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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..

Ciao

Cindy

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A.   23 February 2015:  I am with WhenCowsAttack. In fact, I wonder how people could wear a thong or G-string all day WITHOUT it riding up their a** and giving them uncomfortable wedgies ?... And without it having to be extracted from where it got stuck, by the ... (read in full...)

I need advice about my married lover and his intentions

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A.   23 February 2015:  Find someone else. Possibly single, possibly without a prison record, and, if he has to cost you money !, definitely sexually functioning : Come on, call it " buying him things and taking care of him " , call it " helping him out "... in prac... (read in full...)

Does my attitude keep men away?

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A.   23 February 2015:  There are not details enough to give you reasonably reliable feedback; as quoted the words you have been told may mean anything. My guess- but it is only a guess- is they meant that , once they get to know you, it comes out that inside you are ... (read in full...)

Do women really regret their sexual past?

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A.   20 February 2015:  Anon male reader, not to be bitchy on purpose but... I have to say it, of this is how you feel, then it is a big luck that your being ( or, most probably, feeling ) unattractive prevents you from getting the casual sex you crave. You seem to coup... (read in full...)

Do women really regret their sexual past?

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A.   19 February 2015: Ok, so suppose women have a natural, biological unfair advantage over men in getting casual sex ( and, we also have to suppose that getting casual sex is a big coveted goal for everybody ). So be it- then , why should they have to regret it, and ... (read in full...)

Do women really regret their sexual past?

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A.   18 February 2015: Maybe it's because I am so bad at maths, but I could never quite get why some people say " getting sex is much easier for women than for men ". How does it work ?... I mean : a woman who's having sex , is having sex with a man, right ? ( at least ... (read in full...)

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A.   15 February 2015:  I don't know about all women, - I think most don't regret their sexual past and I definitely know I don't regret mine. Everything has an age and stage, maybe if the perfect guy had shown up before... it would not have been perfect for the kind... (read in full...)

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