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Heya am called Emily not that u cre tbh bt oh well

i am 14...15 soon, i have a bf and have been seeing him 4 just over 2 months. I got messed around alot last year so i have a lot of info on things like that.

Hope i can help some people, remember im still young so dont know as much as others so my advice isnt always top class =D

xxx

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My 17 yr old boyfriend doesn't take me anywhere and says because I'm 15 he didn't think I would want to go anywhere. Was I right to take offense?

Q.   my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take ...

A.   6 September 2007: yes my mum does know and no, he was sleeping at mine and we sleep in different beds. thankyou all for your advice :)its fabby :) we do go out but only like to the shop or from where we meet to one of our houses. i want to go more places like to a ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and I want to lose my virginity

Q.   i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity but the thing is i do not no how to have sex and plus im scared if i bleed whilst having sex!!is there any chances that i will bleed?and my mates say that you cant walk after wards is that ...

A.   22 July 2007: "i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity" - right hunnie, your only 13 dont rush it or u'll regret it. wait until your in a proper relationship. Makes the sex sooo much better! trust me! "the thing is i do not no how to have sex" - No... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!

Q.   i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant ...

A.   22 July 2007: im not going to say your too young or the age gap is too large or anything like that becausemy bf is 17 and i wads 14 when i started goin out with him. am 15 now. anyway, does he realise if he gets you pregnant he would very possibly be arre... (read in full...)

Why don't I feel anything when I masturbate?

Q.   how come i cant feel nothin wen i maturbate even when i play abit ...

A.   22 July 2007: your clit is the key! onestli and once you hit it it you can tell. just have a lil explore and have some fun with it. or watch a partner and see what they do that makes you feel good then try and copy this when alone. all my love Emily xx... (read in full...)

I think I had an anxiety attack after an argument; do I need medical help?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had minor disagreement. I was upset and after about 10 minutes i begin to feel a tightness in my chest, shortness of breath, and my heart was racing. I felt sick to my stomach and I thought i was going to faint or die. I think i ...

A.   22 July 2007: heyy i have those all the time its nothing to worry about. just take deep breaths! it will all be fine. xxx... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!

Q.   Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...

A.   22 July 2007: i love dear cupid, it helps me loads and i would very much like to be a mod! gimmie a holler! xx... (read in full...)

Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?

Q.   I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx...

A.   22 July 2007: but i get almost there and can feel it, my legs start shaking, and then i kinda stop myself and take my hand away. Would it be because my clit gets too sensitive just b4 an orgasm so it kind of stops me from going on? xx... (read in full...)

Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?

Q.   I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx...

A.   22 July 2007: even when i try and do it myself i seem to stop myself and i really hate that i do! any one know how i can make myself carry on? xx... (read in full...)

This is a question for the girls only!

Q.   GIRLS ONLY-NO GUYS READ THIS PLEZ!! OK is it normal for a girl my age to have a bushy/hairy pussy and bigger boobs then girls older then me. my bf told me that if his _____ gets bushy er whatever then hes somehow ganna sh...

A.   1 June 2007: hey. its perfectly normal. dont worry. if anything love the size of your boobs. they will be even bigger in future. an exellent pulling tool lol. nah am messin lol. but really, please dont worry. its normal! ly xx... (read in full...)

how to get the guy to notice you!!

Q.   hey girls and guys ever wanted to know if there is some secret to getting guys to notice you well ta da there is and im gonna tell you it: step1. make yourself noticed, don't be too obvious make him wanna come over to you. step2. if and when h...

A.   1 June 2007: i dont think any of this is true. If you want a guy to notice you then you gotta be yourself. If your trying to be something your not the guy wont notice you, he'll notice the person your pretending to be and its hard to keep up a charade like this ... (read in full...)

I think I had an orgasm! My hands and teeth were tingling!! Am I right?

Q.   i think i had an orgasm on saturday night but am not 100% sure. If it was then wow! nd if not then an orgasm must be even more wow! we were having sex for a good 45 mins to an hour. Alot of it is a blur to me. After i was really out of breath. ...

A.   1 June 2007: the way this question heading is phrased sounds strange lol. Anyways, thanks for your help people. Tis greatly appriciated. Since posting this question i had one hell of a night last night =]. woo. now i know what to do to get there well... (read in full...)

I think I had an orgasm! My hands and teeth were tingling!! Am I right?

Q.   i think i had an orgasm on saturday night but am not 100% sure. If it was then wow! nd if not then an orgasm must be even more wow! we were having sex for a good 45 mins to an hour. Alot of it is a blur to me. After i was really out of breath. ...

A.   1 June 2007: the way this question heading is phrased sounds strange lol. Anyways, thanks for your help people. Tis greatly appriciated. Since posting this question i had one hell of a night last night =]. woo. now i know what u did to get there wow! thank... (read in full...)

We talk well in person but not so great online! This upsets me..what can I do?

Q.   Hmm, i think i might just be paranoid but what do i do? My boyfriend of 2 n alf months doesnt text me half as much anymore, and he never really talks on msn, Hes ok on the fone and in person but its just on msn and through texts etc. When we do talk ...

A.   28 March 2007: thank-you all. and no i wasnt thank god. False alarm, i stressed for nothing. thank you again xxx... (read in full...)

I touched something inside her.... is she still a virgin ?

Q.   hey.. i have a girlfriend and were still together like more than 2 years and shes worried because i put entered my finger in her thing..and it was about 3.5 inches..and i felt something its hard to explain what but it was a little deep and i hardly...

A.   27 March 2007: if it was only your finger then shes definatley still a virgin. You only loose your virginity through atual penatrative sex good luck xxx... (read in full...)

Is it normal for breasts to get bigger before period?

Q.   this is going to seem very vauge, but is it normal for breasts to get slightly bigger before your period? xxx...

A.   22 March 2007: But the thing is im also nearly a week late. How possible is it that im pregnant...im sooo scared =( xxx... (read in full...)

How do you tell your guy that you're pregnant?

Q.   Well... I have a boyfriend and we have only slept together twice since we got together a month ago but at the moment I'm late and thinking I may be pregnant. I know its sounds silly worrying now before I have even done a test, but how do you tell ...

A.   22 March 2007: Im going through this right now. I know your probably really scared cos i am sh*ting myself at the moment. The way i told my b/f was my boobs are a little bigger and im late so i goes what if my boobs are bigger because im pregnant. Tbh i did it... (read in full...)

Is it normal for breasts to get bigger before period?

Q.   this is going to seem very vauge, but is it normal for breasts to get slightly bigger before your period? xxx...

A.   20 March 2007: ok. thank you sooo much. thats just what i wanted to hear. i always thought that too but i read on a sight that the dont and they only get bigger when your pregnant. it got me scared lol xxx... (read in full...)

Im not sure If I trust my bf or not, am I right to be doubting him ?

Q.   Im confused. I trust my b/f well at least i think i do. ive been with him for just over two months now. we have quite an open relationship where neither of us really are bothered if we find someone else fit etc. well anyway, i get told that he's a ...

A.   20 March 2007: Thanks but i think you may have gotten the rong idea when i said open relationship, i meant it in more of a we can talk about most things and we can tell eachother when we like someone else. Not nessicary act on it though xxx... (read in full...)

Does my friend like me or not? I need some advice!

Q.   hi my friend does not want to meet me, he said - i love u but i dont think he really means it i dont know what to do i need ur advice ...

A.   23 February 2007: this is very vauge. if he is your friend why does he not want to meet you? do you not see him regularly anyway? i love you are 3 words thrown around very loosly now-a-days. i said i love you to my bf b4 i ment it n he sed it to me at the same time, ... (read in full...)

Does he stay with me and be happy in his relationship but run the risk of losing his unborn child?

Q.   I have recently started a new relationship with a wonderful kind and caring man, we were only together for a short time when the bombshell that his ex girlfriend is pregant with his second child hit. My partner has told his ex that he will stand by ...

A.   23 February 2007: hmmm well how serious is this relationship? is it worth all this trouble or will it be over in a year or two? i agree with Eve. the last thing you should have done is put more pressure on him. This may make his descision harder, and might even make ... (read in full...)

My fear of being inexperienced, prevents me from getting close to women! What can I do?

Q.   I'm a 25 male with just about everything going well in my life, except my love life. I have never been involved in an intimate relationship or have had a serious girlfriend. Women are attracted to me and I meet/talk with women but my fear of being ...

A.   23 February 2007: Jusy go for it! dont worry about it. remember the longer you have this fear the longer you will stay inexperienced...you see my point? best of luck xxx... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to go with a prostitute to make yourself feel better?

Q.   Is it wrong to go to a prostitute to make yourself feel better?...

A.   23 February 2007: i supose this would depend on your situation and what you were trying to make yourself feel better from. more info would be helpful but for now, i dont think so aslong as you have no other attachments it should be fine, but it isnt a good long term ... (read in full...)

Do you think it would be okay if I asked my boyfriend to stay the night? But not to sleep with him!

Q.   hi me and my bf are both 16 and are relationship is going very well. we have both been going out with each other for about 2 months. (so far all we have done is kiss (not with tougues yet). we go round each others houses a lot. he's coming roun...

A.   23 February 2007: i have my boyfriend round to sleep and when i first asked him he didnt assume we were going to have sex. i didnt think twice about asking him aroud. and if your still worried then lay down the ground rules before he comes. good luck xxx... (read in full...)

Been faking my orgasm with my bf. How do I achieve a proper one?

Q.   Ive been faking with my current bf. i feel i am close to orgasms but i never quite reach it. when i feel close i get a kind of scared feeling and stop him. i dont always get this feeling. what can i do to keep myself going and to make sure he always ...

A.   23 February 2007: ive only slept with 2 guys. the 1st cuoldnt even last long enuf. so i can answer that one. we've been together mearly 2 months (dnt say am rushing into things, i know what im doing lol) he is so lovely and sweet and i feel totaly confortable wit ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?

Q.   At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...

A.   22 February 2007: i have people pulling me in different directions here. some of you are saying its less likely, others are saying more? i feel it would be less likly as you are more or less getting shut of everything in there so? but i dont really know...more ... (read in full...)

I dialled a number I found on my boyfriend's phone and a woman answered... should I let this go?

Q.   I saw a number in my b/f's phone that was dialed or received but was not in his contacts of the phone(he doesnt keep many--he knows numbers). I look up who it is..and its a woman. I called the number from restricted and a guy answered but he sounded ...

A.   22 February 2007: your not sure if it was dialed or recived right, well someone may have dialled the wrong number. try confronting him about it good luck chicken xxx... (read in full...)

I am feeling sick to my stomach, could I be pregnant?

Q.   me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on feb 3 2007. we had sex at least twice everyday since then. i am always on top. i am 28 i have felt nausious and sick to my stomach could i be pregnant we want a baby when can i tell if i am pregnant ...

A.   21 February 2007: I feel sick sometimes after sex but i have never been pregnant. i sopoze its muscels i dont use all the time and things that cause it for me. Cd do u not read she wants to be pregnant lol. Well if u really are wanting to be then best of luck with it ... (read in full...)

If I start seeing his best friend do you think it would hurt my ex?

Q.   Hi I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years and he got very close with all my bestfriends guys and girls we Recentley just broke up and I started falling for my bestfriend and his bestfriend we have been hanging out and kissing behind h...

A.   21 February 2007: Would your ex think twice about hurting you? if you keep it secret wouldnt it hurt him more when he finaly found out? but that would depend on how long you feel you could keep it hidden for. Would your ex ever want to go out with one of your ... (read in full...)

I've been lying to my grandparents about my boyfriend as I think they would forbid me seeing him but I hate lying to them. Any advice?

Q.   Hi i am 16 almost 17 yrs old and have recently been seeing a 20 yr old guy. We really like each other so far and we have alot of fun together. I live with my grandparents and am afraid they wont approve. I'm afraid that they'll forbid me from seeing ...

A.   21 February 2007: When i first started going out with my 1st and current bf who is 17 (im 14)i darent tell my mum, nan or grandad as i was afraid of the exact same thing.how likely is it that they will do that? if they know you are happy isnit it better for them to ... (read in full...)

How do I hold her hand and kiss her? I'm going on a cinema date with her.

Q.   i'm goin on a date with this girl. we goin cinema. how do i hold her hand and kiss her? i dont know if she likes me! i dont wanna scare her...

A.   20 February 2007: you're going on a date with her right? well most girls i know only date guys they like. i recommend watching a horror as she might be more likely to grab your hand saving you a job. Anyway as your walking just loosley put your arm around her and ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. Am I just being sensitive?

Q.   My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. She obviously recognises me when she sees me of course. Yet she says that she can remember what my brothers look like! Does this mean anything? or am I just bei...

A.   20 February 2007: i can onli sort of picture my bf of 2 months. its strange. sometimes it takes ages for people to sink into my head. it is a little mean she told you that tho, i never tell my bf that i dnt know lol hope u feel better soon xxx... (read in full...)

Why am I so sensitive sometimes?

Q.   hey! im 16 and i have a boyfriend that i have been wiv for a little less than 2 months. its all going really well and everything. but the wierd thing is that sometimes when i am with him, if he says a comment that offends me - such as yesterda...

A.   20 February 2007: he's probably just messing around. my boyfriend says things like that alot and i just laff it off n hope that hes joking lol. You've probably got lots of hormones aswell so its gunna bova u more than it would normaly. best of luck with things :) ... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend to respect me regarding sex, should I let him know this?

Q.   hi me and my bf are both 16 and have been going out with eachother for nearly 2 months. we have only kissed about 4 times in one day. but that was about a month ago and we havent kissed since! also his mate has a gf and he is always saying to ...

A.   20 February 2007: chances are most people regret who there first kiss and all that stuff was with so you only live once ryt. have fun. One thing that caught my eye in your question tho, u say "im afraid he will dump me if we dont do it soon" but then you go on to say ... (read in full...)

You have to be 16 to go on the pill right? Do I have to know my insurance and all that too?

Q.   i am 16 yrs. old and me and my boyfriend just recently started having sex. and we've been using condoms each and every time. but it just seems like a hassle compared to the pill or patch. i want to go on it but i know that i cant talk to my mom ...

A.   20 February 2007: i know your from the usa but in England we can get the pill at any age and im guessing that would probably be the same anywhere. your age thing says your 18-21 so why the big deal? anyway i dont think u need all this insurance and things. Wouldnt ... (read in full...)

In love with my best mates brother!!

Q.   Heyah This is weird but Im in love with my best mates brother! He is dead cute and sexy But the problem is that Im 13 and Hes 9! Its Sick . I know but I cant help it. I have a Boyfriend Already but When i go to my mates House , I cant help but flirt ...

A.   20 February 2007: aww. dont get too hung up on his, your only 13 dont worry about it. lads will come and go. you've got so many years ahed for this. would you concider going out with a 17 year old lad? its the same age difference but the other way round. it isnt too ... (read in full...)

My bfs dad caught us after oral sex and now I am so ashamed!!

Q.   Well, i was at my bfs house..and well his family are big nascar fans, and since they were watching the race..my bf and i decided to have oral sex... I was receiving..so when we were done i started buttoning my pants and his dad walked in..and ...

A.   18 February 2007: you need to be more careful in future...and faster. lol. im guessing your round aout ht same age as me maybe a lil older, anyway if you fell you want to do things like that your just going to have to live with the concicuneces and be more careful. i ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my Mom this guy and I are more than just good mates, without worrying her?

Q.   Right...my new bf is 17, im 14. I told my mum i met how i met him and she thinks were just m8s. how can i tell her were goin out without worrying her? how do i start tho convo? she doesnt no how much i talk to him or anything. help plz xxxxx...

A.   28 January 2007: yey! i dun it! i told her!!!... (read in full...)

He's fooling around with my picture..re: sexual poses. What can I do?

Q.   Hmm, i suppose i am going to get multiple responses for this but if a lad takes your picture and imports his own picture so it ends up looking like your in a sexual position. does it mean anything? xxx...

A.   22 January 2007: no its not lol...n u've all got the wrong end of the stick lol...i think i need 2 re word it, he's taken normal pictures of me from my myspace and put pics of himself in them so it looks likewe are doing stuff...i'm fully clothed in them n i duno wt ... (read in full...)

Bf is concerned that if I get braces-I will look ugly and not be able to give him blowjobs! Any advice for me?

Q.   Can I still give a blowjob if I get braces? I'm thinking of getting one, but my bf wouldn't want me to because he says it will make me look ugly and I might not be able to give him blowjobs because it might hurt the both of us. I wonder if I would ...

A.   21 January 2007: no real answer to your question and im sorry but reading your question i was a little shocked by your boyfriends words. does he like you for you or what you look like? And even if he thinks that why say it to yuor gf its mean! lol. my friends has ... (read in full...)

Can I be just too 'tight' for sex?

Q.   is it possible to be to tight to have sex? i do use tampons with no problems if that helps! ...

A.   13 November 2006: dont worry...your vagina will stretch...people can get a baby out ov their! lol dont stress! it'll be fine good luck x x x... (read in full...)

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