than I do about my family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I miss my teacher because he moved. I cry at night thinking that I will never see him again. But i feel bad because I think of him more than I do about my family members that have died. what should I do?...

What can I say to make my GF stay away from this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I think I may be having trouble with jealousy. I've been dating a girl that I'm crazy about for nearly a month, and there's one situation that's bothering me. Prior to being with me, she was "seeing" another guy, but they weren't dating - they ...

Why don't I want him to date even though I dumped him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Well.....I dumped my BF for my EX and well.....he put on his profile that he was single on his website and im jealous cause i still have feelings for him and it seems like i just can't let go of him and i got REALLY jealous and i talked to him about ...

Online dating. Should I give up on this fantasy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - well theres this guy i have been with for about 3 months now.. we are online dating. we never met but we promised we will no matter what... he is great and he is the best guy i ever met and i hope one day we will actually end up together.. i know i ...

Irregular periods but I have pregnancy symptoms! Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hii, Im 16 in a few months with a problem.. I have a VERY irregular period (3 months between them normally),but I think im pregnant! I took a pregnancy test which came out negative but I think I took it too early (I month after unprotected sex) i...

Nervous of what boys will think of me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - i want to meet other guys and be flirtty but im really scared ill be a slut or theyll think that im looking for a relationship when im looking for just fun.i really am nervous guys will reject me aswell i know im preatty but I don't think guys will ...

It's early, but I want to tell him how I'm feeling without freaking him out..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - How much do you tell a guy about how you're feeling (in the early stages of going out) to let him know you're interested but avoid freaking him out? I'm fairly new to dating again after a long relationship (and over a year of being single after that ...

Is it wrong that for once, I want to be happy too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I know this is long, but I feel so miserable about this. And please don't answer unless you read the whole thing. I'll know if you didn't read the whole thing. My best friend in the whole entire world is a guy. I love him to death and we've been fri...

I like my friend's ex but I don't want to cause any problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, who I secretly liked. Now I would never want to hurt her by trying to take him from her! Don't get me wrong, I'm not like that! But I'm not that sure they'll get back together. Something about being ...

I'm experiencing pregnancy-like symptoms... Help!

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4 August 2009 (F) - I'm really confused and would benefit from any answers i receive on this following situation. I had unprotected sex 4 weeks ago, since then i've experienced pregnancy-like symptoms. This includes; bloating, fatigue, cramping (often mild but ...

Am I giving her mixed signals?

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4 August 2009 (F) - I told my friend I was lesbian and she is straight.. she knows i'm an emotional person and everything.. and she's always like flirting with me.. and she told me" I thought about you boo"... and like two weeks ago i told her i had a boyfriend and she ...

How can I feel more positive and stop feeling so down?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - I'm think I'm really depressed. I've been thinking about life, about how the good guys die. MLK-shot, JFK-shot, John Lennon-shot, Reagen-wounded. I think about how there's no god. I'm the funny guy in school, everyone thinks I'm happy. Reminds me of ...

I want to stop masterbating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - okay im teen 15-16 i masterbate ean though i promise od i wont and i say things like if i maasterbate ill lose intrest in this and that so far two things come true im just so sick and scared i want to stop i dont want to lose anymore i wana quit i ...

Why am I jealous about him spending time with his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I'm hoping someone can help me.. My boyfriend's cousin has come to stay with him for 2 weeks from another country and I wont be seeing him at all in this time and I'm finding this really hard because i'm quite an emotional person. I see him alot a...