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| | sexseahot's profile:I think I may be qualified to help others because I have been in many situations, especially relationships for awhile now. I am only 25 but, I have been through many different situations that I could probably relate to on questions brought up on here. I live in Indiana in USA and have lived here my whole life. I would like to move, but I need to save up money before I pursue that dream. I also have a boyfriend at the moment, we have been together for a little over 3 years officially, but we've been seeing eachother for over almost 5 years. I've also known him for 8 years, so it's a little complicated, but I'm really happy with him. So I hope whatever information I give to anyone on here will help! |
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I caught my boyfriend in bed with my sister while her boyfriend was downstairs!
Q. well. basicly. I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND IN BED WITH MY SISTER WHILE HER BOYFRIEND WAS SAT DOWNSTAIRS!!! well ive been with him now for nearly 18 months, i thought he loved me, and i adore him! well DID. im confused! so bad, i stayed at a friends house ...
A. 20 July 2008: I understand that you may love him, but he doesn't really respect you. He will just say what he knows you want to hear and something like this could happen again in the future. There ARE other guys out that that wouldn't even ever THINK about doing ... (read in full...)
I caught my boyfriend in bed with my sister while her boyfriend was downstairs!
Q. well. basicly. I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND IN BED WITH MY SISTER WHILE HER BOYFRIEND WAS SAT DOWNSTAIRS!!! well ive been with him now for nearly 18 months, i thought he loved me, and i adore him! well DID. im confused! so bad, i stayed at a friends house ...
A. 19 July 2008: If he really loved and respected you, just because it's "put on a plate" for him, doesn't mean he has to accept. He should have eyes only for you and should've ignored the invite from your sister. You shouldn't ever take this guy back. He cheated on ... (read in full...)
She gets text messages from an ex. I'm not comfortable wiht it. Should I feel this way?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. The whole time, she would get these random text messages from an unsaved phone number. It turns out it is a person (an X for lack of a better term) she had a fling with (before me), and found ...
A. 8 July 2008: If you are uncomfortable with this "x" texting her, you should just let her know. I don't really know if someone would be texting 3 years later if they never got a response. She obviously is hiding something from you. Let her know how you feel about ... (read in full...)
My partner speaks to her "friend" daily. Then I found sexual text messages...
Q. I have recently got engaged and moved in with my partner. Until last week, everything was perfect and i couldn't imagine anything else i could wish for in life until we were driving home from work, my partner took a phone call from a friend i had ...
A. 30 June 2008: I honestly don't think you're reading too far into this. Those words shouldn't be joked about between a guy and an engaged lady. If you said you are uncomfortable with her male friends, she should have enough respect for you to not be saying those ... (read in full...)
How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?
Q. How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...
A. 24 June 2008: You don't!... (read in full...)
Since it seems like my husband isn't going to step in, what am I supposed to do about his friend who is becoming scary and weird?
Q. I'm going through a lot lately, but the easiest thing to write about is this really close friend of mine. I have this guy friend, who has had this crush on me since forever. I never really thought about it much, but he is starting to get scary and ...
A. 13 June 2008: This sounds exactly like something MY friend is going through. It's gotta be hard to have your husband take his best friend's side instead of his own wife's. Have you let him know about the friend trying to put his hand up your shirt? If that ... (read in full...)
Do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok?
Q. My current bf smokes pot three times a day,but he seems like a nice guy, my ex wants me back (he does not smoke weed),do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok? Help...
A. 12 June 2008: Honestly, it depends on the smoker. Pot IS NOT what makes people undependable. It might make them lazy, it might make them have the munchies, BUT they will be dependable if they want to be. Yes, pot smoking does affect sperm, but it just really ... (read in full...)
He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...
A. 5 June 2008: Are you actually considering believing what he has said to you? It's ok for him to cheat? YEAH RIGHT!!! I would just dump him if that's how he thinks. He's obviously not going to change if that's how he thinks. You should not have to put up with ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have a MFM threesome, but I do not want to...
Q. my wife of 10 months wants to have mfm threesome but i dont think i want to. what should i do?...
A. 3 June 2008: If you don't want to and she loves you, she will understand. You shouldn't have to do anything that you don't want to do, especially sexually. Just sit her down and let her know your reasons that you don't want to have the threesome and she should ... (read in full...)
Can he go to jail for being with a 13 year old girl?
Q. Yes, I am 13 years old and I have a boyfriend and he is 17 years old, can he go to jail for being with a 13 year old girl?...
A. 3 June 2008: I don't believe he can. But when he turns 18 and if you guys sleep together, THEN there's a possibility that he would be able to go to jail and that's if your parents don't approve. Until then, you guys are fine.... (read in full...)
I found explicit text messages on my bf's phone, and it's eating away at me!
Q. I recently went through my boyfriend's cell phone after an argument, and found some very detailed explicit sex messages indicating some oral sex acts he performed on her and how she wanted to do certain sexual things to him again. He does not know ...
A. 14 May 2008: Confused? You should just dump him. What are you confused about? Your boyfriend is CHEATING on you. Is that someone you want to stay with? It's actually a good thing you found those texts or otherwise you wouldn't know any of this information. If ... (read in full...)
My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?
Q. hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...
A. 9 May 2008: Honestly, I don't like other animals in my yard either. I think if a dog is going outside, it should stay in it's own yard. I'm sure there really may not be anything wrong with your dog being playful. But just remember, yours is a lot bigger than ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Nope, sure can't.... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 13 March 2008: There's two different things they can do for you. One is the pill that you take and the other is the vacuum that they use to suck the unborn baby out. As long as you are below the 3 months, you should be fine and no problem with having the abortion. ... (read in full...)
Found inappropriate conversations between them on the computer...I'm afraid my husband is cheating on me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for nearly a year now and so far everything has been great between us. I've never thought him to be one to do things behind my back or anything like that. But throughout our entire relationship, even before we were ...
A. 26 January 2008: I'm sorry to tell you honey, but that's good evidence right there that he's cheating on you. I don't know many people that talk like that to others because they're joking around. Don't take that excuse and actually believe it! See what happe... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty, I deleted a text from his ex girlfriend without him knowing, am I wrong?
Q. I feel so guilty, I saw a text from my boyfriend's ex girlfriend on Christmas Day saying she missed him, and I deleted it, so he has no idea she text. The background on this is that they broke up a year ago, just after Christmas. I have been with...
A. 31 December 2007: I understand where you're coming from. I'd probably do the same thing. It's not that you don't trust HIM, you just don't want to really deal with this ex anymore. It was wrong that you deleted the text, just tell him about it and tell him why you ... (read in full...)
All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?
Q. I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...
A. 29 December 2007: If my other half was going on dating sites, saying they were single and talking sexy to others, I'd probably not trust them neither. It's hard to trust someone like that. Your fiance don't deserve someone like that, he needs someone that respects ... (read in full...)
To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?
Q. What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...
A. 27 December 2007: I personally like my man to be a little hairy, not TOO much though. Hair on the chest, a definite. For the pubic hair, just trimmed or shaved all the way, either way works for me!!!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.
Q. Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...
A. 12 December 2007: It's not being something you're not. It's respecting your girlfriend's feelings and seeing this situation from her point of view. The one time I had found out my bf looked at porn, I was hurt and felt as if I wasn't good enough for him. I let him ... (read in full...)
Is he board with me?
Q. I'm currently with a man i have been with for over 3 and a half years. and i have never had a problem with this, but yesterday night i busted him looking at all this Drunk chick stuff, like on youtube, "young girl on webcam" showing her ass n shit, ...
A. 1 November 2007: I'm not one to say that he's bored of you, but you need to talk to him about his actions. He really doesn't need to be looking at the kind of stuff on the computer. Let him know exactly how you feel about that and if he respected you, he wouldn't do ... (read in full...)
We have just had a baby and now he wants to sleep with other women.
Q. We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!?...
A. 30 October 2007: Tell him if he respects and cares for you, these thoughts wouldn't even enter his mind! What do you think about this? I would be disgusted at even the thought that my boyfriend would want to do this. Has this issue ever come up before? I personally ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 26 October 2007: You start when you feel you are ready. People are all ready at different ages. Starting young isn't the best way to start, but some do. It just depends on the individual and if he/she feels they are ready and if they have found the right person to ... (read in full...)
Should i be concerned about my guy and this girl?
Q. Okay what should I make of this? My b/f said he had to go out on a field trip with a female co-worker today. He had her come by our house and pick him up at 7:00 AM. This was a little weird, as he usually drives to work and employees take a field ...
A. 29 August 2007: I wouldn't be concerned quite yet, but pay attention to little details from now on and keep tabs of them. It does seem a little odd his actions this morning, but don't get too hyped up about it quite yet. Has he been acting differently towards you? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always flirts with everyone and doesn't seem to get the point of if we are together she shouldn't (or does that sound protective)?
Q. My girlfriend always flirts with everyone and doesn't seem to get the point of if we are together she shouldn't (or does that sound protective) but anyway I don't like the fact she flirts and if I do she does get really paranoid and starts a fight ...
A. 22 August 2007: You know, my boyfriend use to do the exact same thing and I would always get mad. So I talked to him about it and let him know that it made me feel uncomfortable when he was flirting with girls in front of me. I don't believe in trying to get the ... (read in full...)
Started the pill 11 days ago. Am I protected from prenancy, yet?
Q. Hi,i just need some advice. I started a pogestron only pill 11 days ago. I had sex tonight, am i protected from pregnancy? as i was told by a nurse i have to use protection for 2 weeks?...
A. 20 July 2007: No, it takes about a full pack before it's fully affective. Just wait a few more weeks and then you should be fine.... (read in full...)
I want to get a small tattoo on my hipbone, can someone please describe to me how much it will hurt so im prepared?
Q. I want to get a small tattoo on my hipbone, can someone please describe to me how much it will hurt so im prepared? (or maybe if its really really bad I will reconsider!) I only want a small one but I'm really worried if they will start and it will ...
A. 19 July 2007: I guess it just depends on how well you deal with pain. I personally don't think it was that bad at all. I believe if you can get piercings, you're capable of getting a tattoo. What is a 2p? If I knew what that was I would let you know, but mine ... (read in full...)
I want to get a small tattoo on my hipbone, can someone please describe to me how much it will hurt so im prepared?
Q. I want to get a small tattoo on my hipbone, can someone please describe to me how much it will hurt so im prepared? (or maybe if its really really bad I will reconsider!) I only want a small one but I'm really worried if they will start and it will ...
A. 19 July 2007: The tattoo on the hip bone isn't the worst, I can tell you that. If you can stand a little pain, you'll be fine. If you can get your belly button pierced, I'm sure you can get the tattoo, especially if it's not really that big. I have a pretty good ... (read in full...)
He lies to me about where he goes and gets mad when I confront him!!!
Q. My Husband and I have been married for 12 years. 4 years ago he had an affair. we stayed together and got past that. He for some reason has continued to lie to me about where he goes, he gets angry when i confront him and turns in on me. This has ...
A. 18 June 2007: If you are miserable, then you should just leave him. You are better off without this liar in your life. He don't deserve you if this is how he wants to treat you. You could always find someone better that will treat you better and stay faithful ... (read in full...)
My period was late. Was this because of the morning after pill?
Q. i had sex with my ex we used a condom although he didnt ejaculate i took the morning after pill 14 hours after the incident, 4 days later i came on even though my period was the week before, is this normal?? any advice gratefully recieved...
A. 22 May 2007: Perfectly normal. If you period still becomes irregular again, you might want to take a test to be sure. But the morning after pill WILL make your period irregular.
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My husband still talks to his ex-mistress! He says there is no harm in it...Am i being unreasonable here to think otherwise?
Q. My husband of 17 years has been having an affair since last summer, I found out in February and he hasn't seen her since. But they still phone each other up several times a week which I find really hurtful. I have asked him to stop ringing her and ...
A. 18 May 2007: He's totally in the wrong here. He shouldn't be talking to her at all anymore...You are NOT being unreasonable by any means....it is very harmful that he is still talking to her. What's the reason behind this? Does he plan on having another affair ... (read in full...)
Why can't I stay faithful
Q. I have been with my partner for nine years and we have a 4yr old together. I do love my partner, but i cant stay faithful. Whenever someone shows interest in me (which is usually his friends) and i feel attracted to them i cant say no. Im good when ...
A. 7 May 2007: Maybe if you don't drink anymore, you would do better. You said yourself that it's when you get alcohol in you. You obviously can not control yourself when you drink, so just try not drinking and see what happens. Or just don't drink as much...
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Didn't hear from my so called boyfriend the entire weekend! What should I do about this guy?
Q. I didn't hear from my so called boyfriend the entire weekend, but as soon as I got into the car he had texted me twice saying sorry, that he loved me, and missed me. There were a few more after that. He asked if I would talk to him if he called. ...
A. 24 April 2007: I personally think you guys have a communication problem. If he really missed you and loved you like he says he does, he would make time to call you no matter what. Remember that if a guy really wants to be with someone, NOTHING can keep him away, ... (read in full...)
He tells me it's natural that he watches porn and chats with women, online. How do I deal with this?
Q. i have been with my partner for 4years we are both23 and have a 2yr old child. recently he never sleeps with me and is constantly watching porn and chatting to women online. i do love him but its making me feel unwanted and whenever i try and talk ...
A. 13 April 2007: It's not natural for some guy to continuously chat with other woman online.....maybe look at porn, but if he don't sleep with you anymore, obviously something is going on. Try and explain to him how you feel. You guys have been together long enough ... (read in full...)
My bf matches his undershirt to his underwear, but don't people only do this when they know they're going to sleep with someone!?
Q. Is this weird? My b/f matches his undershirt to his underwear(like grey, black, blue)...He has been doing this since i can remember and does it most times i see him..but isnt this something you do when you are going to sleep with someone? Someti...
A. 6 April 2007: I still match my underwear to my clothes EVERY day, no matter what. I have a boyfriend of over 2 years and it's completely nothing. Just relax. If you see some other signs that point more towards cheating, then start to worry, but until then, you ... (read in full...)
He emailed her and arranged to meet! When confronted he said it was just to see who she was! Is this cheating?
Q. A woman on myspace was sending my husband emails. She would tell him how she would like to meet him. One day he went to a local computer store to email her and in the email he gave her his work phone number so she could call him. He changed his ...
A. 3 April 2007: I'm sorry honey, but I think he was planning to cheat on you. There's really no other reason to go to some woman's house you don't even know, especially when he's trying to hide all this from you. I wouldn't trust him whatsoever. His intentions were ... (read in full...)
When I'm drunk guys feel me up and take advantage! I feel like a slut--what can I do to stop this?
Q. When i'm drunk, occassionally i'm taken advantage of a fair bit, not overly far or anything, some guys will just start feeling me up yet when i wouldn't want them to. I do stop them from doing this but not immediately, like my common sense doesn't ...
A. 1 April 2007: Maybe you just shouldn't drink as much as you do then. Or don't put yourself in those kind of situations anymore if that's how you feel. I personally think that's wrong, but you are your own person. Only you can change what happens to you and what ... (read in full...)
My current BF has become uncomfortbale with me seeing my Ex, hes making me choose!!
Q. I have an ex bf whom I am friends with. We talk on the phone sometimes and have dinner or coffee sometimes. We have not been a couple for 6yrs. My current bf whom I have been with for 9months has a problem with my friendship with my ex. He feels ...
A. 29 March 2007: I would probably be doing the same thing your bf is doing. I wouldn't appreciate my boyfriend going off with his ex on occasions. I agree that your ex is part of your PAST and your bf should be part of your FUTURE. Which guy means more to you and ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how I can lose weight and tone up?
Q. has anyone got any tips or know of any websites showing exercises that i can do in my home that will help me loose weight and tone up? i really cant afford to go to the gym and am too self conscious to go running in public. thanks!!!!...
A. 26 February 2007: You can check out www.sparkpeople.com. It will give you exercises to do and also a diet menu for you to follow if you would like. You can also just add in what you ate and it will add up all the calories and whatnot for you.
Enjoy!... (read in full...)
My husbands affair is over but the women wont go away!! Any advice to get rid of her ??
Q. My husband has had an affair which is over.The woman involved keeps phoning and texting both of us.She is now involving work and his ex wife.She says all she wants is to talk to him and needs answers.I told him he was not to have any contact with ...
A. 15 February 2007: It's good that you told him not to have contact with this woman and he's complying with your wishes. I think that YOU need to talk to her. If she needs answers, give her what she wants so she'll go away. Maybe there is more to it than you know. How ... (read in full...)
Girls! What foundation could I use to cover up my pimples? It's so embarrassing!
Q. i get big spots around my chin and find them really embarasing. When i try to cover them up with foundation as it just seems to look worse, does anyone know any amazing makeup that would look like i have no spots at all or anything that would get ...
A. 25 January 2007: There is a great acne treatment you can get from Mary Kay and also a Blemish control treatment to go with that. They also have medium coverage foundation that just blends everything on your face together. That would be my best guess since those ... (read in full...)
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