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Age 22, living in wales.

I am usually a very happy and friendly person, a little shy at times but have had my hard times in life.

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I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.

Q.   I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...

A.   10 October 2008: thank you all I am going to do exactly what you say and already have in fact! And I feel fantastic!! xx... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.

Q.   I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...

A.   9 October 2008: this is an update from me! I am still having him contact me and pester me. Texting me every now and again still telling me how he thinks of me and how we were. Gets aroused at the thought of me, couldn't hug me because he'd get a hardon etc etc. ... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   7 October 2008: this is an update from me! I am still haviong him contact me and pester me. Texting me every now and again still telling me how he thinks of me and how we were. Gets eroused at the thought of me, couldnt hug me cus hed get a hardon etcetc. W... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.

Q.   I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...

A.   27 August 2008: I have told im not to contact me and to keep away from me and he has! I feel alot better for this. and know that he is just an arse realy! xx... (read in full...)

I don't know what my ex is playing at. I can't be messed about like this any more, can I?

Q.   I have written on here previously about my issues with my ex boyfriend. but this weekend it has all come to a head.... I had to text him on friday (6th august~) about work related issues. Then from nowhere he tells starts texting me about what he...

A.   10 August 2008: . He is definitely obsessed with me to tell me hes touching haimself and naked and crap, which i realy dont need to know. It isnt nice hearing tha type of thing when u are no longer with a person cus u hope that they dont think of u in that way... (read in full...)

I broke up with my boyfriend. I can't stand the thought of him moving on with another woman. How do I get over it?

Q.   my ex boyfriend and i seemingly broke off 2days ago and it has been wrecking for me. the issue is, that he seems to be gettin on fairly well he has even moved in with his female friends/flatmates who will definately be having girls come over for ...

A.   30 July 2008: I've recently split with my boyfrined. he dumped me for no reason but is still in my life daily and now texts and tells me how attractive i am but that he cant be in a "relationship". It hurts so much because he lives close by and i have to see h... (read in full...)

Still in love with my ex, how should I be interpreting these signs from him?

Q.   I have written on here previously titled:- My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe. I dont know what to do anymore with my situation. I am still in love with my ex sooo much that ...

A.   30 July 2008: He's been around my house again today and texting me. Being nice as pie and acting normal. I am sooo hurt and confused. He keeps coming back into my life all the time and it is killing me!!!! I have never loved anyone like this. even though he ha... (read in full...)

Still in love with my ex, how should I be interpreting these signs from him?

Q.   I have written on here previously titled:- My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe. I dont know what to do anymore with my situation. I am still in love with my ex sooo much that ...

A.   29 July 2008: WEll... last night I had him texting me telling me how he hade seen me yesterday and thought how fit and attractive i was and that he thinks about me and him cuddling in ed everynight. I said well... thats only your doing that ur not cus u were the ... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   12 July 2008: I know now why he had to run off!! My mum interfered yesterday afternoon and rang my ex up and said that we had to meet up and talk that i was upset. He comes and meets me lastnight. We were so comfortable together again and talking like normal ... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   11 July 2008: The last time i saw him. He was sooo nervous and awkward around me that he had to run off like he was going to cry? Why? I have done nothing but show i'm here for him. I suppose i have to let go now. but it is soooo hard when I know he loved... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   9 July 2008: I had to work with him yesterday. I saw in him that he had little feeling left towards me. He was talking to me but with no feeling and could hardly look at me. I can see now that i have to move on however hard it may be. He knows the way i feel a... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   7 July 2008: i also failed to add that this girl was by lucky chance a tourist who isnt around anymore!! lol he also said in end txt not his fault i cant except were over. but... he the one who keeps conversations like these going on text! What is... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   7 July 2008: There is more to this story if u wanna luk at preious questions i have posted u can c what has gone on in our relationship.... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.

Q.   Don't know what to believe anymore. I have written about the problems i have had with my ex-boyfriend on here in the past. He is acting very weird towards me now. He looks terrible and unhappy. lost weight and generally looks like crap. Went...

A.   6 July 2008: thank you for your replies. I'm sure you are both right to leave him alone and see if he comes out of the depression type of feeling i believe he has. He has told me not to text him again. So dont think that i will. Wouldnt know what to put anyw... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   30 June 2008: Since the last time i commented i have had loads go on. my ex has been lurking, riding past my house sitting and watching me etc. Then i had a pregnancy scare had to ring him and ask him to go the clinic with me. He wasnt nice on the phone and thou... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   16 June 2008: I don't know if i'm just naive and just unwise to the world of men, but why does he still say he loves me but he cant be with me? thats just what has messed with my head loads and i cant stop thinking about!!!!... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   15 June 2008: Since my last update I have seen him. We had to meet up to give eachother things. We could hardly look or speak to eachother at first and found it difficult. He couldnt realy look at me. then after about 15 minutes he started to peep at me... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   8 June 2008: I am going out and having fun since he has dumped me. I am not just sitting around moping. I am trying to move on. but there is this piece of me that thinks hes ill and just needs time to get his feelings together 2. If he doesnt show any sign of... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   8 June 2008: so shall i just leave him by himself? I told him that i still love him but that he hurt me when he split with me like this and that ill always love him. Can't b just friends. So.....?... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   8 June 2008: Sorry but there is also something else which i cant believe i havent mentioned before!!! We hadnt had sex for the last month in the relationship. this was due to him injuring his back in an car acciedent in which he tore back muscles and he has t... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   8 June 2008: Also must add this. I liked this guy since i was like 12.he once took my sister out back then and i liked him. she didnt. (she 12 years older than me. Then i would see him now and again and we were always shy but there was this great attraction... (read in full...)

He has completely shut himself away and I don't understand. Should I leave him alone?

Q.   I posted a question on the 26th of may. "He is even more distant than before, is it over?" Well... It is now and i cant get any answers out of my ex, as to why. He has just shut himself off from me. i ring he wont answer. text he dont answer...

A.   8 June 2008: I think you all have valid points. I haven't got to blame myself because i havent done anything wrong. My family are very close and we all talk openly and work together and share everything. My mother was speaking to a close friend of his ... (read in full...)

He is even more distant than before, is it over?

Q.   Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...

A.   5 June 2008: I do reckon someone has said something but i realy dont know what. if he will believe what others say over what i do then he isnt worth it. i have told him how he has hurt me not telling me in person and i have never seen him since. He is a... (read in full...)

He is even more distant than before, is it over?

Q.   Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...

A.   4 June 2008: I feel so used and abused as this is only my second experience of a relationship and it being sexual and intimate is what hurts the most about it all. Like as though i have just been a figure to exploit and use. He got after me initialy in ... (read in full...)

He is even more distant than before, is it over?

Q.   Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN ...

A.   4 June 2008: It is over now! Yesterday I tried ringing him to see how he was and he wouldnt answer. then i received a text: "Y u ringing me?" To which i said: just wondering how u r im sorry" to which he says: im busy for the rest of the week working." So ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's gone distant and I don't know why!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. We were so happy at first. He came to work for my family and I was in an unhappy relationship wit my ex and we found that we just clikcked and came together. We fell in love quickly although...

A.   26 May 2008: I hadnt heard from him at all yesterday so I went round to his house. He was there with a friend but in stead of saying hello he just stared at me! and looked away. I then went because i was so hurt and upset that i cudnt cope with the situ... (read in full...)

I feel unappreciated and unhappy!

Q.   Hi. I moved in with my boyfriend in jan, we hav been together nearly 4 yrs. Since moving in I have been feeling pissed off with him as he drinks much more than I knew about and he doesn't seem to want sex when he has had a few! He is never a nasty ...

A.   25 May 2008: Act sexy and then u will be sexy to him! Make him persue and chase you! go out with friends make arrangements without him. Dress actractively. dresses, earings, make up etc. MAKE HIM JEALOUS! he will soon come round.... (read in full...)

I feel depressed and don't know why

Q.   Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...

A.   12 March 2008: In october I split with my boyfriend and got together soon after with an absolutely lovely guy who loves me for who and what I am. I feel realy happy and totally in love, i think i was just unhappy with the guy i was with. xx... (read in full...)

I have been apart from my ex bf for a year now, we have however maintained contact and he is always sweet and flirty! Should I ask him back?

Q.   Hi I need help I have been apart from my ex bf for approx a year now but we continued to text and talk after the initial dust had settled, It was the most painful time of my life so far because i truly love him so much, i believe that we should ...

A.   1 January 2008: Just tell him and see what happens! You didn't realy need anyone to tell you the answer because you already know what to do. x... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend, but have always had something with this other guy, like a weird connection.

Q.   There is this guy. He has been my friend since we were 6 years old say. We always played about and flirted when younger. He always came round to see me and my parents regularly. He has recently gone to uni and come back with a new girlfriend ...

A.   9 July 2007: Sunrise, you have it all wrong! He is the one who since he has come home will not talk to me anymore and acts strangely around me. I have tried to talk to him on several occasions and he seems realy nervous of me, lol. I do want to be his frind bu... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a girl I've known a long time but I don't want to hurt my girlfriend

Q.   Hello, I Am in a realationship with my girlfriend for about a year now and i am in love with another girl i have know for over 13 years it is really making me confused i don't want to hurt my girlfriend any suggestions would be amazing thanks in ...

A.   3 July 2007:  This is a hard one. You can be in love with someone, but you can never tell them because u have known them for so long and u guess they just see you as a friend. I was in the same situation, I liked a guy i had known from a child, but have nev... (read in full...)

I feel depressed and don't know why

Q.   Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...

A.   24 June 2007: I am still feeling mega depressed! I have just found a profile on the internet of my b/f's where he watches live porn shows and is frinds with all of the women in them and is acting like he's single! I cant believe he has done that!... (read in full...)

I found porn on his computer and I feel betrayed, like he's cheated on me

Q.   Yesterday I was on my boyfriend's computer, and clicked on the html drag history box to find the google link, and I saw all these porn links. I do not in any way tolerate porn. I understand that to guys, it's socially acceptable, but I'm not okay ...

A.   23 June 2007: Don't end it, work it through. Just think of it this way: If he needs to find some visual pleasure by looking at the female form isnt it better if it is 2D than 3D? You get my drift? He needs it just to make him feel that he can look, because ev... (read in full...)

I feel depressed and don't know why

Q.   Hi, I am a 21 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months now .our relationship has recently become serious. We have slept together, he said he loved me 4 months into the relationship and says he wants to marry me someday. He i...

A.   23 June 2007: More info: In school had 3 friends in which became closed off into a group in which our whole school year completely excluded and made us feel little and like muck on their shoes. Boys would ignore and/or tease us constantly. and i have never had a ... (read in full...)

I am 18 and have never kissed a girl. Why am I such a loser?

Q.   hi, i am almost 18 years old and i have NEVER kissed a girl. i know it is very rare and trust me you would not want to be me. i just want to know some possible reasons why i am such a loser....

A.   2 June 2007: You aint no loser mate! I thought I was until last year. I didnt have my first kiss till i was 20 and it was worth the wait. You cus go and kiss just anyone but it is worth waiting for a special someone and a special momment! I have been with th... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and he's very well endowed. Will it hurt to have sex?

Q.   I'm wondering... I am a virgin and I have a partner which is really big in size, he's well above average. Will it hurt me more than if he was smaller ? I'm kinda scared....

A.   31 May 2007: Yes! it will hurt my bf was very large and wide when i first had sex. but it is a kinda good pain.... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and I'm so scared to have sex, he can't get inside! What can I do to relax?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we both want to start having sex. I am really scared though b/c I am a virgin. I get so scared that whenever we have tried I am so tense he can't get inside me. My legs seem to refuse to ...

A.   13 November 2006: You need to feel fully relaxed in order to get in the 'mood' for making love as i like to call it, as i only believe it is natural if you are in love and have sex. For your b/f to get u in the mood i suggest he gives you oral, which would make you ... (read in full...)

We haven't had sex yet and I just can't get him to 'come' from fooling around! Help!

Q.   I have recently got very intimate with my new bf of 4 months. We havnt slept together yet but have fooled around alot trying new ways of coming without having full on penatrive sex. We have been trying for weeks now and i just can't get him to ...

A.   18 September 2006: Perhaps, he feels you are acting too desperate! and he doesn't like it?!... (read in full...)

Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?

Q.   hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ...

A.   16 September 2006: I never told my boyfriend i was a virgin when i lost it and he never knew any the wiser, but u must be prepared for quite a lot of blood and mess from yourself and be strong enough to come up with an explanation for it! i know not every woman blee... (read in full...)

How do you know if someones fallen in love with you ?

Q.   Guys and Girls:- What are the signs a guy is falling in love with a girl? Do you have any stories of how you fell for a girl? or ladies, can you tell me how you knew your man had fell for you? Thanks xxx...

A.   27 July 2006: My b/f of 4 monhs is like what you say below, he is always telling me he misses me and asking if i miss him. Asks me whether i think about him all the time because he says he cant stop thinking of me! He is always protecting me and looking out for ... (read in full...)

How do you know if someones fallen in love with you ?

Q.   Guys and Girls:- What are the signs a guy is falling in love with a girl? Do you have any stories of how you fell for a girl? or ladies, can you tell me how you knew your man had fell for you? Thanks xxx...

A.   27 July 2006: Thanks, if anyone else has any views please feel free to help me out here!... (read in full...)

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