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He treated me badly so why do I feel guilty for letting him go?

Q.   I have been seeing a man for 5 months now. The last two months have been especially stressful. He has subjected me to the "silent treatment" for over a month and just recently started cursing towards me. On Thursday I was trying to text h...

A.   13 October 2013: Hi Anonymous, I've been trying to make sense of my guy's silent treatment too and stumbled across an article on emotionally unavailable men. You should look it up. It described him to the T. You are feeling guilty because you are a genuinely ... (read in full...)

Should I wait or call for an answer? Are we or aren't we broken up?

Q.   After my non-acceptance or being able to make sense of the sexy, lets see where this will lead communication between my boyfriend and his old colleague... he still has not contacted me. NOR has he broken up officially. Is his silence an indicati...

A.   9 October 2013: Thank you Tisha-1 for your answer, Hard reading but most likely very true. I am well aware of those stages... not pleasant to go through but necessary. I am too trusting on one hand which has made me prey too these kinds of narcisstic c... (read in full...)

Should I wait or call for an answer? Are we or aren't we broken up?

Q.   After my non-acceptance or being able to make sense of the sexy, lets see where this will lead communication between my boyfriend and his old colleague... he still has not contacted me. NOR has he broken up officially. Is his silence an indicati...

A.   8 October 2013: Thank you so much for your answer. I am trying to make sense of this loss. We spoke of trust and honesty often. Thats why this was such a shocker. He knew of my past marriage serial cheating husband of 9 years. I finally was strong enough to s... (read in full...)

Should I wait or call for an answer? Are we or aren't we broken up?

Q.   After my non-acceptance or being able to make sense of the sexy, lets see where this will lead communication between my boyfriend and his old colleague... he still has not contacted me. NOR has he broken up officially. Is his silence an indicati...

A.   7 October 2013: Hi Aunty Babbit, Thank you for your reply. I know in my head what the right thing is but I'm quite broken over this. The fact that I only found this out 2 months later is where he can't understand why I can't drop it. That NOTHING has happened... (read in full...)

Is this cheating on me? He says he's just making her feel good about herself.

Q.   I was allowed to see communication between boyfriend and an old colleague. It was sent after we became exclusive. He talked of how hot he still found her and how she still tuirns him on and when they would meet to see where this would lead them. He ...

A.   5 October 2013: Hi All, Thank you for your replies. Much appreciated. I needed to see in black and white that I'm not being 'difficult' or unreasonable here. He has cut off all communication with me. His words were.. don't bother me. He is so pissed off at ... (read in full...)

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