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Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   28 July 2013: To Cerberus: "Can you blame a guy for not giving up when that's what you could have been doing? So many women do it OP that I'd have had hardly any girls in my life if I didn't persist and I took women at their word."----There is a differen... (read in full...)

My girlfriend cheated on me but she says nothing was wrong in our relationship, what can I do to understand why this happened?

Q.   Hi All My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in december with somebody from work. As you can understand i was pretty shocked by this and am still hurting now. I asked her why she did this and she said that she didnt know why. I asked her if the...

A.   20 April 2013: tmisty777: OMG!I hope teenagers didn't see your post or else they would think cheating on their partners is acceptable and can be justified!Please stop misleading the young generation!! You cheated on your boyfriend and you hurt him so ba... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   20 November 2012: I've just read another article and I really like it.My favourite bit is: "If any guy really wants to hang out with a girl who he has never hooked up with more than his buddies, then he has a crush on the girl".Hmm...this sounds true but I would like ... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   17 October 2012: I've just read this article: http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2009/08/03/relationshipstrategies/is-your-best-guy-friend-thinking-of-you-with-his-right-hand/ I like what the writer said,"I don’t really buy that guys put real time and effort into cult... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   5 October 2012: To Candid Cally, WOW!I really like your answer cos it's very informative :-D Thank you so much!I really enjoy reading it :) I'm naive and inexperienced.That's why I used to think "it's normal for a lot of people". But now,after reading yo... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   5 October 2012: To Chigirl, I like your idea :) but sadly it doesn't ALWAYS help! This male friend of mine(the one who wants to be my FWB)still kept thinking that I liked him although I used to talk to him about my other crushes all the time!When I told... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   5 October 2012: To Cerberus: I don't think I ever said "There's something wrong with their head because they like me".Please don't get me wrong. There's NOTHING wrong that they like me(actually I don't think they like me).The reason why I said "what's wron... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   4 October 2012: To CindyCares: Yes,I admit that I'm naive and inexperienced. To me,I give my close friends(no matter they're male or female)lots of attention(but not EVERY DAY)such as commenting on their facebook wall or liking their comments/status or tagging... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   4 October 2012: To Chigirl, Thank you for your answer :) I can be friends with guys but some guys cannot be friends with me,but anyway,thank you for saving me a seat LOL I can totally understand how you feel. Every time I'm just being friendly with m... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   3 October 2012: To Sensitivebloke: I have no idea how I should change the way I talk to guys...I never try to intentionally flirt with them or anything.I didn't know they got the wrong idea until they came to me and asked me........and then I was very shocked!... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   3 October 2012: To Cindycares: Thank you for your answer :) But the point is...I didn't know my close male friend misinterpreted and took it as romantic overtures until they came to me and asked me about this..........I had never thought in that way until t... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   3 October 2012: To CandidCally, I give my close male friends a lot of time and attention because they're my close friends.They're fun to be around and I enjoy their company.I wouldn't give them any attention or time if they were not my friends...I think this is ... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   21 September 2012: To SensitiveBloke: Oh no,I'm a person who's very nice and friendly to all of my friends,including girls and guys........ (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   14 September 2012: To person12345, Thank you for your answer. Yes, i have already unfriended him on Facebook cos he kept pushing me and he Said to me,"it's your loss and your Problem that you dont like me in that Way. You miss Out all the fun!"... (read in full...)

Why do guys always read into things too much?

Q.   I have got some guy friends.I see most of them in a strict platonic way.I'm always friendly to them but NOT flirty.We talk,hang out and laugh together. However,when I start talking to them more often(especially if we're good friends/close fr...

A.   14 September 2012: To Cerberus, Thank you for your answer. I think there is a misunderstanding.i am Not being patronizing or anything. Also,wanting to have Sex with me doesn't necessarily mean that they like me. Friends with Benedikts has nothing to do with Love ... (read in full...)

Is it possible that this girl is using me to get her work done at university?

Q.   Ive known this girl in uni for a couple of years. She's the type of girl who would go out to clubs and what have you and prob make out with guys who hit on her if she's interested. I would say her looks are pretty decent, and she always dresses very ...

A.   24 February 2011: It sounds like you have a thing for her since you really care what she thinks.Well...I don't think she is using you to get her work done intentionally.She probably just sees you as a friend but not too close.... (read in full...)

After all the suggestive behavior, he says he's not in love with me and I'm just a friend!

Q.   I have known a male friend of mine for 8 months.We are friends but not close.We see each other once a month and it's always in a group. It was my farewell party 3 months ago.I dressed up and I took some photos with my friends.This guy friend drank...

A.   29 January 2011: To the walking dude: Thank you for your reply. I had no idea that he didn't want a relationship until I sent him the love text and he didn't reply at all! I am so stupid and naive. I should have recognised this in the very beginning. Ho... (read in full...)

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

Q.   Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If ...

A.   31 December 2010: To CaringGuy, Thank you very much for your reply :-) You started to lose interest in her because both of you didn't have anything in common.Then why were you attracted to her in the very beginning?Was it just physical/sexual attraction?... (read in full...)

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

Q.   Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If ...

A.   31 December 2010: To Jmtmj, Thank you very much for your reply:-) You said she was just more compatible as a friend and you found out both of you probably wouldn't work well as a couple.So you started to lose interest in her,right?Then,why were you attracted to... (read in full...)

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

Q.   Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If ...

A.   31 December 2010: Thank you very much for your reply :-) To Normen Bates: When you first met her and were attracted to her,did you want to go out with her at that time?Any emotional feelings for her apart from sexual feelings? "but once we learn a little more ... (read in full...)

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