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My name is Kitten. I'm 18 years old but some people say I have the mind mentality of a 25 year old. Since I was about 11, people would tell me that I would be a good counselor. So, I thought about it and decided to make an account on this web site. I figured that I could help out with someone's relationship problems because I've been through alot! Even though I'm 18, I still have alot of experience on troubled relationships. Well, not recently, because I found the love of my life. He is so sweet! Plus, he treats me like every woman in their right mind would want to be treated. Just like a queen! By the way, I'm from Delaware by way of Detroit. Some of the things that makes me tick is a man who swears he looks better than the females. I say, if he feels that way then he should either turn gay or date a mirror. Another thing that ticks me off is how females could cheat on a good man. Especailly when she's been by his side when he was down and out and then as soon as he tries to make something of himself, she wants to cheat! Believe me, I've seen it happen plenty of times! There are plenty of other things that make me tick, but I'll be here forever typing just to let you know what makes me go off! So, if you like what you hear,or even if you don't, send me an email to my account at succulent_sweetie@dearcupid.org.

His ex gf hounds him a lot and now he's not sure about us! Should I just end this?

Q.   I have been with partner for 14 months, before I met him,HE had been in a on/off relationship for 6 years with (S)3mth on/3off they tried livin tog for 1 year it didnt work,he left.that was four years ago and he has had three other short term ...

A.   3 October 2006: The best I can tell you is give him an ultimatum. Set a date that is right for he both of you. Give him a time period to think about his decision and give you and answer. It worked for me but me and my boyfriend's situation was a little different ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being overly paranoid about my bf?

Q.   Hey everyone My problem is that im being majorly over paranoid and im not sure what to do My bf is away at the moment and will be for roughly another 3 weeks He is great and sometimes sends me really sweet texts but if i dont here from hm i beg...

A.   3 October 2006: Well, I think your problem is yourself. Mainly, those who worry about the other doing something is really worried about themselves falling off track. I used to be worried about my bf wondering off with some other girl and then one day he left the ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for my work colleague!

Q.   Im 19 and I think ive fallen for one of my close friends who's also a work collegue. I literally cant stop thinking about him and get jealous whenever i see him talking to other girls. I feel like im going to burst if i dont tell him but im worried ...

A.   24 August 2006: IM IN THE SAME PEDECTIMENT AND I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST CALL HIM UP ONE NIGHT AND ASK HIM IF HE HAS PLANS THAT NIGHT AND IF HE SAYS NO ASK IF HE WANTS TO HANG OUT AS FRIENDS,IF HE SAYS YES THEN HE PROBABY DONT FEEL THE SAME WAY AS YOU DO.....IF YOU ... (read in full...)

Sunbed question:- Are you supposed to turn over when using one ?

Q.   Stupid question on a sunbed are you supposed to turn around or not? I was on the sunbed this morning and my back got more red than my top side? Are you meant to turn on your stomach?...

A.   24 August 2006: YOU NEED TO MOVE AROUND IN THE BED TO GET EVERY SIDE OF TOUR BODY TAN... (read in full...)

I told my boyfriend that I wasnt excited about our relationship anymore, now hes very distant and I regret it... Please help!!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I recently made the mistake of spilling some feelings I had to my boyfriend. What was going on was, since we've been together for quite awhile, I was feeling a little bored with our relationship and not very excited anymore and I told h...

A.   23 August 2006: Well, I think you shouldn't have told him about your feelings the way you did. You should have told him that you wanted to spice up the the relationship a little. As a matter of fact, tell him that that is what you meant. Try and tell him to his ... (read in full...)

I asked why he won't talk to me on msn and he wrote "F**k ya!"

Q.   He says he doesnt want to speak to me. but i dont understand why.i asked him on msn and he said cz, i drew ... and he wrote f*** ya and went offline. shud i ask him agen? or leave him to it and see what he does? its really confusing me....

A.   22 August 2006: Girl, leave him alone! If he wants you, he'll reply in due time. Just let him be and see what happens. And don't stress about it neither. If he never writes back, then move on with your life. If you pulled him then you can pull another one and ... (read in full...)

Hey girls! How do you react when you orgasm?

Q.   How do you girls react when you orgasm, I just think the way I react is strange? Thanx...

A.   22 August 2006: There is nothing strange about the way react to an orgasm. Everyone's body is different. So even if you were to fart when you came, that's on you, nobody else. Besides, you shouldn't be worried about how you do it, it's if you do it that count's.... (read in full...)

I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head

Q.   Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am ...

A.   22 August 2006: I really understand where you are coming from. See me and my boyfriend had the same problem. When he found out how many men I've slept with, he went crazy! He wanted to break up with me. In fact, If he wasn't so in love with me, he prbably would ... (read in full...)

How do you stop sex farts, you know those sounds when air gets trapped? Any tips?

Q.   Does anyone know how to prevent those embarrassing noises during sex that are made when air gets trapped? You know, that sounds like farting (sorry to be vulgar)....

A.   16 August 2006: You can't prevent them. You can only enjoy them or stop having sex!!... (read in full...)

sweet 15

Q.   Dear cupid, can anyone help me. i know this might seen slighty naive but i hav'nt ever had that much to do with boys for saying i am 15. And i don't realy know about turns them on can anyone help me? and i don't really know anything about how to ...

A.   16 August 2006: First of all, why do want to know how to give head to somebody? You shouldn't be worried about these boys, you need to be worried about graduating from school. If you keep thinking about these boys and how to please them sexually, you're going to ... (read in full...)

Now normal is it for dad to perve at his daughters?

Q.   hi, i'm 15. almost fully grown. is it normal for your own dad to look at their daughters bums or legs or boobs? cos i go and get a drink and i turn round to where my dad is, on the sofa and hes looking at my bum. i saw my mates dad look at her bum ...

A.   16 August 2006: Let me see how I can but this nicely, HELL NO!!! You're dad should NOT be looking at you that way. He shouldn't even THINK about looking at you like that. Question, did you ever tell your mom this? Now she might not believe you at first, but you ... (read in full...)

We broke up, first I was relieved, then he wanted to get back, I didnt but I do now and now he doesnt want to!!!

Q.   My boyfriend of two years broke it off with me a couple of weeks ago. At first i was relieved because we had been arguing so much and he was extremely jealous and wouldn't allow me to do things i wanted to. However, now i'm having regrets. He text ...

A.   9 August 2006: I've had this problem before. I moved on because he didn't want to be with me. But what I think you should do is write him a letter stating that you're sorry. Explain to him how much you really care about him. Let him know that you were upset when ... (read in full...)

How to do sex

Q.   im a virgin so i dunno what to actually do with my bf. what should i do when im having sex with him?...

A.   4 August 2006: Since you're still a virgin and you don't know what you're donig, you should just lay their. If your bf isn't a virgin, you should let him do all the work. Just be sure to tell him to go slow, because believe me, it's going to hurt and you might ... (read in full...)

Does he see me as 'girlfriend material' (long post)

Q.   I have been close friends with this guy for 7-8months now. He is early 20’s; I am older. He split up with his ex-girlfriend several months ago, although he said the relationship was over since middle of last year. He only told me about this ...

A.   3 August 2006: Well, from what I just read, it sounds like he does want you as a girlfriend but he's affraid to express his feelings,just like you said. I think you should ask him if he's ready to start a serious relationship with you. But what toyu should really ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions for gifts to send my army boyfriend?

Q.   i dont know if this a suitable question for this site or if any1 will be able to help me but my bf has recently joined the army, im really struggling to deal with it and i finding it hard to show him support. i have found that sending him little ...

A.   28 June 2006: The only suggestings I can give you is, write him a love letter! I don't mean just any old love letter. I mean a sex love letter. Whenever I write my man a letter that states all things the I want to do to him when I see him, he goes CRAZY! Talk ... (read in full...)

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