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Hey All,

i'm -Angelicc- that's what my friends call me. i'm a friendly, bubbly, outgoing, open-minded person. there alot to my personality too much to write. okay what do i believe qualifies me to help people, well i'm caring, i have some experience in some situation, i'm open-minded, i'm not very judgemental, i'm not really bias and the fact i want to help people is basically it. okay where do i live, well i live at home in london, england, Uk.

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I might actually act soon on my crush... but it's my best friend's boyfriend!!! Help!

Q.   Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to ...

A.   3 August 2010: The guy isnt worth you time at all. This will only ruin your friendship if you act on it. He clearly doesnt care for either of you if he's willing to put you in the situation. ... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm turning into a slut.

Q.   It's been forever since i've been on this site, it helped me alot when I was 18 so hopely it can help me again now i'm 21. Basically in the last 4 years i changed dramatic as a person, i've had my heart broken twice. And my standards in men...

A.   3 August 2010: With the amount i've kissed my prince charming should be right around the corner. lol... (read in full...)

Should I kiss my girlfriend?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been out for a just over a month now and my friends keep saying i should kiss her. one day me and a few of my friends and her and a few of her friends went to the cinema, and after she got off the train on the way home two ...

A.   3 August 2010: Never kiss a girl because you've been pressured. If her first kiss she wants it too be special. Do it when your ready, you'll know by the clique moment when you really desire to kiss when her lips are all you think about and cant help but too look... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm turning into a slut.

Q.   It's been forever since i've been on this site, it helped me alot when I was 18 so hopely it can help me again now i'm 21. Basically in the last 4 years i changed dramatic as a person, i've had my heart broken twice. And my standards in men...

A.   3 August 2010: Thank you all from your advice, I was just kissing a stranger i met once yesterday and thought what the hell have i become. The only word i could think of was slut. In my job flirting is something goes along with job but maybe i've taken it a step ... (read in full...)

Do you think I offended him?

Q.   Hello, I am 15 and am in a relationship with a boy I trust completely. No, I'm not going to ask if sex is okay because it's only been a month! And I am saving myself for a more apropriate age. *My question is; have I hurt his feelings?/would ...

A.   3 August 2010: With boys its our job as girlfriends to teach them how to kiss with out them know it. Basically you take control of the kiss. ... (read in full...)

Is he getting too close for comfort... just for a viza???

Q.   I'm 13 years old and i went on holiday to turkey and met a nice man over there.He liked my family and my family liked him. On the last day of the holiday he wanted to take me to the beach but parents wouldnt let me for obvious reasons such as we had ...

A.   3 August 2010: Go for a guys you own age, guys you can have a laugh with and mess about with. Not a guy whos laying on too thick for someone so young. dont get caught up in the idea that he love you. Even if he love you, you dont love him. Enjoy being 13 dont ente... (read in full...)

I want to love her without being disgusted at her past and where she has been.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now however we have known each other and been close for 3 years. She has had 4 claimed sexual partners including me, I have had 3. Were both 23. She had sexual relations with her much older ...

A.   3 August 2010: Can you honestly say you love her if you cant completely accept her. You knew what sort of person you were getting invovled with but now you realise she slightly more wilder then you imagined, that you'll never have a fist with her suddenly... (read in full...)

What does his text message mean exactly???

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for about ten months. We aren't dating because I'm leaving the state for graduate school for a couple years and he's not a fan of long distance relationships. We've talked about this and are doing what we can. We have a...

A.   3 August 2010: He's building your hopes up for nothing. He saying if was going to commit it would be you but since your going i guess i@m not gonna get the chance. If you turned around and said you wanted to have go once you finished you course. He'd say it does... (read in full...)

After a miscarriage now ex went out with his ex. What should I do?

Q.   I am fifteen, and got pregnant at fourteen. I just recently misscarried. The guy was super supportive, me and him had taken responsibility and made plans. Then I miscarried, His parents made him break up with me because they thought i had lied. We ...

A.   3 August 2010: If you really look at your relationship maybe it was just that the feelings werent there and you both just stay together because you though you should. The best thing for you to do is step out of sexual relationships for awhile, find someone ... (read in full...)

I can't seem to get involved with guys anymore!

Q.   [OP original title] Me and my ex broke up round about five months ago (he dumped me). I really, honestly thought I was over him. That was until I started getting very close to another guy who helped me during the break up and we really liked each...

A.   3 August 2010: Have you ever through that maybe you havent kissed the guy because you want to take it slow with him. Rush into a relationship at your age will only cause you heartache. Just step back enjoy your time togther. basically go with flow. Oh ... (read in full...)

How do you guys keep confidence and not slip up?

Q.   How do you guys keep confidence and not slip up? It's so aggravating, because I can be a confident guy, but I'm almost ALWAYS shy when I first meet a girl. It annoys the hell out of me. My heart pumps a little faster, I say rather plain things, an...

A.   3 August 2010: Experience and pratice. The more you go out of your way to talk to girls the more confidents you'll bulid in talking to them. If you find it hard to approach, make her come to you by flirting with your eyes. Don't be afraid that you'll make... (read in full...)

Circumcision the best answer?

Q.   I'm uncircumcised, I have a bit of a problem with pulling my foreskin back when erect/hard. I can pull the skin all the way back when soft/not erect but when I'm erect it's like I don't have enough skin and it's going to rip. I can pull it halfway ...

A.   3 August 2010: I say go visit your doctor, but if your in pain then i think its best.... (read in full...)

From freaky to enjoying it?

Q.   Has your partner ever asked you to do something nasty or freaky, and the first time he asked you were shocked or found it weird, but eventually came to really enjoy it? What was it he asked for. I have been in a committed relationship for...

A.   3 August 2010: Everyone finds pleasure in different measures. It's not that uncommon now a days to find people who like to indulge in out of the box ideas in pleasure. I don't see any harm in asking... (read in full...)

I get jealous when people talk to my friends

Q.   How do I deal with jealousy of people talking to my friends or change this? I get jealous when other people talk to my friends as they have their attention. I was never like this when I was at high school because I only had a few friends and we a...

A.   3 August 2010: Include yourself. If you see your friends talking to new people introduct yourself and include yourself in conversations. Maybe expanding your friendship group will ease your fear... (read in full...)

Husband so protective of our daughter that its really affecting our marriage

Q.   so i have been married for 3yrs and have a 1yr old girl my husband overprotects her give her anything to eat and is always playing her now my problem is that i feel like we are just parents we forgot our relationship i feel so lonely all i do is ...

A.   3 August 2010: Before you go elsewhere for comfort, speak to your husband, confront him that it forgetting his a husband as well as a father. Sit him down and air out your feelings, give him the chance the change to be the man he was before you had your baby. I'm ... (read in full...)

I'm worried that we are going to a place I don't want to go!

Q.   I love my boyfriend so much. I feel like we are falling apart. We have been together for a little over a year. We broke up awhile ago for about 5 or 6 months but we were still seeing each other. He used to be so crazy about me, except now since ...

A.   3 August 2010: The hardest thing is always to restart an old relationship. Because there been so much hurt and there no way to completely start a new. To me i think you both should maybe take a break from this relationship take a step back and see if this rea... (read in full...)

How can we let him see the truth... she cheated on him and lied about it. Help please! He doesn't deserve this!

Q.   My boyfriend is a senior in high school and his cousin is a junior. We are all in the same school. The cousin (chris) has a girlfriend who is a freshman. I am a sophmore..me and the girlfriend used to be close friends about a year ago and she was ...

A.   6 March 2008: I know you feel that you want to help your friend Chris in this situation, which i think its really great. You've voiced your opinion about his girlfriend, what you think she did and what you think she like but you don't have an actually prove of ... (read in full...)

How long do I wait?

Q.   I went out with this girl for a few years. A few months back I decided to break it off and give each other some time. She wanted me back for a long time and we agreed that we would get back together in the new year. we talked all the time and hung ...

A.   6 March 2008: Typically man, you always want what you can't have. Sorry to be a B**** but i think its right you get a taste of what you dish out to her. You broke up with her, she wanted and tried to get back with you....she was there in your grasp. You like... (read in full...)

Abusive, obsessive and I don't know what to do...

Q.   I was with my ex for just over a year. Over the last three months our arguements were getting worse and worse and then finally he snapped and threw me about a little abit. I've been to the police and haven't pressed charges because thats it we will ...

A.   6 March 2008: This guy is completely in the wrong, he's done something that he can never take back. He doesn't have the right nor does he deserve to be your friend. if he really truly loved you he would understand what he did to you was wrong, and that he can't ... (read in full...)

How can I get rid of the hair on my stomach or make it lighter?

Q.   After fighting with self-esteem issues for several years, I am finally starting to accept myself but I do have one problem: my stomach. I have dark hair on my stomach and it almost looks like a guy's. I noticed this before but one of my best friends ...

A.   5 March 2008: Okay too be honest i too have a little be of hair below my belly button, its not obvious but i can see it. i've tried many ways too get rid such as shaved, used hair removal cream and waxed. I've found bleaching the hair is the best you can get done ... (read in full...)

Long distance.

Q.   I've been going out with this guy for almost a year, in Jan. we broke up but then recently got back together..he never calls or texts me at all anymore, and he has alot of girls on his yahoo IM he gets really mad everytime i ask about them..Should I ...

A.   2 March 2008:  okay let me just tell you something long distance relationship are hard work, and it doesn't get easier just more complicated. I think you really need to decided whether you love for him is enough to pull you thru that type of relationship... (read in full...)

How can I get rid of or camouflage these stretchmarks on my shoulders?

Q.   This isn't a relationship question but Ii need a bit of advice. I'm in year 11 at school, I'm 15 and I have my school leavers prom coming up in May. Well as you do to a prom, I have to wear a dress which I'm not really bothered about but most o...

A.   2 March 2008: If you go into boots or superdrug you can by bio-oil ir works.... (read in full...)

I want to show him we could have fun together if he gave me the chance.

Q.   There is this guy i really am interested in. He acts flirty towards me though he says he just wants to be friends. We hang out together cus we have friends in common and go to college together and I want to show him we could have fun together if he ...

A.   2 March 2008: Okay i'm not too clear by what you mean by fun, but i'm guessing the clean version. Why don't you orgnaize a night out somewhere, make sure invite a few friends that you both got in common. The when you invite him make it seem you've gone out of y... (read in full...)

I don't know what she's doing on her nights out...

Q.   I need to bounce this senario of you. What do you think is happening or what I should say or do about it? My girlfriend of 5 months goes out with work friends once or twice a month, problem is I don't know who they are, or where she goes. To make ...

A.   2 March 2008: Okay i don't want to be mean but no one like a clingy man, your girlfriend going out with friends once or twice a MONTH, So what if she does she a grown woman, let her have space to enjoy herself. Why don't you stop worrying what she's doing and ... (read in full...)

I want to do what's best for her and myself, would be nice to have some points of view on this.

Q.   I like this new girl im seeing she seems really nice and sweet and i think that we would get on really well together, although im just worried becuse unfortunetly she lives very close (when i say close im mean close ,couple doors down) to my ex gf ...

A.   2 March 2008: Well your relationship past is pretty rocky, plus still facing effect of that relationship today that's why i think you should take things slow. I think it's great you dating again and want to move forward with you relationahip with this new girl. ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for a "real" reply from this other girl?

Q.   See here's the problem... I am 15 and I've been going out with someone for six months today actually... but there is another girl at air cadets that I can't stop thinking about and I've told her how I feel and I asked her how she feels and she has ...

A.   2 March 2008: It is a really tricky situation, i'm going thru something similar but i think the best thing is for you to be honest with yourself and to your girlfriend. No girl wants to be second best or a backup to another girl. if you really not feeling ... (read in full...)

am I in love?

Q.   am i in love? i have known this guy for a few years now and when i talk to him he makes me laugh and i can confide in him.but he is in the "popular" kind of people.. He makes me soo happy i just want to run up to him and kiss him, i dont know...

A.   29 July 2006: No one can really tell you your in love, they can guess and assume but only you really know. Look deep with you heart, that's the only place you'll really find the answer.... (read in full...)

We had a trouble with the "Doggy position" anyone got any tips!?

Q.   recently me and my boyfriend decided that we wanted to try the doggy style position, but for some reason we couldnt get it in. we laughed it off n put it down to the fact there is almost a foot difference between our heights. does anyone have any ...

A.   26 July 2006: Okay you could try leaning over the bed with your elbow to your hand lays flat on the bed this will lower the front part of your torso and raise you lower part of torso and bum high. At this point you could either put your feet on the floor or you ... (read in full...)

I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant

Q.   iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...

A.   26 July 2006: Georgia...Knowing that you engaging in sexual activity from such a young age is worry espeically as you haven't used any form of protection. I think that it's more then likely that you are pregnant as some pregnant woman find that their still are on ... (read in full...)

I don't really fancy the guy I was snogging, but I hate to hurt his feelings!

Q.   I'm one of the uncool girls in my school and recently we went on an end of school trip to an activity place, where we stayed for the week. There, one of the popular lads in my year asked me out, and because I've never had a boyfriend before, I got ...

A.   26 July 2006: I personally think you worry a bit too much about what people think. What others may think about boyfriends looks doesn't mean you should stop dating him. I think this guy is very much interested in you but you were selfish and let him on to beli... (read in full...)

Is dating your second cousin legal in New York?

Q.   I live in N.Y. state and am wondering if it is legal to date your 2nd cousin? Also is it ok to have an attraction to him? Does this make me a redneck or sick in the head? Please help!!!!!!!...

A.   26 July 2006: I don't know if it's legal to date you cousin or not but i believe is the biggest issuse when it comes to dating with in the family is you family. You have to be really sure that dating your cousin is really what you want. Has soon as you do deci... (read in full...)

My friend has the perfect girl and cheats on her...Should I tell her?

Q.   i'm close too my friends girlfriend and shes really nice pretty much the perfect girl. she thinks the world of her boyfriend and believes he would never cheat on her, the only problem is that he does all the time. shes often asked me if i would tell ...

A.   26 July 2006: Tell her, if she means anything to you, you'd tell her as no one desevres to be cheated on and lie to. ... (read in full...)

Can a girl get a guy by always being there for him unconditionally?

Q.   Can you win him over by alway being there for him unconditionally? A girl friend married her ex-boyfriend recently because he was always there for her no matter what happens in her life, if she wants to be single, he leaves her alone, if she...

A.   26 July 2006: No unfortunetly being there for someone unconditionally isn't like the fairy tales, they don't always realise that you could be the person they live for. Mostly what'll happen is your be turnned into a doormat for this person and they may come to ... (read in full...)

We broke up, but we still hang out quite a lot, should I stay or no?

Q.   i dont know what to do me and my boyfriend of three years broke up and have been for two months i dont want to lose him so i still talk to him and and pratically with him all the time he gets mad if i talk to other people. I ask him where we stand ...

A.   25 July 2006: The person who wrote this poster i was just wondering what choice you made.... (read in full...)

She wanted to go to the next level, I refused, and now she "hates" me

Q.   Along time ago a close friend of mine started coming on to me and one night while talking to her she was really tryig to get me to get down with her. Knowing her past and all the guys she got with I played it off giving her the hit that I was cool ...

A.   25 July 2006: Your very welcome, your choice was a hard one but i have all respect out to you for making it. Friendship is sometimes more important then your desires.... (read in full...)

I don't believe my boyfriend when he says he isn't cheating

Q.   I have a boyfriend and I think I love him.He says he loves me too.But I don't know if he is cheating on me because he hardly ever calls me and he is always getting text messages and calls on his cell phone from other girls.And he always talks about ...

A.   25 July 2006: Well kierra you have to think is do you want to carry on a relationship with this guy? do you think you can learn to trust him again? do you think you love is strong enough to withstand this betrayel? do you think he won't do it d... (read in full...)

What if this is just another excuse not to get married? Should I wait or not?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we've lived together for a year. We got a new house, a new dog, etc...I feel that our relationship should be taken to the next level (marriage). I love him and I believe he is "t...

A.   25 July 2006: I think that you wanting everything now and you aren't taking the time to enjoy or really appreciate what you all ready have. You have a boyfriend that you love that your living with in your new home. You've only been together for 2 years, wha... (read in full...)

Found Latino porn on his computer-does it mean he doesn't fancy me?

Q.   i found latino girl porn sites on my boyfriends computer and im not a latino does it mean he doesnt fancy me anymore ...

A.   25 July 2006: You seem like a very insecure person to me, just becuase you boyfriend likes to look at latino porn doesn't mean he's not attracted to you. ... (read in full...)

Does the guy I'm dating only care about one thing-he was tooo physical on our first date!

Q.   Does the guy I'm dating only care about one thing? I went on a first date with a guy and he put his arm around me as soon as we sat in the movie theater. He even kissed me, and then put my legs over his, and before I knew it he was trying to reach ...

A.   25 July 2006: He sounds like he's a chances the type of guy who knows what he wants and isn't fighten to go out there and get it. Or Maybe it's something he's so use to doing and does't realise h's moving too fast for you. Just because he's a little forw... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is bored with "just" me!

Q.   Hi need some help guys! I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, and we have an amazing relationship and are so in love, well at least I still am. About two weeks ago she went on a sports activity week and things were fine. Bu...

A.   25 July 2006: Maybe shes seeing the possiblities and the exicitement of not have attachments and just wants a little space to try them. Doesn't mean she wants to cheat on you just she doesn't want feel tied down. Like she as to spend all her time weith you, maybe ... (read in full...)

She wanted to go to the next level, I refused, and now she "hates" me

Q.   Along time ago a close friend of mine started coming on to me and one night while talking to her she was really tryig to get me to get down with her. Knowing her past and all the guys she got with I played it off giving her the hit that I was cool ...

A.   24 July 2006: I think you made a decsion that you felt was right in your heart. so if you think it was right to save your friendship instead of throwing yourself into a relationship that probarbly would of end badly and be the end of your friendship. Then you did ... (read in full...)

I don't believe my boyfriend when he says he isn't cheating

Q.   I have a boyfriend and I think I love him.He says he loves me too.But I don't know if he is cheating on me because he hardly ever calls me and he is always getting text messages and calls on his cell phone from other girls.And he always talks about ...

A.   20 July 2006: So your boyfriend is popular with girls doesn't make him a cheat, it's not like he's walking away from you to take the calls. It's all about trust, do you think you can trust him? If it's really bothering you talk to him about it. But if your one ... (read in full...)

We broke up, but we still hang out quite a lot, should I stay or no?

Q.   i dont know what to do me and my boyfriend of three years broke up and have been for two months i dont want to lose him so i still talk to him and and pratically with him all the time he gets mad if i talk to other people. I ask him where we stand ...

A.   4 May 2006: I'm in a similar situation, apart from my exboyfriends says he wants to be friends and to date other people. of course i was upset but i agreed because i thro it was best to have him in my life then not at all. well alot of bulls*** been said and ... (read in full...)

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