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My wife lost her virginity to another man while dating me

Q.   My wife just told me that she lied to my when we were married. We only dated each other and never had sex until our wedding day because we talked about it and we both wanted to arrive virgin to marriage. However, when we went to our honeymoon and ...

A.   15 June 2011: It is hard to know whether they are still together or not, because though she tells you or any other person this, they wont believe. The fact that she married you and have kids with you shows that she chose you over her boss and she loves yo... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a man to love multiple woman the same way?

Q.   I love my boyfriend of 10 months and we are in a long distance relationship. After two months dating he left for overseas. Before he left I saw emails between him and two other girls. Supposedly they use to date. I questioned it and he said it means ...

A.   8 June 2011: A partner needs to be happy in a relationship and enjoy it. You sound like you are not happy at all but you strongly love this man. Patience can pay but if you can wait too long. I was going to ask you to quit if you are fed up but you have said... (read in full...)

Why does he prefer to masterbate instead of have sex with me?

Q.   Can anyone tell me why a man would rather masturbate than be with a woman? I'm attractive, I'm maybe 10 pounds over weight which I don't think is a big deal...I go up and down 10 to 15 pounds every year, in summer the weight comes off. It's not as ...

A.   6 June 2011: I do musturbate most of the time, only when a woman is not with me and I have no sex in a while. But with this situation, I don't understand why he does it when you are with him. He is obsessed with masturbation and you need to be closed to him and ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a man to love multiple woman the same way?

Q.   I love my boyfriend of 10 months and we are in a long distance relationship. After two months dating he left for overseas. Before he left I saw emails between him and two other girls. Supposedly they use to date. I questioned it and he said it means ...

A.   6 June 2011: You can not get a partner who is perfect. He may not have all the qualities you need in a man but if he has atleast 4 that you like, then you can give him other chances given he proves that he has changed. You are in that relationship because you ... (read in full...)

I love her but she hurt me so I don't know what to do now....

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Recently we got into a huge argument. As a result of the argument I went over her house to talk to her. I told her that I wanted to forget about everything and get try to make it work between us. She ...

A.   18 April 2011: Thesame has been happening in my life. I love my first girl friend so much but she left me over an issue she never disclosed to me upto date. I tried to appologise though I did not know the reason but she refused. You can't force somebody to love ... (read in full...)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

Q.   Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

A.   18 April 2011: You and the mother of your baby are destined for each other, I can say. It was not just a coincidence when she became pregnant during a good bye sex but God's plan to keep the relationship. Don't let the blindness of lover over shadow you. Why don't ... (read in full...)

She broke up with me for another man. Does she want me back now? What should I say to her?

Q.   Two years back, I had a girl friend whom I loved so much. She had all the qualities I would need in a woman. I love her and did everything in my capacity to make her happy. We co-habited for two years in Kampala Uganda during my studies. When I ...

A.   9 April 2011: They are still together. Some days back she texted me and said she no longer need the guy. But all in all, I loved her but what she did to me turned me off from her completely. The desperate love I had for her, trust and affection turned into hatred ... (read in full...)

Do I still need to get checked for STD's?

Q.   So, i had sex for the first time back in October of last year and haven't had sex since then. The guy had many sex partners before me. We used a condom, but i was wondering when i have a check up this week with my doctor should i ask for a STD ...

A.   7 April 2011: To be sure of your health status and get relieved, ofcourse go STD test. If you don't you will keep worried about this. Take away the fear, accept the reality and bold your self and go for it dear.... (read in full...)

How pornographic material affects relationships

Q.   I want to weigh in on the debate that keeps coming up. My partner used to want me to imagine other girls during sex and I was never comfortable with this. In the end I agreed to try it out to help please her. I was always thinking of her though. I...

A.   6 April 2011: Sometimes the pornography can cause you to cheat on your girl friend unexpectedly because, it stimulate your feelings and drives you crazy for sex. I don't recomend it.... (read in full...)

Who answers the questions on this site?

Q.   Hi Andew Not really sure how I got here virtually!!! Must be on a cloud? who is it that actually answers these questions people have? other users or do you have a staff of lisc. social workers, Ph.d's ect...who purse this site and chime in when th...

A.   6 April 2011: I am only about five days old on this site. I got here, when I was completely down and had no one to offer me advise. I am somebody who don't have many friend because not all can impress me. But I have learnt that though friends on this site might ... (read in full...)

Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?

Q.   Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...

A.   5 April 2011: I don't strongly recommend you to stay in that relationship. You clearly this "Reminiscing on the good times--scared to move on and find someone else. I'm just so used to him being around and now since I've been with him for so long, I know for a ... (read in full...)

Should I contact my ex for sex only?

Q.   I miss sex and seriously thinking of contacting my ex. Obviously playing it cool and not expecting anything straight up. I certainly dont want to date her again. Problem is I don't sleep with just any girls, only ones I like. I was with my e...

A.   5 April 2011: she is not a chewing gum that you can suck its sweetness and throw it away. she is human being with feelings. Respect her as a person. Why don't you go for prostitutes. Control your feelings for only a day and you will get over it. If you insi... (read in full...)

Advice on helping my boyfriend maintain his erection?

Q.   My bf has trouble maintaining an erection when we're having sex, and I'd like some advice on how to help him. He says the problem is that he starts worrying that he's not pleasing me, and that makes him loose his erection. We've been together 7 ...

A.   5 April 2011: Perhaps your boy friend mind and attention is not always concentrated on the sex between the two of you. If this is the case, then he needs to take his thoughts from outside and feel the sex, concentrate on you and the action. He If he may be ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?

Q.   I still live at home and my parents are in their 60's. I keep hearing them having sex and it's getting quite annoying and loud. Do you think I should say anything to them?...

A.   4 April 2011: If Iwere in your shoes, I would do everything to get my own place as advised by many. If it is a situation that holds you still at your parents home, then share it with them that you are old enough and you think all of you should give hand in ... (read in full...)

Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?

Q.   Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...

A.   4 April 2011: That is what a strong relationship is for. get someone, accept him the way he is, love him. Get used to his behaviours and live with for the rest of your life. If you leave him now, you will miss all that you have mentioned about him because, it is ... (read in full...)

I'm on an emotional roller coaster. Should I stay, or should I go?

Q.   My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. Since then I've been trying to talk to him and wanting to get back together with him, however he didn't return any of my calls or texts. Eventually I gave up and stopped contacting him but then...

A.   4 April 2011: Your problem is you keep on the memory of your love time and you keep associating with the surroundings where you use to move. If you want to forget about him, keep away from what reminds you of him. Don't visit places where you used to pass your ... (read in full...)

Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?

Q.   I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...

A.   4 April 2011: You guys are great advisers and you have challenged me. I am not a player. G knows about J but J does not. I played J because she was proving worthless by her lies. I think I love J and I was almost messing up because of her lies. I am waiting to ... (read in full...)

Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?

Q.   I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...

A.   4 April 2011: With J am nine month old with and with G I am only one month old with her. I need to settle down and start up a family and i feel the time is now. I am a victim of many disappointments by ladies and I feel this time I should marry one off thatn ... (read in full...)

Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?

Q.   I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...

A.   4 April 2011: Thank you for your advise. you have helped me to understand that you don't love a lady to change her the way you want her to be but you love her the way she is. But of the two I need one to be my wife. I left started cheating j because I discovered ... (read in full...)

I'm on an emotional roller coaster. Should I stay, or should I go?

Q.   My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. Since then I've been trying to talk to him and wanting to get back together with him, however he didn't return any of my calls or texts. Eventually I gave up and stopped contacting him but then...

A.   4 April 2011: If you love him and want him the most then apologize to him if you are the one who broke up the relationship. Getting him back will make you feel free at heart. If you miss him you will be ever remembering how you missed the man of your life. If you ... (read in full...)

I'm on an emotional roller coaster. Should I stay, or should I go?

Q.   My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. Since then I've been trying to talk to him and wanting to get back together with him, however he didn't return any of my calls or texts. Eventually I gave up and stopped contacting him but then...

A.   4 April 2011: If you love him and want him the most then apologize to him if you are the one who broke up the relationship. Getting him back will make you feel free at heart. If you miss him you will be ever remembering how you missed the man of your life. If you ... (read in full...)

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