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Archived questions from: 1 August, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Do I just need to 'buck up' and take it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Please help. I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years. I've never had intercourse, but he is 23 and has since he was 18... We've done oral mostly, and I've only been fingered a couple of times, with a ton of pain. I...

How can I stop being self-consious during sexual activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - well ive been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we are pretty sexually active. although we both would like to have sex, we want to do other things before that. so far i have tossed my lad off twice and he loves it to say the least. we want t...

I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever expe...

Masterbation and orgasm questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - what are some new ways to finger myself that feel reeaallyy good? i am 13 and dnt have a vibrator. or a vibrating toothbrush. wht can i use. what are some new ways? and what does an orgasm feel like?...

Is it wrong to have a relationship with someone when you don't feel the same about them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - is it wrong to go out with a guy who loves you but you just like him? when you might also still have feelings for your teacher? xxx...

Why cant I get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - hey :) i really want a boyfrind to have that first kiss i mean why dont any boys like me ? whats the problem with me ? peaple say well i dont know wether they are actually telling the truth but they say i am : kind friendly easy to...

My low confidence convinces me I can't be liked.. so should I just not bother with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I reallly like this boy i met out a few nights ago. I gave him a lift home and he kissed me in the car before getting out and We swapped numbers. The problem is, he is way out of my league. There is a slim chance he may really like me, but pro...

I feel like just an annoying little teenager to him, so how do I fall out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I think I'm falling for this family friend who happens to be like, 11 years my senior. He teaches at a local school, and was saying he's used to people having crushes non him on a daily basis practically. He's pretty friendly, but I'm sure he just ...

Should I forget about him all together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - i am not sure about how to propose a guy who is very much studious and not in too much of girl friend boy friend matter. i dont understand should i continue with him as friends and forget about love and all that or should i try to speak to him.i ...

Tips on how to ask out girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...

He says he likes me only as a friend, but he flirts with other girls who are only friends! So why not me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hola :D So one of my best guy friends is a REAL BIG flirt. He flirts with every single girl 24/7. Although he doesn't flirt with me, he told me he thought I was cute once and on occasions he pinches my cheeks and tells me I'm funny, but he does it ...

What can I do to overcome these feelings of loss? I miss my ex so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Basically guys... My girlfriend and I broke up. I know it's nothing... But I loved her. It really was the best 7 1/2 months of my life... It feels like everything that could make me happy went away with her. Every song I have listend to makes...

Me and my boyfriend are having lots of issues around sex. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 1/2 years now. we have quite a few issues when it comes to sex. we were 16 when we started having sex, and i was self concious because he couldnt make me orgasm...so i faked it because he hated that he ...

Why was I rejected after my job interview? I thought it had gone well! And what should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I am 19 and on summer break from university. Last year I was fairly lazy/depressed and didn't get a summer job. The year before that I worked for two months at my fathers work on weekends. So this year, after having done very little as I...

What should I do if I run back into my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Hi every one i got a problem i have hade thes huge crush on a girl for years ever sence 3rd grade we would play at recesse and i moved away in 6th grade and moved back at the end of 8th i was there for two weeks and i thought she moved away and i ...

Is there something wrong with me for liking older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old and always find older men (maybe old enough to be my grandpa) very attractive. Is there somthing wrong with me, or is this just my personal taste for men?...

My first wasn't a full experience can I share this again fully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - So I am 16 years old goin on 17 and had sex for my first time at 14. We didn't really have sex he put it in and it hurt he only rotated in and out a couple of times we stopped after and did other things. I bleed for a about a week. I keep lookin ...

Should I just be satisfied with his friendship and forget about him later when we get out of touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - i have a boy in my mind and think of proposing him but i cant imagine how he would react and i dont want to loose him since he may not like my idea or may be liking another girl and i think i even dont know how to get started and blurt out ...

My cousin makes fun of me because I'm afraid of sex. And now I like a guy who is engaged! Can anyone help me here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hello! my name is cathy and i have 2 pieces of information i need help on im 16 i really like this man and he's 21 and engaged!!! whenever were around with eachother theres alot of flirting going on and its a bit obvious we like eachother but yo...

Marriage without a wedding or rings? This isn't how I imagined it...and how do I tell my family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - As most women do I have always dreamt of a nice engagement and wedding once I found the man of my dreams. I never cared about the price of the ring or how elaborate the wedding would be I just expected to have something special and memorable. Now, ...

Jealous over walpaper?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - i came home from college today. i asked my mom to drop me off mu boyfriends house. he was excited to see me as i was to sew him. when we did see each other, we hugged and what not. not soon after, he found my cellphone wallpaper was of zac efron. i ...

Whats the difference between cum and sperm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - hey there, ok so this is a simple question what is the difference between cum and sperm ?? i'm a girl so that's why i don't know. i also wanted to know what does ejaculated mean ??? thanks =]...

Blow job or no blow job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - okay so im tired or relationships and n i met this guy pretty eyes n hes lik i dnt want lady but we both like each other we have lik a no strings attach thing and we make ou n what not but he wants me to give him a blow job... i havent done that ...

Unloved and Unhappy, what am I to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - HELP I am really unhappy. I have a BF who doesnt seem to love me. He never says it or hugs or does anything with me. When he wants sex he just asked for it. We have 3 kids and 1 on the way. I tried telling him over and over again how i feel. He d...

Head over heals for my BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - So, my problem started when I fell for my best friend. It's the typical cliche story. Though, he treats me horribly and I can't seem to tell him where to go. The past two years I've been dealing with depression, paranoia, anxiety and going to ...

Txt games with my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - okay so i had this boyfriend since 2006 we been on and off since then. i gave him all my heart and i love him so much. i stood agains my family for him n he wouldnt do thhe same for me but i ignored it... for valentines day we went out for a ro...

I'm so in love with him and he told me never to talk to him again. Why is he texting me NOW?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

Telling the truth or excuses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - okay so me and this guy were suppose to hang out yesterday but his mom made him go to some family get together, and he couldnt get out of it so he asked me if i wanted to get together today, but apparently he got grounded so i said well then ma...