My new GF won't sleep in the bed with me, but on top of it!
Q. How Long Does A Girl Hold Out? i've been dating a 20 year old for just over a week now and everythings going good. shes the first girl to ever turn me on since my ex dumped me just before xmas. after geting with this girl for a week i asked...
A. 23 March 2007:
She probably is worried that you won't talk to her after you guys sleep together. She also might not feel completely comfortable with you yet as a date - since the last guy didn't talk to her after they had sex, she might not trust you yet.
And... (read in full...)
Do I love him, or Love being with someone ? His controlling ways confuse me!
Q. Well i've been with my b/f for 15 months now, and like all relationships we have our good points and bad. I realise no relationship is perfect but at times he makes me want to pull my own hair out, he knows exactly how to make me rage. Recently we ...
A. 22 March 2007: I realize you're giving him the benefit of the doubt, but asides from being a therapist, I don't know how else you're going to help him through his jealousy and controlling behaviour. You already know that Love isn't about being controlling or ... (read in full...)
What do I do about loving a man who is in an unhappy marriage and stays in it for the sake of his child?
Q. i have known this man for a year and a half we are both sober. at first we were just friends. he was separated from his wife and has a small child. he moved back with her for the sake of the child and has been miserable. we have always been ...
A. 20 March 2007: Obviously he still has feelings for you, but he has to sort out his own problems first before he can be the kind of man you deserve. Since you said that you were both sober, does that mean you both met each other at AA or that you are both very ... (read in full...)
Hes alot older with a 15 year old daughter, she doesnt want me in their lives, but I think hes just torn, I'm not sure what to do!?
Q. I met a guy with a 15 year old daughter and he's alot older than me. The daugther told me she doesnt want me in their lives but i dont no how he feels. I think he is torn and its also a long distance relationship. I dont know what to do!!! I ha...
A. 20 March 2007: It's only natural for his daughter to reject you, you're seen as an interloper and she's scared that you're going to pretend to be her mother and that things in their family are going to change. Her acceptance will have to come in time. Don't try to ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 and have never kissed a girl, what's wrong with me?
Q. hi im 15 years old nearly 16 and i have never kissed a girl what's wrong with me? i am goin out with this girl this is only like my first girlfriend and i am scerd of kissing her because she has kissed alot of people so she will think im a rubbish ...
A. 18 March 2007: Well, your first kiss should be a private affair. And as for you never having kissed a girl? there's nothing wrong with you! Don't worry about it so much! My first kiss was absolute rubbish (I licked his mouth and cheek and ears and nose, QUITE ... (read in full...)
We live together and only have sex once a week now, he won't let me touch him otherwise. How can I change things with him?
Q. I am gay and have been in a relationship with my bf for over two years and we've been living together for one year. Things have been going well except for in the bedroom. Sex is strictly once a week very late at night on a weekend (and with no exc...
A. 15 March 2007: Ok, I can't really advise you on how to go about it, but I can tell you what he might be feeling.
I'm living with my fiance and he likes having his sex everyday. He's affectionate and would like to go for the intimate kissing whenever possible... (read in full...)
I feel as if I've missed out on my younger days and am filled with regret. How can I stop feeling this way?
Q. hey, just wanted to know im 20 years old and have just got my 1st gf, my girfriends has 2 other guys 1 for 2months n one for 2wks both cheated on her,the 2wk realationship wos more of a physical relationship which bothered me slightly, shes also had ...
A. 15 March 2007: THe past is the past, so they say, and since she is still a virgin then you have to accept that her past flings and kissing sessions were a part of growing up where you experiment with things and people. But since she's still a virgin and hasn't ... (read in full...)
Can I still report him to the Police for having under age sex with me 2 years ago (I was 15)???
Q. if i have had sex with a 29 year old man when i was 15 behind his wifes back and was seeing him for two year and i was scared to report him can i still report him now i am 17 year old and would the police do anything?...
A. 13 March 2007: Here's another website:
http://www.crimeinfo.org.uk/servlet/factsheetservlet?command=viewfactsheet&factsheetid=100&category=factsheets
Read through it carefully. There are links at the bottom like
www.childwatch.org.uk... (read in full...)
Can I still report him to the Police for having under age sex with me 2 years ago (I was 15)???
Q. if i have had sex with a 29 year old man when i was 15 behind his wifes back and was seeing him for two year and i was scared to report him can i still report him now i am 17 year old and would the police do anything?...
A. 13 March 2007: Having sex with a minor is considered statutory rape.
If you don't want to talk to your parents first about it, go to your school counselor (one that you trust) who will help you make a report to the police.
Here's a website that offers help... (read in full...)
Help!!!! Have I caught an STD from him??????
Q. Hi this is the same girl Jackie. I know that i may have gotten used by an x boyfriend. But, everytime we did anything he ALWAYS talked to me no matter what!!! Could it be possible that the reason why he's not talking to me could be because maybe he ...
A. 13 March 2007: GAHH Now it's time to pick up the broken pieces!!
I HATED being in that situation before. I researched all the known stds and vds and hiv lists of symptoms out there so that I didn't have to go to get myself checked.
At the end of the day, ... (read in full...)
We are going on a break for a week so he can decide what he really wants. I'm not sure if I should avoid him, or talk to him. What is the best idea?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years has all of the sudden become very distant. I believe that his friends are pushing him away. He is a senior in high school and I am a junior. He thinks that he wants to be more independent now and not have a girlfriend. ...
A. 13 March 2007: Well, here's an easier-said-than-done piece of advice:
Just leave him be. He wants his freedom, don't call him. Don't talk to him. Take his words to mean that you guys are as good as broken up.
Don't take the above advice as a ploy to get him ... (read in full...)
Are there any girls in my situation who love their ex and are willing
Q. Hello again. I know that I've got a lot of support from everyone here. But I wanted to know if there were anyother girls in my situation. Someone to talk to. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. We just decided to take a break because he's ...
A. 13 March 2007: There's no happiness or friendship to be found here except longing and wishful thinking.
It's not fair on you either that he confesses how he cheated on you with the other girl, I don't know HOW that's called friendship or even RESPECT.
I've... (read in full...)
Should I just let him slowly kill himself with cigarettes just so that he's happy or should I stop him and keep things the way they are now?? I don't know what to do!
Q. I'v got yet another problem with my bf!He wants to start smoking! He used to smoke for 2/3yrs but in all d 11 months we've been together,he hasnt touched 1 cigarette! And im really proud of him! And he's happy that he quit. But lately he's been ...
A. 13 March 2007: Well, coming from a smoker, you shouldn't feel guilty - it IS a nasty habit - not as bad as crack or getting drunk though.
Just try not to come off as sanctimonious and dramatic either when you tell him that you want him to quit smoking.... (read in full...)
What is the latest a period could be without the chance of pregnancy?
Q. Hey, My girlfriend says she may be pregnant, both of us are quite worried about the whole subject. Her period is 2 weeks late now, and we have been having unprotected sex. Please save me the tutorial of "Use Protection Silly" etc as I know of the ...
A. 13 March 2007: I went for 6-7 months without a period - I Had been sexually active before that gap and I wasn't pregnant.
But I think that condition is called dysmennorhea.
I don't really know why you're so curious, but do you really want to wait that long t... (read in full...)
How do I stop letting my neurotic criticisms of everyone I've ever been interested prevent me from even approaching her?/
Q. I always overthink things when considering people to ask out, and so it usually mires and gets stuck with me never doing anything about it. Oh, and if it doesn't show up due to anonymous, I'm 17 years old. Anyways, there's a girl I was immediatle...
A. 12 March 2007: The quickest way to approaching her is by approaching her. Just take the plunge NOW or TODAY, bypass all your theorizing about the situation and talk to her. Everybody has self-doubt, it's just HOW you are going to handle it that makes the ... (read in full...)
What is the latest a period could be without the chance of pregnancy?
Q. Hey, My girlfriend says she may be pregnant, both of us are quite worried about the whole subject. Her period is 2 weeks late now, and we have been having unprotected sex. Please save me the tutorial of "Use Protection Silly" etc as I know of the ...
A. 12 March 2007: Symptoms of pregnancy vary for everybody, so there's no strict guidelines to go by. The easiest answer is to go get a pregnancy test kit, they are very reliable. Sometimes there are bargains like 2 for the price of 1 if you want to make DOUBLY sure ... (read in full...)
We're on a break because he needs time to rethink his feelings for me, I text him and he didn't reply, he always replies. Now I'm even more confused!
Q. I'm confused about my feelings for some guy. I mean, I like him....I really do but there's this part of me that doesn't want to be with him and doesn't want to feel these feelings for him. We're in a break because he needed time to rethink his ...
A. 12 March 2007: I'm pretty confused too... If I got the gist of the text message correct, you DON'T feel as sad as you should over your breakup, you feel relieved, you're over him and you're not sorry.
Okay, if I got it right, You're tired of loving a guy who ... (read in full...)
How can I stop ejaculating so quickly? I want to last longer but can only last 2 minutes!
Q. I cum early. how can i stop enjacultion wen i have sex, i only last 2 mins so i have to fake it alot, but it hurts sumtimes, i cnt carry on like this. i need help ...
A. 12 March 2007: Look up "premature ejaculation" on the net, Wikipedia has a very comprehensive definition of it PLUS some exercises on how you can overcome it. I found a website that will teach you how to do Kegel ... (read in full...)
If a chick has sex many times, does the feeling feel less satisfying after a while?
Q. OK... If a chick has sex many times (like a hell of a lot of times), does the feeling feel less satifying after a while... i'm thinking it would hey. And is it the same with masturbation? If one does it really often, does it feel less good after ...
A. 5 March 2007:
Sex is like going to see the movies: Some movies are good, most movies are awful, and a few movies make you want to watch it again and again and again. It doesn't MATTER how long we've been watching tv, we NEVER get tired of it. We ALWAYS have to t... (read in full...)
I lost twins recently and my husband doesn't seem to care, what should I do?
Q. i lost twins recently and my husband dont seem to care what should i do?...
A. 5 March 2007: I'm very sorry for your loss.
Assuming that you both were excited about the babies, instead of breaking down in tears or being visibly shaken by the news, maybe your husband reacts by shutting down. Perhaps by pretending that they were no big deal... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is talking to other men online saying how hot and sexy they look, when confronted he said he only wants friends for us to socialise with. How do I handle this?
Q. My bf of 11 months and I have been having many trust related problems since we met. I just discovered that 1 month ago he created an online profile looking for friends. It is on a website that caters to the specific type of men he is sexually ...
A. 5 March 2007: He's either stubborn, naive or really gutsy to be admitting to his online activities to you.
If he REALLY wants to find friends for the both of you to hang out with, then join him when he goes online for a chat. Be open, be playful, be crazy. H... (read in full...)
Is this older guy interested in me or is he just over friendly ?
Q. I'm 20 and I'm in love with a 39 year old man. He's a professor at the University I attend, in the major I'm pursuing. I think he may feel the same way about me as I do him, but I'm not sure. We have movie night at least once a week at his house. ...
A. 5 March 2007: He kissed you on the lips, right? Cuz if it's been a grandfatherly kiss on the cheek, I'd hold back on the love if I were you!
Assuming that they were lover-like kisses = Sure he's interested!! So far it sounds like a quaint little romance,... (read in full...)
I feel like I dont have what it takes to make any guy happy!!
Q. My question is i am a 40 year old and just recently i was dating a guy who was 12 years older then me! He is a driver for a local company and I dont know if i looked at this relationship diffrently then he did! I met him at my job and we became ...
A. 5 March 2007: WOW! Either this guy has SEVERE trust issues, Doesn't know how to break up with somebody courteously or you HAVE been stealing from him!
Just out of curiosity: What made him think that anyway? Was it from his account or did he just notice t... (read in full...)
I read her myspace emails and now I feel she betrayed!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years, im 18 shes 16. Well we have been having some issues that i thought we were working out (jealousy and not trusting each other and such) But one day shes on my computer and leaves her myspace open, ...
A. 2 March 2007: I wouldn't say that she was lying to him to get a sympathy vote. You could say that it was unfair of her to say so to your mutual friend because you've been trying to change things for the better.
As I Don't Lie has said, I don't blame you for ... (read in full...)
Please let me know what the problem is... is it me?
Q. hi there me and my feance are 2gether for 5 years i had a affair with friends and other Men even married once about 6ppl and i keep on wanting to chat with them! Why i dont know i am very happy with my feance and treuly love him we even...
A. 2 March 2007: Did you have affairs with other men because he was staring at other women or did you cheat on him before he started sending other women his nude pictures?
Either way, he is not satisfied with you - he could have found out about your affairs ... (read in full...)
How do I lose some weight and get rid of the 'man tits?'
Q. I need to lose some weight around the general body area legs, stomach also want to lose the man tits. I am 5'6 and am 155 lbs I don't have that much fat on me but enough that it is annoying. I do work out but don't seem to be able to loose any ...
A. 1 March 2007: Sounds like you've hit a fitness plateau - try doing different exercise routines to the ones you have been doing so far.
I found a forum for you that talks about this problem:
http://ww... (read in full...)
Should I get back in contact with my ex even though we have so many differences?
Q. Dear Cupid: I'm about two months out of a relationship with my girfriend of 1 1/2 years. We have tremendous differences---she wants kids (I don't blame her getting that pressing urge at our age, 42), I don't--I'm a homebody, she's not, she likes t...
A. 1 March 2007: You have to have a kid before you figure out she's right or wrong for you? As you said, that's not her only reason for leaving you.
I can't say how long it takes for somebody to know whether you love them or not, but after 1 1/2 years, I think it... (read in full...)
Should I take the risk on him, he said he doesnt love me but is that because he has commitment issues!?
Q. I am dating a 44 year old man who is very good looking and has had the opportunity and been in numerous relationships...within 6 mths to a year at the most they end, as he has said there has always been something wrong with the girl....and i ...
A. 28 February 2007: It seems more like he has commitment issues and he doesn't like being surprised, but at the same time, I wouldn't stay in the same zip-code if you didn't LOVE living there.
You have to imagine yourself without him there and ask yourself whether ... (read in full...)
Been dating 3 years, but he doesnt even give me money for lunch!!!
Q. I have been dating this guy for 3 yrs. I am at school, he does not even give me money for taxi fare's and not even for lunch but he is working. Is this right or i am greedy please help...
A. 28 February 2007: Are you living alone? Do you mean lunch at school or lunch when you're on a date with him?
I think he should help you pay for taxi fares and food if you are on your way to meet up with HIM.
DOn't get me wrong, though, I don't think guys have ... (read in full...)
I think I got in the way of his perfect life... How can I prove I'm right for him now he's dumped me?
Q. Help. I am in a serious state of confusion right now. I moved in with my boyfriend a year ago. We had been dating 2 and a half years previous to that. Total. we dated 3 and a half years. We are currently broken up, and living two hours apart. Do you ...
A. 28 February 2007: Is that the FIRST time he's mentioned those reasons to you? It's quite sad and unfair for you if he never mentioned them before and just broke up with you out of the blue like that.
At the same time, however, if you guys have had repeated... (read in full...)
I know hes bad for me, but I want him all to myself, I love him!!
Q. as i told you about the boy iv liked for years he is 18 and im 15 , he only just started ringing me i ring him all the time and he rings me all the time he always says are you gonna come and meet me, he has never really been in a relationship ...
A. 28 February 2007: I know, love is a many spendor thing, but it's like a hundred dollar bill, you can't spend it ALL on something perishable like chocolates or roses or candy - no matter how much you crave them. Tomorrow you're going to want something more essential ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend talks to his ex but she doesn't know about me. Why won't he tell her?
Q. I know my bf talks with his ex gf sometimes, and he doesn't want her to know that he has a gf, he told me that the reason is because he doesn't want her to ask him so many questions, should i believe him, is this just a lie? Is he not telling her ...
A. 13 February 2007: He probably won't tell her because he's afraid the dynamics of their relationship would change. Even though they're NOT going out with each other any more, there might still be some feelings they have for each other. TO be frank, he might entertain ... (read in full...)
Why is he calling me the day after we broke up when I wanted to give him some space?
Q. I broke up with my bf 2days ago, for all those lies he comitted towards me with a reason that he dont want to lose me but all i can decide for that time is to break up my relationship with him,it hurts me so much for i did love him but i dont want ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, it's only been two days. And since you broke up with him, it's only natural that he's still pining for you. It happens in every broken relationship, so I wouldn't worry about it.
So far you are doing the right thing trying to get over him... (read in full...)
How can I learn to let go from those that hurt me? Is there something wrong with me?
Q. i just need someone to teach me about letting go. i have such trouble doing it... everytime one relationship ends i hold on to so many things.... so much that it sometimes ruins my next relationship... is there something wrong with me? why is it so ...
A. 13 February 2007: If you're not in a relationship right now, I would advise you to stay single until you have let go of your past and come to enjoy yourself as you are.
Do you have any of your exes belongings? or even some of the things that they gave you? If ... (read in full...)
I'm having erotic dreams about my girlfriends teenage sister!!
Q. For that past few months, I've had a few erotic dreams about my girlfriend's younger sister. My girlfriend is 21 and her sister is 19. We chat alot online and I sometimes go crash at her place out of town when we go skiing together. I just wa...
A. 13 February 2007: THey indicate that you have a crush on her sister, that's for sure. Of course they're harmless if you don't act upon them, but at the same time you don't want to be screaming her name when you're having sex with your girlfriend!
Ask yourself... (read in full...)
Can long distance relationships really work?
Q. hi i am meeting a lad i have been talkin to on msn for over a year on wednesday (valentines day) he lives quite far away from me. i was wondering whether if i start a relationship wiv this lad if it wud be able to work as we far apart? can long ...
A. 13 February 2007: Since the relationship started out as a long distance one and he's making the effort to meet up with you on Valentine's day, a long distance relationship isn't impossible. It'll be frustrating for sure, but as long as he's an honorable guy I think ... (read in full...)
Is it a guy thing not to show emotion in front of other people?
Q. omg so me and my bf has been having some problems with our relationship resently (he doesnt have a sec of time for me....and id things have just been going down hill with talking to each other and hanging out) but i love him soo much!! and i know he ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, sometimes a whale is a sperm and sometimes a whale is just a whale. Since there are so many unresolved problems between the both of you, perhaps he DOES feel relieved to have a break and to be able to have time for himself. I wouldn't say he's ... (read in full...)
Suspicions of prior gf's having sex with other guys caused me to break off with them. Now it's happening again! Help?
Q. Hey...I have a really peculiar problem..and I do'nt know if it affects most guys or girls, but it's killing all my relationships...Flash back...My Italian girlfriend moved back home 2 years ago..then I began suspecting that she was doing "it" with ...
A. 13 February 2007: Okay, let's forget about your past girlfriends for now.
YOu have to stop playing these imaginary scenarios in your head because you're getting worked up over something that might not have happened - and this mounting hysteria is going to come acr... (read in full...)
He told me he liked me but nothing came of it, now I'm friendly with his mate and he's fallen out with me!
Q. Well heres the deal... At school i liked this lad and he told me he liked me too. Nothing ever really happened! We flirted etc but nothing came of it. Now his best mate has been flirting with me and i like his mate too. But when he seen me and h...
A. 11 February 2007: Perhaps the first guy was just nervous about making the first serious move towards you. He might have been plucking up the courage before his friend came around and started holding your hand.
The good thing is that the first guy isn't getting ... (read in full...)
My friend made an excuse that he couldn't meet me. Was he genuine or is he trying to let me down gently?
Q. About 4 weeks ago, my friend set me up on a blind date with a guy from her work who is 20 years old (i just turned 18). We went out on a 'date' as a group, with my friend, her bf, and another friend of ours and her bf too. It was kind of awkward ...
A. 11 February 2007: Well, my pessimist-senses tell me that he's dropping you gently, while my optimist says that perhaps he's just really busy this week and doesn't want to give you hollow promises when he knows he doesn't have the time.
I'd give him the benefit ... (read in full...)
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