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writes:well theres this guy i have been with for about 3 months now.. we are online dating. we never met but we promised we will no matter what... he is great and he is the best guy i ever met and i hope one day we will actually end up together.. i know i should be careful but i know more about him then myself.well lately everything has been very weird..we really really like eachother but lately i feel as if he is being more distant like before he would IM me every minute of the day and i loved it!now he just writes to be sometimes..we have had out heart aches and stuff but i dont know whats wrong, i asked him if something was wrong he said everything is perfectly fine.. im very confused.i like him to death but i just cant figure him out.its kin dof clear to me he feels the same about me but he just changed. hes not the guy i met 3 months ago.. our last fight he told me how he felt and hes like "i told you now dont ever make me open up about my feelings again please" he has told me that he has a wall up but i understand why.. he has been thru alot..what should i do? what do you think is wrong with him?? should i just give up on this fantasy? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (4 August 2009):
 ohh sweety please be soo careful!
i'm actually going through something regarding an online guy and it's not pretty at all.
he was really lovely at first and now he's just a bully you need to be so careful with people online!!!
if you do meet up with him make sure you take people with you and meet in a public place.
he's obviously got some issues there as well maybe he's the type of guy who feels if he opens up he'll get rejected as maybe it's happened before.
please be so careful he could turn out to be someone you don't even feel you know.
if you want to talk please message me i've been through something like this!!
:) hope this helps.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (4 August 2009):
 In dealing with online relationships, its best to get the initial meeting out of the way and should happen sooner rather than later.
Make him commit to a meeting. Any hesitation, or backpedalling on his part will indicate that he may not be for real.
Its very easy to be someone we aren't when we are online. I had a disasterous online relationship that left me questioning every fem,ale on the planet and their motives.
So the meet has to be soon, and hold him to it. If he wont commit, then dont waste any more time on him.
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