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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..

Ciao

Cindy

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A.   26 May 2015:  Oh you let it go far enough, have no dount about that. Oral sex is serious cheating and .. IT IS SEX. Curious that you think otherwise, unless you guys are ex President Clinton and Monica Lewinsky ! Should you tell her ?... Uhm- WHY would yo... (read in full...)

My ex is confusing me.. Why is he still explaining himself?

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A.   26 May 2015:  Nothing. Ego. Sheer ego. Nobody likes to be ignored, and everybody likes to have things go according to the scenario THEY have in mind. Your ex obiously want his freedom back AND you to be cheerful , friendly and " cool " about it, and he does ... (read in full...)

She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?

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A.   26 May 2015:  OP, ... you are one frustrating OP :). Do you even BOTHER reading what we write ? So, no other explanation "but the size " for pain during intercourse ???... Plenty of explanation, as you'd know if you were a woman. Having sex without being pr... (read in full...)

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A.   25 May 2015: This sounds like a typical unfortunate case of : marry in haste repent at leisure. Or maybe of " I love you- you are perfect- now change ". You were attracted to him BECAUSE he was this independent, free spirited wild child, and now you'd like... (read in full...)

She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?

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A.   23 May 2015:  Her explanation is totally possible. Generally women do not pay to what a penis looks like a tenth of the attention than mysteriously men do. I have seen penises of course, and some of them, I have seen them consistently for years and year... (read in full...)

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