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writes: Hey !!I need some advice .My very good close friend is going to ask the guy I like to go out with me and I'm totally nervous and scared .... he's showed signs that he liked me but I'm still not sure .... she thinks that he does but ...IDK .... I'm so nervous ... I'm even thinking of telling her not to ask him but .... he doesn't stay single long so I wanna get him before someone else does .....ya know ... *sigh* I don't know if I should go through with it . what do you think ?? what should I do to calm myself down ....(thanks in advance) *~VG~* Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Wouldn't it be better if you asked him out yourself? But if your friend asks his out for you, you don't need to worry yourself about it! It's your friend talking not you. So you don't have to be worried! :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell she asked him and she said he said no ... but shes told me alot of lies lately so I'm just going to wait a while and ask again myself. Thanks everyone for all the advice :)
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 well i am in a situtaion like you,actually all my friend think that this guy likes me but i dont want to accept it..but i wouldnt want my friend to go ask him out,it may just freak him out,its better we start talking first and then try askin him out,if not you can just ask your friend to do it..best of luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): hey well according to me..let your friend start up a conversation with him and through her you can get in the picture...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): what can't you ask him out??She knows you like him and she is not bothered? sometimes its every girl for herself.i wouldnt let this guy ruin your friendship tho..if hes never single for long maybe hes not that good a catch if he can't hold on to a girl.. maybe hes really dull when you get to know him?I think you and your friend have a good chat about this if you both like him then you should have equal rights to asking him out i guess..
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 April 2008):
It's a risk that you might feel like an idiot and get laughed at if he says no. Or you might go out with him and it will be great.
But that is the risk you take when you ask someone out. That's why I let guys ask me out not the other way round.
To be honest I make a point of never dating someone I work with because it will mess everything up if it went wrong.
Since you are at school with this guy it's up to you if you want to take the risk.
Good Luck!! xx
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