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30-35,
*ilyflower.n
writes:I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note:"Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me. Anyway congrats on winning your debate. Hope you forgive me. Yours truly lilyflower".n So what do you think? Here's a minor question, would you like a guy who won't talk to you and basically barely give you the time of the day? Probably not.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Glad to hear that it turned out right.
Sometimes it is just faulty communications problem.
He is a man and he thinks differently.
It is always good to get confirmations or miscommunications would occur.
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reader, lilyflower.n +, writes (12 June 2008):
lilyflower.n is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTrue but it turn out he wasn't offended at all in fact I think he was glad to hear from me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): "I hope my joke at your expense about your clothes and looking funny did not offend you, I don't know what I was thinking, I did not say what I mean, what I meant to say was you really look different when you are in a suit and it suits you well....Please accept my sincere congratulations on winning the debate, wow!!!!!
Your note is fine, too, I read your original post.
I think this guy is a bit stuck up or he already has a girlfriend, so don't get yourself all bothered by this, you did not commit a cardinal sin....and most guys would have been appreciative of the attention even if it was negative or written like a joking comment....he is smart enough to get that I think.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Depends on what you did really.
The part that has me a bit worried is him winning the debate. What your "mistake" debating him or something?
For some reason you post is making me think you are apologizing to a bully.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (13 April 2008):
The ball is at his feet.
It may not be as bad as you perceived it to be.
He may see it differently.
Anyway , you wait for his response.
You may still like the guy even if he does not have the time
to talk to you or give you access unless he does something
obnoxious to turn you off.
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reader, lyd_foster  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 'So what do you think? Here's a minor question, would you like a guy who won't talk to you and basically barely give you the time of the day?
Probably not.'
If this is guy that you are talking about then why bother with him.
also if you offended him without realising then it is also his own fault
I dont think he deserves an appoly at all
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