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Student of Psychology, Degree in Nursing with wide variety of experience. Mother, daughter, sister, wife, ex, neice, grandaughter, student, boss, colleague....you get the picture.
Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
Adore my family and friends. Love to help others, abuse survivor, rape survivor, holder of family record for cherry pip spitting......
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 June 2006: I am not ignorant dear male anon, you are. You are spouting your beliefs as you ahve done many many times before. The sexual revolution has not come about in one generation as you claim...go read up on your social history sweetie and get you facts ... (read in full...)
I need a mole removed on my back but I don't know how to go about it...
Q. can i have more answers plz. i have a finger tip size mole on my back and i am so self conscience about it. im 16. what age do you have to be to get it removed? also i dont wanna ask my mum if i can get it removed cos its embaressing, i dont wanna ...
A. 7 June 2006: Please go and see your GP. Moles are not disgusting they are just there. Discuss this with your Mum and tell her how you feel about it. She won't be embarrassed and you shouldn't either....
Good luck.
xxx... (read in full...)
he left his family for me...but he insists on paying all their bills! The strain is taking it's toll on me.
Q. After a 2 and a half year affair, my partner has just left his wife to be with me. However, he insists on paying for all of the bills still in his former house as well as the mortgage and future CSA payments once that's been calculated. He's...
A. 7 June 2006: Let's go thru your quetsion one step at a time.
Your new partner, who you had an affair with, continues paying for his kids and his (ex) wife. You ahve a problem with this? Can I ask why?
Why should an innocent women and her children be force... (read in full...)
When we argued, my BF started spreading around copies of my sexy photo!
Q. Hi I am 13 years old and I have a 15 year old boyfriend. We don't do anything sexual or anything and we aren't ready for that yet. I had a picture took of me in my sexy underwear and I was laying in a sexy pose. He swore to me when he took it he wo...
A. 6 June 2006: I'd go with Dr Pete, if you look good in the photo don't worry.....tell everyone he has a small one, and see what happens....(like Pete says this may not be the best advice - but hey! sometimes revenge is sweet)... (read in full...)
I REALLY WANT A BOYFRIEND!!!!!
Q. I'm fifteen years old an my love life is..... well I don't really have one, I have a lot of male friends but i guess they dont get more then a just friends vibe. I REALLY WANT A BOYFRIEND!!!!! PLZ HELP (give me tips, give me some kind of advise)...
A. 6 June 2006: Tell me about it!!
I wish....
xxx... (read in full...)
Pressure to have sex, but I'm not comfortable with it!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I've done it before but I don't feel comfortable with him. What should I do?...
A. 6 June 2006: Tell him NO. If he loves you he will respect you and honour your wishes. If he continues trying to pressure you and/or dumps you you know he was after only one thing - and it isn't the pleasure of your company.... (read in full...)
I need good tips and advice on losing weight.
Q. i am trying to lose weight, but what ever i do i do not seem to be losing weight, i stayed away from junk food and i walk to school which take me bout 15-20 everyday, and still i couldnt lose this weight, is their any type of medicine that can help ...
A. 6 June 2006: can I just point out that weight loss may be a *simple* thing as quoted by one of the other agony aunts, but if it was so simple then millions of people wouldn't be on diets round the world each year!
Losing weight ahs to come through will powe... (read in full...)
I have had 3 lovers at 15 and now I have a nice BF
Q. hey i am not doing well with guys. i have been out with 3 guys in the past 5 months and all of them have forced me into bed i suppose it is cos i am small so they can keep me down. i see my self as a slut. have had sex 7 times between 3 lads and i ...
A. 6 June 2006: If you have been *held down* and forced to have sex against your will then this is rape. You need to speak to somebody in a position of authority who will listen and can help you. A school counseller, GP, parent etc. If it was consensual then you ... (read in full...)
Visit my dying uncle or take my English exams?
Q. Hi I have English exams on the 6th and 8th of June. I am really streesed about it because I found out yesterday that my uncle had 48 hours to live, so I guess that means 24 now. The problem is I want to see him before it's too late but he lives ...
A. 6 June 2006: Good luck in your exams, but remember that family is more important than living with a regret you cannot change.
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Don't believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers, and remember Paul Mac had a past too!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend still using online dating websites!
Q. My BF of 8 months used on-line dating service before he met me. He told me that he is not active anymore. Last week he even told me the name of the websites and his screen name. I went to one of the websites and found his profile. I was stunned to ...
A. 5 June 2006: Ah, maybe he WAS telling the truth. If he has erased his profile and doesn't visit them any more without you asking then chances are he does care what you think.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Does size matter?
Q. hey girls! i am scared my penis is too small to satisfy my girlfriend. do you think 5.75 inched is ok?...
A. 3 June 2006: This is a perfectly normal size penis. Please stop worrying about it, and believe me I have seen many of them in the course of my career.
xx... (read in full...)
My partner ignores me completely!
Q. Hi, why does my male partner invite guests over, and smile (at the women and make eyecontact) and be friendly and basically not look at me or acknowledge me. The next day he goes to work and then comes home, goes to sleep, then gets up and avoids ...
A. 3 June 2006: How do you teat him now? I am not saying that this is thru any fault of your own, I am just asking if the pair of you are maybe in a vicious cycle of *boredom* or *neglectful* behaviour. If you feel that your relationship is worth saving and you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend still using online dating websites!
Q. My BF of 8 months used on-line dating service before he met me. He told me that he is not active anymore. Last week he even told me the name of the websites and his screen name. I went to one of the websites and found his profile. I was stunned to ...
A. 3 June 2006: Pull this guy up and tell him he is a liar. He can browse these sites without having his profile listed. I can tell you now and absolutely catagorically he is not telling you the whole truth. Why? Because he wouldn't be looking if he was truely ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I slept in another guy's bed
Q. i love my boyfriend but recently things havnt been great, i ended up sleeping in another guys bed and kissing him.we like each other, but hes not single. should i tell my boyfriend? i know it may end things and i dont want that..all that happened ...
A. 3 June 2006: Things haven't been great between you, is this why you ended up in another guys bed? If you truely loved your BF this should not have happened. I think you need to look at whether you should even be in this relationsghip at all. Ask yourself how ... (read in full...)
He says stop my friendship or he will end the relationship
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years. We live a little way apart from each other and only see each other twice a week, but we do love each other very much. Last year a man moved in next door to me. There is no attraction there at all but ...
A. 3 June 2006: I can understand why your BF is behaving like this. You ahve developed a friendship with a person of the opposite sex who you are intimate with in a way YOU know is innocent, (ie. as if he was a female friend) but he cannot see that. YOU know ... (read in full...)
Can people really change ? Is it worth the risk giving him a second chance ?
Q. Do you believe in second chances...? I was with my boyfriend who I loved very much for about a year and half...I found out by chance that he'd slept with someone behind my back. Whilst finding this out it also came to light that he'd been contac...
A. 3 June 2006: I think you need to proetect yourself in this situation.
If he had had one *slip up* and you ahd forgiven him and he had never given you cause for concern again then fair enough. BUT, because he was contacting other girls and up to stuff which you ... (read in full...)
I want to wear clothes that make my body look as curvy as it really is...
Q. i am 15 and have quite a curvy figure and i love it! (not boasting lol). but i want to envisise it by wearing clothes that will make my body look more curvy. i really want my body to look more curvy but i am not sure on what sort of t-shirts and ...
A. 3 June 2006: To then male anon below.....since when does what a women wear influence whether she is raped or not? You MAY think this is unacceptable as men may be tempted to attack her - but she has the right to wear what she wants. Anyway, she is asking for ... (read in full...)
Am I an alien or is it the alcohol?
Q. I keep having a recurring dream. I'm an alien, I recently landed in this country and have found everything to be so different from home. There is something called grass in places thats green (weird or what) and there's all this crazy stuff ever...
A. 3 June 2006: Phone home.......... (read in full...)
Why does he talk for ages at night with me, but during the day cuts me short! Is there another girl ?
Q. My boyfriend is always cutting me short on the phone during the day, but we talk for hours at night. What does this mean? Is there another girl?...
A. 1 June 2006: Are you ringing him when he is in work/school/college....?... (read in full...)
Can we get engaged before our divorce is done?
Q. Dear Cupid, We've already been shot with Cupid's bow - but are both currently in the process of getting divorced however haven't been issued with a decree nisi yet. Is it possible for my new partner and I to get engaged before our respective d...
A. 31 May 2006: Yes, an engagement is not a legal process - although it used to be. So you can set the date fro your wedding at any time at all.
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Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 31 May 2006: And your proof that this is how ALL men (or even just a majority) feel?... (read in full...)
Can I have a natural birth after 2 Cesareans ?
Q. is it possible to have a natural birth after 2 c-sections? I want another child but im put off by c-sections. can you help me?...
A. 31 May 2006: In the UK they prefer women who have had 2 c/secs not to have a trial of labour due to the weakening of the uterus by the scar tissue from the previous two births. You really need to speak to your GP to be referred to a decent obstetrician who can ... (read in full...)
My friend went through the 'Mummy Test' and I might have overreacted
Q. Fellow agony aunts, I have a friend who has been seeing a guy for about a month. Her guy wants a wife and kids - he is at the stage of life where these things should have happened by now. My friend is a few months away from starting her doctorate ...
A. 31 May 2006: But the thing is it is the individuals decison if they need that *needy* partner or not. You adding pressure by 'disapproving' of the relationship will not help.
Maybe this is a slightly simplistic view, but the fact he has a good relationship with... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 31 May 2006: Still haven't answered my questions tho.
... (read in full...)
My friend went through the 'Mummy Test' and I might have overreacted
Q. Fellow agony aunts, I have a friend who has been seeing a guy for about a month. Her guy wants a wife and kids - he is at the stage of life where these things should have happened by now. My friend is a few months away from starting her doctorate ...
A. 30 May 2006: His Mum wanted to meet the person he has feelings for. And you think this is odd? I think the friendship dynamic is a little off kilter here. Stay out of it. Don't cause problems for your friend were none exsist. The *mummy test*, do you ahve ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 30 May 2006: Oh and well done to happylife for learning the complexities of *cutting*, *pasting*, repeating yourself as a means of getting your point across (oh, and failing miserably at it I may add - as there appears to be NO point to what you are trying to ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 30 May 2006: Very droll Dr Pete, lol... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 30 May 2006: Wrong
You said that.
I said that the males in my family are not quite as shallow as you sweetie. That sexual fulfillment is not number one on their list. You see, not everyone is as shallow as you....it is actually quite simple.
As for the... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 29 May 2006: Exactly you are repeating yourself over and over. This does not make it true. You are quoting from the opinions of one man who wrote one book. Do you ahve research and evidence to back up your *wild* theories. And what do you say to the many ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me. shall I tell the guys girlfriend?
Q. Hi, a short question. If your girlfriend cheated on you with a guy and he has a girlfriend would you tell his girlfriend about it? Very hurt and confused as I was with her a very long time and I was trying to sort out my relationship problems but ...
A. 29 May 2006: I must add, I have to agree with both Martini and Dr Pete on this one.
x... (read in full...)
I've been his wife for 5 years! So why does he still have excess baggage about his ex-wife!
Q. I've been with my husband for 5 years we had alot of problems with his ex interfering when i ride with him to get his kids occasionally (once every few months or so ) and he goes every other weekend he gets real nervous and makes comments like ...
A. 29 May 2006: Your husband is reacting to this woman the way he probably reacted to her throughout the marriage, I should, just fro the sake of his relationship with his kids let him go alone to get them.
Yes, this can be argued as a point of principle, but were... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me. shall I tell the guys girlfriend?
Q. Hi, a short question. If your girlfriend cheated on you with a guy and he has a girlfriend would you tell his girlfriend about it? Very hurt and confused as I was with her a very long time and I was trying to sort out my relationship problems but ...
A. 29 May 2006: Think about how you would react to a phone call out of the blue telling you the information you are about to impart. Then act on how that makes you feel.
If it was ME mind I would. ... (read in full...)
An affair which makes her happy - but what about the fallout?
Q. A question for you all, I think I am far to close to the situation to see straight to be honest. A relation (genuinely! - that is why I have not posted this anon)has been married for 20 years. Their marriage hasd been going stale, but they have fou...
A. 29 May 2006: What makes me laugh (in a defeated and sarcastic sorta way) is the fact that they say children can be hurt because of divorce. Young children adapt, older children on the other hand struggle to deal with the emotional fallout.
Cheers everone who ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 29 May 2006: Busted, one brother has told me that he prefers sex to any of the other items on your list......but then he is single and is actively enjoying his singledom.
But unfortunately happylife i disagree with your perception of the question posted by our ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 27 May 2006: They read YOUR post numbnuts and they didn't agree with what YOU said. Neither does my husband. Not a one of them would put sexual fulfilment as their number one. Might it be YOU are the odd one? Might it be that you are actually slightly ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 27 May 2006: Happylife, it would appear (according to you) that all men are interested in is sexual fulfillment. as a sister to 5 brothers and with a further 3 step brothers I have asked them whjat they thought of your post. And do you know, not a one of them ... (read in full...)
An emotive issue - support please!
Q. I found out 2 days ago that I am pregnant. My boyfriend has 3 children already and I don't want us to have anymore children around the house right now. He's asked me if I want to have an abortion and we have both agreed. I made an appointment, but ...
A. 26 May 2006: On reading what you have said I believe that having the abortion will damage your mental helath far more than keeping this baby.
I am a pro-choice advocate and not an anti-abortionist, but I am only telling you that because I do not want you to thin... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 26 May 2006: I am glad you understand that you feel threatened, because at leats if you understand why then you are halfway to solving the issue. Good luck dealing with these negative feelings! It is ok to admit to them because we all have them. It's just ... (read in full...)
An affair which makes her happy - but what about the fallout?
Q. A question for you all, I think I am far to close to the situation to see straight to be honest. A relation (genuinely! - that is why I have not posted this anon)has been married for 20 years. Their marriage hasd been going stale, but they have fou...
A. 26 May 2006: I don't live with them.....I am 35 and have my own home hun....
x... (read in full...)
How can i keep my affair a secret from my sister and my boyfriend?
Q. hi i am 21 and livin with my sister whos married in london.i ve been having a secret sexual realationship with my sisters husband and he tells me that he likes me just for sex and i too like him to have sex with me only.i have a boyfriend also and ...
A. 26 May 2006: everybody is unaware of this relationship except you and this lying cheating scumbag hubby of your poor sister's! mmmmmm and now the entire readership of dearcupid. Must say, it isn't going to stay secret for long if you cannot keep it to ... (read in full...)
An affair which makes her happy - but what about the fallout?
Q. A question for you all, I think I am far to close to the situation to see straight to be honest. A relation (genuinely! - that is why I have not posted this anon)has been married for 20 years. Their marriage hasd been going stale, but they have fou...
A. 26 May 2006: Trouble is this is my Mum and my step-Dad. Now how about that for a sticky situation.....
They have been to counselling. I have asked her not to confide in my but now it's inside my head like a worm in my brain...
This is so not good.
xxx... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 26 May 2006: Oh look happylife is trying to start the male/female debate here as well. What a surprise!... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 25 May 2006: Right ok honey I am going to tell you not to read the regurgitated *self-help-book* stuff written by happy life with a couple of comments. You do not have to COMPRIMISE to meet HIS emotional needs and you do not have to be ashamed of having a jelly ... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 25 May 2006: I have to ask you - do you not think that he is entitled to a little privacy to keep what he wants in this box? Why should it bother you at all that he has these things? Why do you feel the need to control even his way of keeping memories fresh?
P... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 25 May 2006: Just because YOU don't need to keep things to remind you of your past does not make it the norm for everybody. I have a memory box or three in the attic with all sorts of stuff in. I think it actually shows signs of your emmotional immaturity that ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I genuinely feel for the guy who posted this question. It must be awful to have an image in your head of what has happened before. I feel very much for any man/woman who cannot deal with a partner's past. I find it a little disturbing that no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: patronising, patronising, patronising
write it out three times and stand in the corner.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Try a husband who thinks your bit of a petronising bugger too!!
Sorry to blow your theory out of the water honey!!
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: was controlled by men....dearie, gosh what a fabulous bedside manner you have....
Your opinions are outdated. You are right men did these things, but not to exploit women. They did it for monetary gain. A man in a little lab somewhere didn't thin... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: I feel you may be seeing things a little thru rose tinted glasses.
As for your comment about my being not being able to see things from the viewpoint of a male, take a look at your last paragraph on your first posting and tell me if that does... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi ther Dr Pete
As one health professional (allegedly) to another I find you rather maralistic and self-righteous stance on female sexulaity a little on the silly side.
Before contraception the sex act for women equated with the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 April 2006: But that isnt what you were saying before. Also when you hide behind an anon stance it could be anybody who replies all pretending to be the same person. So when one person says , for example, this behaviour from women is slutty, and another this ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 21 April 2006: Another anon.
Not very brave are they the men on here!
Look, women do not *let* men have sex with them, they are willing participants in a mutual thing. So that makes both the men and women who indulge as bad, or good, as each other. I have no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 20 April 2006: Firstly, be brave enough not to hide behind an anon stance. Secondly get some balls and realise that the world is not divided into females who are saints ans sinners. Thirdly how do you figure out that girls get it more than guys? I always ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 13 April 2006: I meant to say put this as a question to draw more attention. Maybe you will get some help?
:-)... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 10 April 2006: Solved you should post this on a seperate site. I think you would benefit form others reading your thread and commenting. I think (for the record) you and your wife are locked in a vicious cycle of oneupmanship. And it will take a helluva lot to ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 9 April 2006: Why do they need to *tell the truht from the beginning?* And why would you NED to know if it is going to hurt you so much? You slept with 11 people....why is that any dofferent? What is the importance of a wpman having slept with less people than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: There are a lot of answers on here from men saying that they cannot get over *slutty* behaviour, referring to *conquests* etc. I find that offensive. I find it offensive in 2006 that it would appear a large majority of men find a problem in their ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: Conquest? Purleeze! She cannot be a conquest, by saying that your are acting as if she had no choice to sleep with these men. A conquest = being conquered. Get over it.
Guess what males and females are equal in society nowadays. So how abou... (read in full...)
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