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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..

Ciao

Cindy

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A.   30 June 2016:  " My hard on self up " ?... This post is so depressing that it must be a troll. In the sense not only that probably it is a troll, but that I dearly wish it's a troll. It's too sickening to think that there is actually a guy who, in a world of 7... (read in full...)

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A.   30 June 2016:  Should you tell him to back off , ... in your quality of what ?! Of guy who thinks maybe perhaps some day in future he MIGHT ask this girl out ? Of colleague to whom the girl says " Hi " " Have a good day " see you tomorrow " same as she says... (read in full...)

Can't help feel offended by boyfriends comment. Advice please !

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A.   30 June 2016:  Maybe do you have big insecurities about your hotness degree ,that make you give such a peculiar, twisted reading to what is so clearly a compliment ? Frankly I am surprised that you may interpret it as an insult, because really what your bf s... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be feeling as I do? And despite years together, I am always anxious around my husband

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Is he serious about our future?

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A.   23 June 2016:  Then thanks God that he did not want to come to Italy ! No offence , but we have already enough loafers and benefits scroungers , real whizzes at working the system , both national and foreigners, without importing the German - based one. Let ... (read in full...)

Is he serious about our future?

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A.   23 June 2016: I must say that, being from Italy myself, I was a little perplexed reading your post. Maybe yours is the more adventurous free - lance mentality. Or maybe , lucky you, you earn so well that you have a bit lost touch with the life of someone who'... (read in full...)

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