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36-40,
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writes: I really like her. I don't know why I feell this way towards her, but last night we had a party and got a little drunk and we like to hang out with each other always joking around saying we love each other like a brother and a sister but here is the thing. I feel a close connection with her, the warmth the completeness .she takes away all the pain in my life when I hug her bye. But it's weird last night, my brother and her got in a hard core arguing fight with each other, when they get drunk some times I wish I can just tell him that she deserves better, for her self she is a amazing woman works full time buys him stuff, takes him on trips, like I guess there going to the beach this weekend, that she got for him. I mean, I know She says she loves me like a brother, but last night I told her to sit down by me, gave her a long hug, because she was crying, and upset, at my brother, I said don't let him get to you, like that you are a sweet girl, ect.. And gave her a couple of hugs that night, it was a tuff night let me know what you think, and I just don't like guys that yell at woman because they think they are tuff it's not about how tuff you are to a woman, it's how you love a woman!!
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 Just because it irks you to see a guy yell at a woman does not qualify you to pursue her for yourself.
As usual, I'll be blunt. What goes on between couples is none of your business - even more so that the third party is your brother, for God's sake. DEFINITELY leave it. How would YOU feel if your brother interfered between you and your girl, with a view to making her his own? Carry on down this route and you will cause irreparable damage to your relationship with your brother. Unless of course, that is your intention - a bit of sibling rivalry going on here maybe?
Find your own woman to worry about and leave bro to sort his own relationship problems, is my strong advice.
Good luck.
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