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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..

Ciao

Cindy

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19 August 2014: Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...

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A.   13 October 2014:  Your fears are well founded , unlyckily. Maybe it's not : once a cheater always a cheater.. but " once a cheater OFTEN a cheater " , yes. You are at more than average risk of being cheated on. Then again, perhaps you don't exactly have to worr... (read in full...)

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A.   12 October 2014:  Why ? Does he normally puts you out as soon you've used up the 30 minutes which are technically sufficent , what with some forepaly, getting undressed, intercourse, washing up , and getting dressed ?... Is this your guys ' ( or your ) norm... (read in full...)

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He completely refuses to call me pet names!

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Am I being silly expecting more time or at least once a week when I know how crazy his job is?

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A.   9 October 2014:  Probably yes. 13-16 hours a day 6 days a week ? no kidding ' ... then when he gets his free day , he's got to cram into it all he can't do during his work week, i.e., everything, basically. Shopping, cleaning,haircuts, seeing friends, repairing ... (read in full...)

He only lasts 3 minutes in bed so what did he do for 30 minutes with the prostitutes?

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A.   9 October 2014:  Maybe nothing . They charge 30 minutes anyway, whether the client uses them all , or takes a nap,or puts on his clothes and goes away after 3 minutes. Then again, I would not take as good as gold his word that he did not do oral with them... (read in full...)

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I want to be a better boyfriend and be able to trust her again, how do I do that?

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A.   9 October 2014:  That's the wrong question you are asking. A better one is, what can I do to get back an ounce of common sense and self respect and let go of someone who basically does not like me , does not respect me, and keeps me around just until she can ... (read in full...)

I don't think I am that much in love with him. Is it key to a happy marriage to be absolutely in love with your future spouse?

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A.   9 October 2014:  In reference to Olderthandirt " cynical " comment : I want to say that actually his position is shared by a few MILLIONS of people in Oriental cultures, and objectively they do not seem to function worse than us for that. Most Eastern cultures ... (read in full...)

I've discovered what he and his mother think about me and it's very hurtful! I don't know what to do next!

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A.   9 October 2014:  I think the real problem is not what mom said about you, it's what HE said about you. My impression is that there's never a lot of love lost between mother in laws and daughter in laws, they are like natural enemies, like moongooses and snak... (read in full...)

Can you help me interpret this whole situation? Am I just admiring him or am I starting to like him?

Q.   Hi everyone :) I have met him during a summer program in my school which lasted 8 weeks. We didn't really talk much, if we ever passed each other we would just say 'hi'. I never actually payed attention to him during those 8 weeks even though I kn...

A.   9 October 2014:  It seems to me that you are just developing a very normal crush. It may have started as admiration, but , after all, isn't that how all crushes start ? You admire someone because they have something that strikes you, that impresses you, whether ... (read in full...)

I don't think I am that much in love with him. Is it key to a happy marriage to be absolutely in love with your future spouse?

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A.   9 October 2014: No, don't settle. For all the excellent reasons explained by my DC colleages, and for a simpler one , which I hope it does not sound jaded- because it's not, it's just true. Being married is not easy - it's not that bed of roses which seems from... (read in full...)

My girlfriend runs hot and cold. We are engaged but she has cut down the time we spend together!

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A.   9 October 2014:  It means that you were spending way too much time together. She only said it seems like you are living together ? you are lucky, I think many other people could also feel as if they have on of those anklets on for electronic surveillance of ... (read in full...)

How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?

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A.   8 October 2014: I don't think you have offended anybody here and you surely haven't offended me , OP- all I am saying , is : he is coming into your turf , ... and he is supposed to show YOU around and entertain you and organize stuff ? How does that make sens... (read in full...)

Sometimes my boyfriend is a mean drunk!

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A.   8 October 2014:  Not to put too fine a point on it, but I think too that you are dating an asshole. He may be good 99% of the times but ... it's like ink in a glass of milk. It may be just a little drop, but it makes the whole glass unpalatable and undrinkable. ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her if she wants a relationship, or just be friends?

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A.   8 October 2014:  Now I am totally guessing here, it's just a hunch I have, but what I think it is that no, she is not interested. She sounds like a woman who wants companionship, and wants the chance of having MALE attention and a MALE date, every now and ... (read in full...)

Do I have a problem, and should I confront my husband about it? Am suspicions that he's cheating, but have no proof.

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A.   8 October 2014:  Personally I do not believe in ghosts nor in ghost scratches - nor in the Loch Ness monster, as for that - so I don't care if they are popular in I-net and they come up one zillion of times, I still would feel that my intelligence has been ... (read in full...)

I am starting to wonder if he will ever propose!

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A.   8 October 2014:  The length of time in a relationship is not a good measurment of when a person should get married ?... Perhaps. In theory. In practice , any sensible person who loves somebody AND believes in marriage, reaches their " pee or get off the pot ... (read in full...)

How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?

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A.   8 October 2014:  I am not sure what's your complaint about exactly . He did book his flight , departure and return. And I suppose he is staying at your place during his visit. Or else, he will have already arranged his accomodation elsewhere. What else is ... (read in full...)

I'm still thinking of my ex even as I'm worried about developing feelings for my potential FWB! Advice?

Q.   Hi! :) hey... I really need your advise on something that's been bothering me almost this whole year...I've asked people but most of them just brush my issue away,and advise me to just move on..but its not an easy thing to do...so please do help me ...

A.   7 October 2014:  If you are intersted in / you are developing an emotional connection with the new guy, you are wasting your time and looking for trouble, because he made clear that's NOT the emotional part that he wants ( he does not believe in love anymore blah ... (read in full...)

I extend the hand of friendship, but they do not reciprocate.

Q.   Dear cupid, I am not sure what to do about friends/acquaintances coming into town. Should I let them stay at our flat or just give them the brush off? I should start by saying I am in the performing arts or use to be with my DH and I am not much...

A.   7 October 2014:  Twentyfive days ? my, you are the gracious host. I don't know if I would put up my MOM 25 days- it's a long time. Anyway, no I would not bother and no regrets. They do not consider you friends, they do not reciprocate, the interest is one side... (read in full...)

They all lose interest after I sleep with them

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A.   7 October 2014:  But if you only want sex within a relationship, why then do you sleep with men before you are sure you know you are in one ( r/ship ) ? If you want sex within a context of trust and committment, why don't you wait for the trust and committment ... (read in full...)

Disappointed that I had a lesser role at wedding of my cousin. Should I tell the bride how disappointed I was?

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A.   7 October 2014:  Oh no, don't say anything. It would be petty. You don't really want to spoil one of the best times in her life ( the honeymoon phase ) by making this all about your hurt feelings, do you ? 1 ) Don't take it so personally- you are blood bu... (read in full...)

Engaged for a year. Yet he's rarely in the mood for sex. Has our relationship run it's course?

Q.   I have been engaged to my man for almost a year. We dont go out anymore and sex that only happens when i throw a fit. He always says his back hurts but when it's work he is out the door no problem. So all im good for is to wash his clothes and...

A.   7 October 2014: Well, call me gullible, but haven't you thought that he may actually have a bad back ache ? When it's work he's out of the door... maybe also because he has no choice, I guess. If he does not work he does not get paid,does he. Or, he has all the ... (read in full...)

He's a childhood friend. Yet due to his Gf's request he is now snubbing me. How do I handle this?

Q.   I know this might seem trivial, but this has been bugging me. A childhood friend of mine has just randomly started ignoring me. We were such good friends in high school, and although we fancied each other for years nothing actually happened beca...

A.   6 October 2014:  I can sort of see the Gf's point. That's not just your " childhood friend " ,this is your old crush. You mutually fancied each other for years, -just did not choose to make it physical for whatever reason , but the attraction was there, so y... (read in full...)

I feel stuck and miserable in this town. Is there anything I can do?

Q.   I'm about 20 years old now. I've been married since I was 18 and I'm pregnant with my second child. My husband is amazing, has a great job, and our relationship is just fine. My problem is, shortly before our first was born, we moved to a new state. ...

A.   6 October 2014:  No, OP, I don't think that they are " judging " you for being young, married with children - if you talk about people more or less you age, it is that you don't have much in common in terms of lifestyle, you have made a different choice than ... (read in full...)

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