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Hey everyone!!! Just so yu know, my name isn't really TrinityHunter. But anyways, I'm 14 years old and in 9th grade. I'm a really fun and outgoing person and am proud to be who I am!!! I'm single and ain't ashamed!!! I'm a Southern Bell and have been all my life and don't plan on changing for anyone...

Does he like me or is he just being nice?

Q.   So there's this guy at my school. He's a Senior and I'm a Freshman. Every time I see him, he's usually looking at me. A couple days ago, we were both in our separate group of friends next to each other. My sister Kayla knows that I have a crush on ...

A.   17 February 2012: We started textin' alot and now we are goin' to the Sadie Hawkins dance together tonight. Well, he asked me how old I was, he's probably like 17, and I told him 14 and he just responded with "oh". What does that mean? Does he have a problem with it?... (read in full...)

I have a texting relationship with a guy and his mom passed away. What should I do?

Q.   So, there is this guy that I used to text like 24/7. He would text me occasionaly over the next couple of months afterwards but not so much recently. Well anyway, his mom passed away a couple days ago and I need help as to what I should say to him. ...

A.   23 December 2011: Okay, well my dad is going over there tomorrow to help dig the hole and I was wondering if maybe I should go with him and talk to the kid, 17 years old, or would he rather be left alone?... (read in full...)

He's a great guy and he's dating trash

Q.   Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...

A.   11 December 2011: So, he just broke up with her after 4 days of dating, I'm pretty sure because of everyone teasing him about his choice in girls, and he started texting me again. Now keep in mind that we haven't texted in a month, but still talked at school, but ... (read in full...)

He's a great guy and he's dating trash

Q.   Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...

A.   7 December 2011: Thanks everyone SO much!!! These answers have really showed me how selfish I was being. But here's another thing, all day, and I mean ALL day, he has flirted with me as more than 'sisterly.' He's constantly grabbing my hand, playing with my hair, ... (read in full...)

Should I change myself for him or stay the way I am?

Q.   So my man is 9 years older than me, he is stuck in his ways n believes women should act n be a certain way. I'm conflicted because I'm falling in love with him and I am nothing like what he believes in. My question is should I change ways and be ...

A.   3 December 2011: NEVER change for anyone!!! Yu are who yu are and if he doesn't like it, leave him. It's his loss. My advice to yu is to find someone that will truley love yu for yu, and I can guarantee that yu will be 100% happier than yu EVER was with who yu're ... (read in full...)

I've realized I'm gay -- how to tell my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who ive been with for half a year now but i got with him unsure about my sexuality and now i know, i'm 100% gay. I need to tell him but i'm too afraid, plus we live together with 6 other people as i'm in uni. so it's going to be ...

A.   27 November 2011: Well, he IS yur boyfriend and deserves to know. He might be hurt but yu should rather him be hurt because of tellin' him than livin' a lie. I'm not sure how yu should go about tellin' him but yu definatly should. Good luck!!!... (read in full...)

We had sex for the first time without a condom. Should I be worried?

Q.   My girlfriend and me had sex (first time for both) without using a condom. She takes pregnancy pills, and she said it was ok, but i am still worried. Should I be worried? Shes also been complaining of feeling dizzy. but that could be anythin...

A.   27 November 2011: I would stay checking on it. One of my relatives has gotten pregnant TWICE and she had been on the pill for 10+ years. I would check on it after a couple days if symptoms still occur... (read in full...)

Drunkenly danced and may have kissed another guy. Should I tell my boyfriend?

Q.   I have been in an amazing relationship for 3 years. My boyfriend is perfect, supportive and 100% trustworthy. This weekend I got very drunk. I only remember the night up to a point but I will explain what I do remember and what I've been told. ...

A.   14 November 2011: Sorry to disagree, but I think yu should tell him. Afterall he IS yur boyfriend and he deserves to know, and he shouldn't have to find out from others. Since yu have a close relationship with him, yu should definatly let him know.... (read in full...)

A boy I like is ill with a tumor. I don't know if I want to tell him I like him, and I'm here for him, or say nothing?

Q.   The boy i like at school has been diagnosed with a tumour on his windpipe. Im really scared for him that it could be cancer as i dont want to see him die. I've never told anyone I like him and hes not at school because hes in hospital. Im conf...

A.   12 November 2011: I wouldn't suggest telling him that yu have feelings for him but yu should definatly let him know that yu care about him and yu'll be there for him, it would really help him get through this situation he's in.... (read in full...)

Peer pressure about sex/virginity

Q.   Heya! I was just wondering about some help for peer pressure. Basically I'm almost 18, but I'm still a virgin when all of my friends are not. I'm getting a bit sick of every conversation I have with my friends having something to do with sex as it ...

A.   10 November 2011: Yu should definatly keep yur virginity!!! That is something so dear and precious, and deserves to be kept. I'm only 14 but it still doesn't change the fact that it hurts me to hear everyone else talk about sex when I can't tell them I've done it. I ... (read in full...)

Quick and easy steps to get a boy to notice me?

Q.   Okay ive never had a boyfriend and i want one might say im rushing but i dont care i see couples walking and i feel left out i would like to know some ways to get a boy to notice me quick and easy steps and some boys i dont talk to what can i say to ...

A.   6 November 2011: It is definatly hard to be 13-15 years old and not have a boyfriend. Trust me, I know how that feels. I'm 14 and in 9th grade with NO boyfriend. Sometimes I get angry at myself when I see everyone else holding hands with their boyfriends and I'm ... (read in full...)

What's happening to me? I get this warm fuzzy feeling when she is there.

Q.   I met this girl at school and she is really pretty. We have a lot in common. When ever I see her I get a warm fuzzy new feeling. I feel really shy around her. My face feel hot and I notice my cheeks get red. Whats happening to me? Why am I feeling ...

A.   6 November 2011: This is what you call a crush!!!! And trust me they can affect yur life in a HUGE way... Yu really should try talking to her. And who knows, she might like yu back. But don't get yur hopes up, if she doesn't, that's okay. Yur life isn't going to ... (read in full...)

He's stood me up 3 times, I guess he never liked me?

Q.   Why couldn't he have told me he's not into me instead of leading me on? So there's this guy that I like, I thought he liked me too. He told me he wanted us to take things slow. But he's stood me up 3times. We'd make plans but when the day come...

A.   6 November 2011: Ugh, I know how that feels. I had talked to this guy and he asked to me to our Homecoming dance. Well, the day before he cancled and said that something had came up and that he didn't really want to go in the first place. So, the next night I show ... (read in full...)

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