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Student of Psychology, Degree in Nursing with wide variety of experience. Mother, daughter, sister, wife, ex, neice, grandaughter, student, boss, colleague....you get the picture.
Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
Adore my family and friends. Love to help others, abuse survivor, rape survivor, holder of family record for cherry pip spitting......
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She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 10 July 2006: Stop justifying yourself. You are digging a bigger hole for yourself. If you are so intelligent why are you doing this??
Attraction CAN be controlled you know. Out of sight out of mind and all that.... (read in full...)
What is a posh wank?
Q. I've heard my mates talk about it but I'm too embarrased to ask what they're on about.......... What is a "posh wank"?...
A. 3 July 2006: Bunch of perverts......
hehehe... (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 3 July 2006: walk away
they may not be his biological kids, but they are still his kids if he has been there raising them for her.... (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 2 July 2006: You want him to leave his wife for you and your child. he has no commitments to her .....sorry he has, he said vows.
Ok, you want to break them up, get in touch with a lawyer and send him a child support demand letter.
chances are they will bre... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is heartbroken that England are out of the World Cup!
Q. My boyfriend is absolutely, totally and utterly gutted now that England are out of the World Cup. He can barely speak and I can't seem to make him see that it's summer, life is good, and that there's still fun to be had. Anyone got ideas how to lift ...
A. 2 July 2006: harsh as this may sound tell him to get the hell over it!!
Thank God it is over, only two more years then the Europena Championships and four more before we have to put up with depressed men drinking too much again!!
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How can I get sticky-out nips?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy, in pretty good shape although I don't go to gym, I've got my flat abs my pecks although they are a lot more capable of looking even better, my question is, and I know this'll sound daft, but how can I make my nipples stick out more, ...
A. 2 July 2006: Breast feed...lol
No, why would you want sticky out nips seriously. Think of the joggers nipple when you go to the gym and they chafe!
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I broke off my engagement because of a row with my boyfriend's Muslim father about religion!
Q. dear cupid, i am 34 yrs old and was engaged back in 2003 to the man of my dreams-we were together for almost 4 years. Unfortunatley i ended the engagment because his father (which i might add is Muslim)decided to TELL me that if I were to have ...
A. 2 July 2006: What has happened in your life recently to make you look back on this relationship from your past with such rose tinted spectacles? ... (read in full...)
My ex's MUM keeps giving me hassle... Like asking me to have the baby DNA tested! Does she have this right?
Q. m due to have my baby in 4 month and my ex's mum wont leave me alone she's constantly ringing up and saying she wants a dna test to prove wether or not its her sons baby. i know the baby is his but he turned his back on me and said he didnt want ...
A. 1 July 2006: Yeah, scrap what I said. I have the ma-in-law from hell.....
Although she is good with my son....
ho-hum, difficult one this.... (read in full...)
I fancy my friends aunt!
Q. my mates auntie is hot. she kisses him everytime im around. i also want her to kiss me. wat do i do to get her attention?...
A. 30 June 2006: Again, need more info, age differences, c'mon!!... (read in full...)
How do I ask my colleague out?
Q. my collegue is very beautiful. im not brave enough to ask her out. wat can i do to get her attention?...
A. 30 June 2006: More info please, where do you work, how do you talk to each other if you talk at all, how old are you, are either of you attached??
C'mon!!... (read in full...)
What is a posh wank?
Q. I've heard my mates talk about it but I'm too embarrased to ask what they're on about.......... What is a "posh wank"?...
A. 30 June 2006: Is it? I didn't know that either!!... (read in full...)
My ex's MUM keeps giving me hassle... Like asking me to have the baby DNA tested! Does she have this right?
Q. m due to have my baby in 4 month and my ex's mum wont leave me alone she's constantly ringing up and saying she wants a dna test to prove wether or not its her sons baby. i know the baby is his but he turned his back on me and said he didnt want ...
A. 30 June 2006: You need to slow down and take this thng one step at a time. She has every right ot want to kow if she is going to be a grandma. And her son is a child still at 18 years old - her child. I take it you are not much older yourself?
Look, this kid ... (read in full...)
I'm a Christian and he's agnostic. Other than that, we get along great. Will it be a problem?
Q. I am a 25 year old single girl. I have been on a few dates with several different men. But I was set up with this guy from some friends and we have been dating for a couple of weeks. I really like talking to him. He makes me laugh and think and well ...
A. 27 June 2006: Why should it cause problems? People are allowed to be different and these differences very often make a relationship work. Dont try to change each other because that is when things becaome complictaed or stop working. Accept each other and each ... (read in full...)
He thought I was ready for something serious, and knew he wasn't -- so he disappeared!
Q. I was seeing a guy for 2 months (me 27, him 21) and wasn't sure where we stood. We didn't go out much and he wouldn't stay over after sex, so I suspected he was using me. I asked him where I stood and he said he saw me as the perfect girl, th...
A. 27 June 2006: Phone him and ask him to go out fro a quite drink. If he says yes ask him face to face what is going on. If he says no then put it down to experience.
x... (read in full...)
Breast feeding my new baby has some ... interesting effects on me!
Q. Hello, I am a 27 year old new mom. This will sound weird but I'm very embarrassed to ask this to any friends or family, as it is obviously a little strange. I breast feed, and every time I do so, I get turned on. Now I would NEVER do anything...
A. 27 June 2006: Look, this is a normal reaction and happens to quite a few breastfeeding mothers. The hormones that drive breastfeeding can cause a low in some women's libido and have the opposite affect in others - causing them to feel far more amourous towards ... (read in full...)
Kiss was amazing but am I just a rebound?
Q. I'm an eighteen year girl and have been best friends with a boy since my 2nd year in secondary school! In my 1st year before i got to know him i had a huge crush on him and even got to kiss him. But after that he was so shy that we couldn't even ...
A. 27 June 2006: This kiss shows there is chemistry between you. This can be taken as a good or bad thing. Trouble is you now cannot take back what has happened. If you have told him how you feel and laid your cards on the table and he still doesn't come thru for ... (read in full...)
Where can a new married get information about sex?
Q. I am newly married. I want books or doctors to help me to teach about sex....
A. 27 June 2006: The karma sutra, as in the original version may be a little long winded and *dense* for the information you are looking for. Try going onto google and typing in various things that you need to know about. You would be surprised what comes up (as ... (read in full...)
Worried my older boyfriend might expect more than I'm ready for! What should I do?
Q. I'm only 15 and still very young. I've recently met this guy and we've been dating for about 4 months. This guy is older then me, in fact 3 years older so he at the moment has more experience. He recently broke up with his ex and now that we're to...
A. 27 June 2006: I think you may just need to talk about this with your bf. You sound emotionally mature for your age...at least enough to know that you are not ready to do anything yet. So try talking to him about it. I think the very fact he has not pressured ... (read in full...)
I use a lot of KY jelly and baby oil when having sex-can it cause damage?
Q. i have to use ky jelly and baby oil a lot when making love to my partner, do u think it could cause any damage over a long period of time, i'm getting pains in my belly a lot....
A. 26 June 2006: No not to my knowledge. But baby oil and other oil based lubricants can cause condom damage.
As for the pains in your tummy - go see your GP and get checked out.
x... (read in full...)
What does the term "gay" actually mean ?
Q. What is the actual meaning of gay. Is it fancying men (if your a man) and vice versa for women, or is it something else?...
A. 26 June 2006: Well everybody here is being really helpful aren't they.
In todays slang it means homosexual, fancying/going out with somebody of the same sex as you.... (read in full...)
Why do western women hate their mother in laws?
Q. Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...
A. 26 June 2006: She actually sounds as if she has serious mental health problems...is she under the care of a professional?... (read in full...)
Sexual attracted to my brother-in-law, should i make my move of not?
Q. Allow me to introduce to you the thought that is way and heavy on my mind I am married to a guy who works and drinks a lot and his older brother is married and his wife isn't doing so well, health wise. My husband's brother stops for a visit he...
A. 25 June 2006: You are just making excuse for your potential behaviour. Leave your hubby, THEN look to start a new relationship. Do not use the prospect of this relationship with your BIL to get out of something which is making you unhappy.
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Twenty guys before age 23. Too many partners?
Q. Is 20 guys a lot for a girl to sleep with before they are 23 years old?...
A. 25 June 2006: Why are you asking for other people's opinions on this one? Do you not have enough faith in your own?... (read in full...)
I want a nose piercing and tatoo..my husband says go for it..should I?
Q. I need peoples opinions on this. I come from a very old fashioned family and all, I'm a married woman with kids who is fairly young and I've been wanting to get a tatoo or even getting my nose peirced...my husband agrees with it and says that we ...
A. 24 June 2006: Well I am married have various bits pierced and several tattoos/ My choice, my life my body.
go for it if you want to do it.
x... (read in full...)
Why do people cheat?
Q. I know this sounds like a ridiculous question but why do people have affairs or cheat behind their partner's back? I ask because I'm 18 and never been in a proper relationship so I don't understand it. Also is it more common for men or women to be ...
A. 24 June 2006: People cheat for a myriad or reasons - not just through selfishness or looking for a cheap thrill.
I come down hard on adulterers on this iste, because many have not given their marriages 150%chance of trying to fix them. But some people try evry... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 4 years hates herself so much it's killing our relationship
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 4yrs we met when she was 18 and we have had no problems. we were planning on getting a house and having a wedding in the next year. she had an pregnacy scare, and didn't tell me about it, freaked out and told me she ...
A. 23 June 2006: You cannot help this girl on your own, and if you try the chances are you could become emotionally damged by the failure. I really would suggest getting her to seek some sort of professional help. She ahs some serious mental issues and needs as ... (read in full...)
We don't like each other, but the sparks are amazing! What gives?
Q. There's this guy that I know, we usually do not get on with each other as I find him disrespectful and he finds me annoying. However, and this is a BIG however, we have TOTAL chemistry. I mean, I have heard of sparks flying but this literall...
A. 23 June 2006: Go with shania, yep, it'll work.
x... (read in full...)
Having a dilemma about shaving my legs!
Q. Hiya, My friends all have recently been wearing socks to school instead of tights. I'm wearing tights, but I'm boiling! lol. However I've got quite pale skin, and my mam says that if i shave my legs my 'unnoticable' hairs will just get really d...
A. 23 June 2006: I love the fact that everyone on here gets on so nicely....
*skips away to play outside*... (read in full...)
Why do western women hate their mother in laws?
Q. Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...
A. 23 June 2006: *thinks* how much is a plane ticket to Canada??... (read in full...)
I love my husband so much so why can't I give up this other man?
Q. I wrote asking for help a while ago..i was having an "emotinal affair"(flirting kissing but nothing more,definately no sex)with a friend of my husbands and mine. My "Lover" and I had an opportunnity lately to take things further but although we ...
A. 23 June 2006: I feel for you in this istuation, honestly I do. You nearly went all the way to the other side to find out if the grass is greener, then you came back. But because you *gave in* in this way you are now over-harshly judging yourself and your ... (read in full...)
Why do western women hate their mother in laws?
Q. Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...
A. 23 June 2006: Will you be my new mother in law then martini??
*thinks, need to stop drinking the vodka now*
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 June 2006: I am not ignorant dear male anon, you are. You are spouting your beliefs as you ahve done many many times before. The sexual revolution has not come about in one generation as you claim...go read up on your social history sweetie and get you facts ... (read in full...)
Why do western women hate their mother in laws?
Q. Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...
A. 23 June 2006: I hate my Mum-in-law. BUT, please see this from the point of view of a person who tried DESPERATELY to be liked, or even tolerated by her. She plays mind games, she has assaulted me and she has treated my 6 year old son badly as well. Ma-in-law ... (read in full...)
Is my 30 year old wife too old for this "playful frolicking" with her dad?
Q. Ok my wife is 30 yrs old and still sits on her dads lap and they cuddle and she gives him a kiss. Hell she still calls him daddy! Isn't she too old for this? Shouldn't all of this stop by the time shes like 10. It isn't sexual or anything, I just...
A. 23 June 2006: I say that to my little boy as well. I tell him he will still be my 'baby' when he is married (?) with kids. I am his Mum, his Dad is the same!!... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 23 June 2006: Well come on. Is this really for real? Can you not understand how this must look to an outsider? After all this is a classic story...older married man with no moral fibre (well at least not enough to walk away), young jail bait and a situation ... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 22 June 2006: lol... (read in full...)
Having a dilemma about shaving my legs!
Q. Hiya, My friends all have recently been wearing socks to school instead of tights. I'm wearing tights, but I'm boiling! lol. However I've got quite pale skin, and my mam says that if i shave my legs my 'unnoticable' hairs will just get really d...
A. 22 June 2006: I ahve David beckham typ hairy legs in the light!!! And if I dont wax or shave them! Being blonde, somewhat dim (!!) and easy to provoke ;-) it was somethign I was told as well when I was younger - that they will go darker!! What do they call ... (read in full...)
Is ten times a day too much sex?
Q. I have sex 8-10 times a day with my husband and it's starting to hurt but I still enjoy it should I take it down a notch or what? ...
A. 22 June 2006: When do you actually go to work, eat, sleep, take a leak?... (read in full...)
My BF has a big donger and it hurts when we have sex! How can I ease the pain?
Q. Hello, I recently started (about a month ago) having sex with my boyfriend as I was a virgin. Everything is okay but he is 9 inches and everytime he goes in it hurts. The pain goes away after awhile but it still hurts real bad going in. Is there ...
A. 22 June 2006: Wonder if this is the same people that said 'my BF had a 13" penis'.....mmmm?... (read in full...)
I'm tiny and my BF has a 13 inch penis! Could this be damaging to me in any way?
Q. I'm really tiny, like 5'2 and I weight like 100 pounds. My boyfriends penis is 11 inches and 13 when he's hard. It scares me because I heard that if a guy is to big it can cause womb displacement and that doesn't sound good. Isn't it going to hurt ...
A. 22 June 2006: Feel like this may just be one of those questions made up by a bunch of fifteen year olds with time on their hands and nothing much better to do.... (read in full...)
Is my 30 year old wife too old for this "playful frolicking" with her dad?
Q. Ok my wife is 30 yrs old and still sits on her dads lap and they cuddle and she gives him a kiss. Hell she still calls him daddy! Isn't she too old for this? Shouldn't all of this stop by the time shes like 10. It isn't sexual or anything, I just...
A. 22 June 2006: Good God!
Yes, I would say get a grip!
That is the problem with life today...so many people have *dirty* minds and see bad/evil in completely 'normal' behaviour. I am 35 and I would still sit on my Dad's knee (although I did tend to squash h... (read in full...)
What size of penis do women prefer?
Q. ladies! what size of penis do you prefer? don't tell me size doesn't matter please. obviously 2inches erect is very small and 8 inches erect is very long. but which size do you prefer?...
A. 21 June 2006: Do you worry about the size of your tongue? No? Well that is an important sexual tool as well......
lol... (read in full...)
Guys turn me on more then girls, does this mean Im gay ?
Q. WOOHAA got some confusing stuff to ask, I'm 21, never been out with a chick intimately, "still pure" lol Never felt the urge to be in a relationship, but I saw a nude picture of a hot chick the other day, I just felt embarrassed and blushed. To...
A. 21 June 2006: You go Dr Pete.
*winks and sits back to watch*... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had 32 previous sexual partners
Q.
I am 27 and have been going out with a 26 yr old girl for just over 2 months, and I really like her. She is interesting, attractive, sexy, clever and funny, and I am in love with her. I was planning on telling her this last weekend, but in the ...
A. 21 June 2006: There appears to be some people who are very interested in promoting female chastity by renewing these threads and adding the same old answers about what sluts etc their gf/wives are from the same old ISP addresses.....
gets boring after a bit you ... (read in full...)
Having a dilemma about shaving my legs!
Q. Hiya, My friends all have recently been wearing socks to school instead of tights. I'm wearing tights, but I'm boiling! lol. However I've got quite pale skin, and my mam says that if i shave my legs my 'unnoticable' hairs will just get really d...
A. 21 June 2006: Right, ok. Lets just get some facts here. Indeed as you get older your hair may become darker or lighter all over your body. But this IS NOT related to shaving. Go find me some evidence then if you stand by your view! It is a physical ... (read in full...)
Having a dilemma about shaving my legs!
Q. Hiya, My friends all have recently been wearing socks to school instead of tights. I'm wearing tights, but I'm boiling! lol. However I've got quite pale skin, and my mam says that if i shave my legs my 'unnoticable' hairs will just get really d...
A. 20 June 2006: macin bacin, get your facts straight honey....they will not grow back darker!!!!
... (read in full...)
Having a dilemma about shaving my legs!
Q. Hiya, My friends all have recently been wearing socks to school instead of tights. I'm wearing tights, but I'm boiling! lol. However I've got quite pale skin, and my mam says that if i shave my legs my 'unnoticable' hairs will just get really d...
A. 20 June 2006: Your basic hair colour will NOT change just because you shave your legs! That would be a miracle of modern science indeed!
They may look slightly more noticable due to the being slightly blunter when they grow back (shaving cuts the hairs off at a... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 19 June 2006: If this girl has been raped a couple of times to paraphrase your words then you need to back away....now.
She is either a fantasist who thinks this sort of converstaion will get her symapthy...or she is EXTREMELY damaged goods. Were the hell are ... (read in full...)
Sexual attracted to my brother-in-law, should i make my move of not?
Q. Allow me to introduce to you the thought that is way and heavy on my mind I am married to a guy who works and drinks a lot and his older brother is married and his wife isn't doing so well, health wise. My husband's brother stops for a visit he...
A. 18 June 2006: I read your letter and I see a woman who is dreadfully disapointed in her own life and wants what somebody else has got, along with some excitment and fun. You need to Back Off. You would destroy two marriages and why would you want to do ... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 14 June 2006: as an adult YOU should ahve terminated this friendship the minute you noticed her age. YOU should have taken control and stopped these feelings developing. Obviously you think that this is going to be *for life* but she is 14 and I can guarrantee ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Don't believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers, and remember Paul Mac had a past too!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I genuinely feel for the guy who posted this question. It must be awful to have an image in your head of what has happened before. I feel very much for any man/woman who cannot deal with a partner's past. I find it a little disturbing that no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: patronising, patronising, patronising
write it out three times and stand in the corner.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Try a husband who thinks your bit of a petronising bugger too!!
Sorry to blow your theory out of the water honey!!
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: was controlled by men....dearie, gosh what a fabulous bedside manner you have....
Your opinions are outdated. You are right men did these things, but not to exploit women. They did it for monetary gain. A man in a little lab somewhere didn't thin... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: I feel you may be seeing things a little thru rose tinted glasses.
As for your comment about my being not being able to see things from the viewpoint of a male, take a look at your last paragraph on your first posting and tell me if that does... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi ther Dr Pete
As one health professional (allegedly) to another I find you rather maralistic and self-righteous stance on female sexulaity a little on the silly side.
Before contraception the sex act for women equated with the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 April 2006: But that isnt what you were saying before. Also when you hide behind an anon stance it could be anybody who replies all pretending to be the same person. So when one person says , for example, this behaviour from women is slutty, and another this ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 21 April 2006: Another anon.
Not very brave are they the men on here!
Look, women do not *let* men have sex with them, they are willing participants in a mutual thing. So that makes both the men and women who indulge as bad, or good, as each other. I have no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 20 April 2006: Firstly, be brave enough not to hide behind an anon stance. Secondly get some balls and realise that the world is not divided into females who are saints ans sinners. Thirdly how do you figure out that girls get it more than guys? I always ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 13 April 2006: I meant to say put this as a question to draw more attention. Maybe you will get some help?
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 10 April 2006: Solved you should post this on a seperate site. I think you would benefit form others reading your thread and commenting. I think (for the record) you and your wife are locked in a vicious cycle of oneupmanship. And it will take a helluva lot to ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 9 April 2006: Why do they need to *tell the truht from the beginning?* And why would you NED to know if it is going to hurt you so much? You slept with 11 people....why is that any dofferent? What is the importance of a wpman having slept with less people than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: There are a lot of answers on here from men saying that they cannot get over *slutty* behaviour, referring to *conquests* etc. I find that offensive. I find it offensive in 2006 that it would appear a large majority of men find a problem in their ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: Conquest? Purleeze! She cannot be a conquest, by saying that your are acting as if she had no choice to sleep with these men. A conquest = being conquered. Get over it.
Guess what males and females are equal in society nowadays. So how abou... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had 32 previous sexual partners
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I am 27 and have been going out with a 26 yr old girl for just over 2 months, and I really like her. She is interesting, attractive, sexy, clever and funny, and I am in love with her. I was planning on telling her this last weekend, but in the ...
A. 13 March 2006: I feel for you because you cannot help the way you feel. we all have our moral highgrounds but I think that you are being a little hypersensitive about this.
In an ideal world we would meet our life partner and fall in love and stay in love what... (read in full...)
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