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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..

Ciao

Cindy

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I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

Q.   My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

A.   20 July 2014:  Are you really surprised ?...You said you've seen the BU coming for ages- your bf was distant, disrespectful and lived to make you miserable. He acted as if he hated you and showed he did not give a flying fuck. So , if now he seems not to give... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 July 2014:  OP, you must be pulling our leg, right ?, I can't believe you are serious. I made the experiment for you, I googled "San Francisco escorts " and it gives : 5.400.000 results. I checked the first listing and it's an escort agencies ' dire... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 July 2014: OP ! You live in USA, not in the jungle ! Does it necessarily have to be THAT site ? How hard can it be to find escorts in a location reachable to you ? I figure it would be enough to enter " escorts in or around ( name of location ) " and you'd ... (read in full...)

Am I too manly?

Q.   My whole life I have been into sports. I love sports, I love games I love things normal woman don't. I grew up an only child for 12 years and I was basically my dad's son. But I've also been hurt many times by men in my life. So to protect myself I ...

A.   14 July 2014:  Without recanting anything of my first post, ( I still think that it's all about your Bf's RJ and insecurity ) I must say that after reading Mark's post, I can see he brings up very valid points. If you act like a buddy, talk like a buddy, send... (read in full...)

Am I too manly?

Q.   My whole life I have been into sports. I love sports, I love games I love things normal woman don't. I grew up an only child for 12 years and I was basically my dad's son. But I've also been hurt many times by men in my life. So to protect myself I ...

A.   14 July 2014: You had fuck buddies " just like a man "?- lol, if he said that he said one of the silliest and most illogocal things I have read on DC. Because... men have fuck buddies, right ?... And WHO are their fuck buddies ( in case of hetero guys, of... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   13 July 2014:  You know, once a college mate of mine, early 20s, was bragging that he had bedded more than 60 women. I did not say anything but must have made a strange face, because the guy was really non descript, far from an Adonis... and he was quick to ... (read in full...)

I'm divorced and I wish to have my ex-boyfriend back in my life but it seems like he doesn't want me. What should I do?

Q.   This is somewhat of what I call irony.. I recently went through a divorce. It was my decision after a great time of thoughts and reconsiderations. After 7 years of relationship and barely 2 years marriage, I realized he was by far not the righ...

A.   13 July 2014:  Yeah but do you remember when you dumped this guy and he was asking , literally begging for you to give him a second chance ?.. He too,he just wished to be happy, did you give him this 2nd chance despite of what you thought would make YOU happy ? ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to find any handsome and confident guys that are not assholes?

Q.   It seems that every descent looking guy I come across ends up being a total asshole! They turn out to be liars and cheaters and users and honestly I'm sick of it. They think that just because they are good looking they can step all over peoples ...

A.   13 July 2014:  I think what you lament is in good part age related. Really, not much to do about it , except than understanding how things work and adjustng your expectations accordingly. So, imagine you are a young male 18-21 who's the body / face of a Gree... (read in full...)

Do girls REALLY fondle each other to attract male attention?

Q.   There is this guy at work, who I will call "John". John is a real chick magnet. Every girl, whether workmate or customer, is attracted to him. E.g. while I am talking to a female customer, she snatches looks at John, and many times smiles to him. ...

A.   13 July 2014:  Let me start by saying that often... fondling is in the eye of the beholder, I mean, women are more physically expressive, tactile and affectionate than men, you don't see hetero men walking around hand in hand or arm in arm, women do it , my ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   13 July 2014:  Your mind is made up, OP, so,what to say ?... enjoy :). I just fail to see how getting laid ONCE ,against payment ,will solve your problems with women and with socialization, I mean , if ever you want to date , have a gf, ... or even get laid... (read in full...)

I thought our date went well--why has she blocked me on social media?

Q.   There's this girl that I have a bit of a history with (albeit a couple of make out sessions a long time ago) and we both wanted to go to a theme park, and so we went; as friends. At first we got on well with conversation flowing, and then when we ...

A.   13 July 2014:  Eh yes, do not be too upset, these sort of things happen, and they happen a lot in your ( and her ) age range. She had a good time with you, she was enjoying herself that day- and maybe she is the flirty/ cuddly / tactile tyoe that can get you ... (read in full...)

I don't get wet before sex and I don't know if I've had an orgasm

Q.   I'm 24 and I've been with a few different guys. The other day my boyfriend asked me if I've ever had a orgasim with him and I honestly couldn't answer. I've had times during sex with him where my legs will shake and it feels downright amazing but ...

A.   13 July 2014:  Consult your OB/GYN and get tested for hormonal levels.. Such a stubborn vaginal dryness is rather common just before , or during ,menopause, ( or also, pregnancy and breastfeeding ) and it is caused by insufficient levels of estrogen in your ... (read in full...)

How can he send a text like this knowing I'll be destroyed by it?

Q.   Can someone please explain to me how things can change so quick and how he can send a friendly text knowing I will be destroyed when I read it. Been together three years don't live together. He just back to work after a 1.5 yrs out of work due ...

A.   13 July 2014:  But he might have sad the truth. You are not the only one when there's a row and things gets said, the other party does too. Only, you have been able to get it over fast, and maybe the other party tries, but for them it's not the same anymore, ... (read in full...)

Should I take back my ex? He had casual fling during a brief split.

Q.   OK, I am very confused. Me and my partner recently split up and just got back together, and I just found out by looking at his phone (bad I know but I had a gut feeling) that he was casually involved with another woman during the break. I know it's ...

A.   12 July 2014: It will sound as a lame advice but perhaps is less lame than it sounds . You should not row again and / or split up again, and if you do- that's it, take it as a sign that you are not compatible , move on and make it a permanent split, don't embark ... (read in full...)

Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?

Q.   I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He ...

A.   11 July 2014: Yes, but... he should not be " capable of beng faithful and loyal ", he should be faithul and loyal, period. He is married. I don't think he is " confused " more than other hundreds , thousands of married men are confused- trannychasers are noth... (read in full...)

Ex Blocked me on Facebook, but won't tell me why?

Q.   OK, brief story…at 30 years old, I met my first real love. He moves around a lot for his job, so he admitted to me that he had never been “in love” before either. He had, had his heart broken at a young age, and always shied away from real ...

A.   11 July 2014:  Control. He does not want you to talk to him, but he wants to be able to talk to you if so it strikes his fancy of doing ( who knows, maybe the day that all these exes are busy ... or get fed up of his airs and graces as you should too). He does... (read in full...)

How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?

Q.   I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...

A.   11 July 2014:  Yes , OP, your post is a bit confusing, it sounds to me that you need to make peace with your own brain. First you say that you have decided to save yourself for marriage, then you know you can't wait for the 3rd visit. So, you alreday KNOW you ... (read in full...)

Am I being toyed with or is this something I should hold out for?

Q.   This is probably an obvious answer but I still feel confused about the situation. A little over a year ago I was chatting with a girl on an online dating site. She seemed very lovely, is a psychologist, pretty, nice, funny. We messaged back an...

A.   11 July 2014: Maybe the second one ? hey I did not call you an idiot, you did .... Well, actually is not about idiocy, it's about expectations - the root of all evils :). It sounds to me like, deep down, you are sort of hovering around her just in case she... (read in full...)

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

Q.   My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

A.   11 July 2014:  OP, this will sound patronizing maybe, but I wonder : if this is his usual M.O.- ignoring you for a week or more, then sending you a " cum fuck me " text on a weekend late night... rinse and repeat ... has not ever dawned on you that most probably ... (read in full...)

Chatting online for a month and he wants me to pay his phone bill so we can talk

Q.   I met this guy in a dating website about a month ago and he asked me to pay his phone bill. It makes me a little uncomfortable because I don't know if he is using me. He says he likes me a lot and has plans to come visit me in 3 weeks (lives 7 hours ...

A.   11 July 2014:  What a shameless moocher. Come on, you know nobody in their right mind would do that ! By the same token you could have asked him to do the same for you, - pay YOUR phone bill so that you can talk, I bet that 60 bucks more in your pocket woul... (read in full...)

Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?

Q.   I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He ...

A.   11 July 2014:  Funny, your husband has a story of being inappropriate and disloyal, and might be cheating / have cheated on you, and you worry not about having married a cheater, but about his basic sexual orientation ?,... A cheater is a cheater, whether he ... (read in full...)

Tips to get a man going?

Q.   Heya there Aunts and Uncles, So, I'm an eighteen years young rising freshman at college, my boyfriend of over a year and I are starting to make things sexual and I have very little idea what I'm doing. I didn't have much of a sex education, even in ...

A.   11 July 2014:  I'd think it does not take anything particular to get a boy in your age rabge going, maybe the problem is how to get him NOT going :)... Anyway, since you have a loving, patient and understanding boyfriend, and since he is the one who shou... (read in full...)

Should I shave my beard for my friend's wedding?

Q.   I have my friend's wedding to go to in a couple of weeks and I am debating whether or not to shave.. I have had a beard for the last 10 months and have grown fond of it, it is part of me now I feel. I do keep it 'trimmed' but it is still probably...

A.   11 July 2014:  f they have asked you to be best man when you were already sporting the beard, they know what you'll look like in the pictures and they don't have a problem with it . What they saw, it's what they get- a bearded best man. I don't think they just ... (read in full...)

How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?

Q.   I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...

A.   10 July 2014:  " I feel in my heart that I have found him " ( your future husband ). Uhm. Pardon me , but if you really felt this way, what would be the point of your post ?. You will only have sex with your future husband. You feel sure in your heart th... (read in full...)

I feel the need to talk to him to see if there is anything there ....

Q.   i met this boy when I was in my senior year of high school and we really hit it off. It seemed like we were the perfect match for each other, until one day he told me he was moving away after that school year and he will be leaving the school. I ...

A.   10 July 2014:  While I don't feel that hitting him up with a " Hi John, long time no see you, what have you been up to ? " would be particularly strange or inappropriate, in this Facebook time and age when people reconnect from the paleozoic era... I am dubious ... (read in full...)

What do women think about men, fitness and fights?

Q.   So, I'm a pretty peaceful guy. I'm going to school for biochemistry (which I love), and spend most of my life in the lab or library. I study hard, get good grades and generally enjoy prefer mental work as opposed to anything physical -- except for ...

A.   10 July 2014:  I am past the age of being impressed by fighters, but I was not favourably impressed even when I was your age. I agree with "straight to the truth", the peacockry of someone strutting his stuff , and intentionally provoking confrontations and ... (read in full...)

LDR - so why doesn't he tell his family and friends that we're dating?

Q.   I've been dating someone, long distance, for about a year though I've been talking to him and we've been good friends for around 5. I met him through another friend. I love him and think he's absolutely amazing, so my entire family and close...

A.   9 July 2014:  I agree with SVC. That's weird and it's not a good sign. I could understand him not wanting to tell his parents yet , maybe he knows they would make a fuss or just does not talk about his love life with them... but not telling his friends, in o... (read in full...)

I feel I am constantly waiting for him and wasting my life away ...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have a son together who is 3 years old. We all live together, my partner works 16 hour days, and he works nights. He only gets one day off but even on his day off i don't see him as he lays in bed ...

A.   9 July 2014:  OP,please do not be so literally minded, people cannot know the composition of your family, and then again, if you had your parents, seen your young age , they'd be still young too and in a country where most people needs a double income to live ... (read in full...)

His dating site profile says he's just looking for friendship

Q.   I am 28 years old, my boyfriend is 30, we have been together for a year and a half. we don't live together. I found out recently his got a profile on a dating site. a friend was browsing the site and came across the profile, she informed me about. i...

A.   9 July 2014:  Sorry but I think he is up to no good. I don't believe he is just looking for people with similar interests. Why have these people to be women only, and why is he looking for them on a DATING site? It would make sense, and it would be ... (read in full...)

Am I still a Virgin?

Q.   Hey me and my boyfriend were having fun kissing and stuff so we got to this point were we were taking off our clothes,he wanted to put his penis in but it was so sore so he tried to put half of his penis in I didn't experience any bleeding but my ...

A.   9 July 2014:  I doubt it. Your hymen is AT the vaginal opening , not somewere at the bottom of your vagina- so half a penis ( let's say 2/5 -3 inches ? , or more ) is quite enough to break it ; IF it was still there. A hymen ( except unlucky exceptions ) is... (read in full...)

Prom is next year and I have no date! Should I ask him?

Q.   Here goes. I'm in year 10 and so next year it will be my prom and at the moment I have no date. I really want to ask this guy but I am way too worried about the things that could go wrong to ask him. We are friends and I'm scared that if I ask him ...

A.   9 July 2014:  Chill :). There os nearly one year yet to your prom, if you ask him now he'll think you have OCD or an anxiety disorder or something ! If you want to ask him out for a date ( AND you can handle a possible rejection / seeing possible chan... (read in full...)

How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?

Q.   I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...

A.   9 July 2014:  One should wait as long as she has decided to wait. If for reasons of yours you have made your mind up to abstain from sex till marriage- well, then this exactly how long you should wait : till marriage - regardless of how many visits and how ... (read in full...)

Haven't conceived after 18 months of trying ...

Q.   Hi guys, I'm feeling really low today and I just need to get this out. I'm 31 (and a half) and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 18 months. It took a long time before he felt ready for a family and then if only we'd known ...

A.   9 July 2014:  I am afraid your doctor is right, before having hs sperm tested there's no point in seeing a fertility specalist or undergoing further exams or tests, because that's the first thing the specalist will need to know, - if his sperm is viable in ... (read in full...)

I need help understanding why he won't see me!

Q.   So I've got this friend of like 7 years, but recently he refuses to see me. We used to be the best of friends and then we got together. It wasnt easy as we were very shy and alot of people made it hard. It ended, by him, I was hurt but we stay...

A.   9 July 2014: I'd think it would be evident why he refuses to see you ?... Because he has a girlfriend !, who yes, happens to be jealous and possessive, but also if she was not jealous and not possessive at all , she very probably would have a legitimate prob... (read in full...)

He went through so much with his ex I wonder if I'm a rebound?

Q.   Please Bare with me because my story is long and detailed. Three years ago, I started working at a Psychiatric Board and Care Facility as a housekeeper. I was 18 then, from being a housekeeper, I changed linens, worked in the kitchen, drove p...

A.   9 July 2014:  Yep. He's a flake. I don't know if he is also a potential stalker, but he is SO using you to thumb his nose at his ex. What, he gets laid ( pardon , he spends a happy weekend with a new conquest )- and this is debated with his ex ?? she should ... (read in full...)

Does not wanting to to work outside the home make me a bad person?

Q.   Does not wanting to to work outside the home make me a bad person? My husband barely makes enough to support us. We don't even have children. We have talked about adoption in the future when we are better off. We're in our mid twenties. I ofte...

A.   8 July 2014: Thanks for sharing your story , OP, but you seem to miss the point of why some people may see you as " spoled ". Well, spoiled is an excessively harsh word- but spoiled is not about how many gadgets you had growing up or have now, spoiled is in the ... (read in full...)

Boob size and pain issues! Normal?

Q.   hey I m 22. I recently noticed that my left breast is bigger than the right one. Is this normal and can being in a sexual involvement cause this? Also both my breasts pain a lot for 3 to 4 days every month? what could it be? please help me ......

A.   8 July 2014: It's normal. It's not infrequent that one breast is bigger than the other. The monthly breast pain is linked to the hormonal variations in your cycle. A few days before the period , some women's breasts swell ( even a lot, like having to wear a di... (read in full...)

I need my boyfriend's support right now and all he wants to do is argue

Q.   hey guys I am just going to give you a brief background before telling you the issue. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years we have been living together 6 months and have recently bought a puppy together...you'll see why this ...

A.   8 July 2014:  All what Janniepeg says, plus,.. there can be something much simpler. You did not ask him. That's not YOUR own electric chair ( electric chair ? it sounds bad ,lol ) . It belongs to you and him, it's his also. I don't think he'd really be such... (read in full...)

I feel I am constantly waiting for him and wasting my life away ...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have a son together who is 3 years old. We all live together, my partner works 16 hour days, and he works nights. He only gets one day off but even on his day off i don't see him as he lays in bed ...

A.   8 July 2014:  No you did not have to drop your studies. Your kid is in day care 4 mornings a week, you can use that time to study. And the fact that your bf sleeps on his day off, becomes a positive- you can study then .Same, as when he is at work at night ( ... (read in full...)

I don't need a relationship right now, but in the future I'd love to be a family with them again.

Q.   Hey they! Hope you all can help me out here! I'd like some advice about my ex girlfriend and I. Well first off I'll tell you about me. I'm a super caring and nice guy who would do anything for ones I love and care about. I have a job and a nice car ...

A.   8 July 2014:  I do not quite understand what advice you are asking, what is the question... You like the girl but you won't be back with her, a) because first you've got your own issues to sort out b ) because she does not want you. But, you hope one day you'... (read in full...)

I don't know who to chose as a room mate!

Q.   Hi there, I am trying to decide what to do regarding living arrangements next year and it's making me have sleepless nights with worrying over it. I am living with two guys at the minute, one is moving away to university and the other is a gu...

A.   8 July 2014:  I would stay with Paul, even if he is far from perfect as a roommmate. Not having to nove all your stuff, and walking distance from work ?!. Those are two huge bonuses. Kathy should be funnier than Seinfeld to make ME move. Then, do you real... (read in full...)

Boyfriend not going to my graduation but going with his friends. What does this say?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend flr ober a year. Were quite serious and are currently living together and saving for a new home. Were very much in love and generally get along great. The thing is its my masters graduation this week. I got 3 tickets, o...

A.   8 July 2014:  It means he does not want to get stuck all day at something so boring, WITH your parents to entertain in conversation too. Selfish ? Yes. Everybody is selfish . Aren't you selfish too in wanting him to sacrifice his spare and precious free time... (read in full...)

My inlaws have out stayed their welcome and my husband doesn't get it!

Q.   My husbands parents live in canada, weve been together 10 years and they've only come to England once in that time (for our wedding). After the birth of our 1st child they said they were coming to see their grand daughter. They kept changing their ...

A.   8 July 2014:  Hang in there . It's nearly over. Only one more week to go ! It is not THAT bad- comparatively. If you think that you have seen this people once in 10 years .... there's tons of people who have to deal with unsavoury in laws every days of thei... (read in full...)

Does not wanting to to work outside the home make me a bad person?

Q.   Does not wanting to to work outside the home make me a bad person? My husband barely makes enough to support us. We don't even have children. We have talked about adoption in the future when we are better off. We're in our mid twenties. I ofte...

A.   7 July 2014:  It does not make you a bad person, but it makes you a broke one. And makes yout husband broke too. If he BARELY makes enough to support you both, that means that every extra or unforeseen expense ( new tyres for the car, a new par of eye ... (read in full...)

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

Q.   My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

A.   7 July 2014:  Yeah well, surely a long, heated, emotional confrontation after just seven days from a BU would not win the prize for most effective, coherent No Contact of the year, but so be it. One can always go back on track. You 've got to be honest with... (read in full...)

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

Q.   My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

A.   4 July 2014:  " suck my dick for helping you ? " ...Is he mentally ill ?... Back to ignore ignore ignore, and mean it this time. It does not matter if he is the Wizard of Oz, or has the secret to save mankind from a worlwide catastrophe-do not ask him anyt... (read in full...)

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

Q.   My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

A.   4 July 2014:  What do you do ?... sigh... you start all over again. The moving on process and the ignoring. And try harder this time. This, if you are serious about wanting to STAY broken up. It's like following a diet, or quitting smoking. You fall off the ... (read in full...)

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

Q.   My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

A.   2 July 2014:  Fair is fair :). He writes you " fuck me "... you write him back " fuck you " and you are even. No, don't , actually. Just kidding. Keep ignoring him. You are doing good, and soon you'll be fine .... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   5 March 2014:  OP, it's a game of numbers.Practice makes perfect, and you need to practice as much as you can. You need to approach beyond your standards , and within your standards , and ( slightly ) below your standards ( as long as you don't find them ... (read in full...)

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