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Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.

My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.

What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)

Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.

Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.

Looking forward to hear from all of you..



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Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

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A.   9 November 2017: The police can't do anything for you. You don't even have a receipt for the money you lent him, he can deny that he ever got anything from you, or say that it was a gift ! How would you prove that you are owed that money ?... But even if you had ... (read in full...)

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A.   7 November 2017:  Could it be a cultural thing ? Where is he, or his family, from ? From instance, Muslims , even Westernized ones, don't celebrate birthdays. I am not sure if it's a religious prohibition, or if simply it's not in their culture and it's a West... (read in full...)

Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

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A.   4 November 2017:  Honey, it's not your fault if you matured physically sooner than your sister ! It's not something you have a say about like, let's say, deciding , for some reason, to not get married , or to not graduate, before your older sister does. Go tell... (read in full...)

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I don't like the way my parents treat me and I'm thinking of running to my boyfriend in Canada

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My wife says she won't move out of the house until our divorce is final. Why?

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Relationship started out well but now he's asking for more and more money. Is he using me?

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How do men deal with the hair 'down there'?

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A coworker eats smelly food right next to me!

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A.   3 November 2017:  Strange office. So your colleague is not allowed to leave his desk because he must answer the phone - but he is allowed to answer the phones munching on his 45 minutes "snack", with his mouth full of food ? I would insist with the boss... (read in full...)

Why is my LDR boyfriend testing me this way?

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A.   1 November 2017:  I think Honeypie is right. He is setting you up ; he wants , more or less consciously, you to fail his tests. Or else , he is -sorry- just plain dumb. Life isn't some trashy romance novel, where you just " follow your heart " and jump on a plan... (read in full...)

My past has led me to hate sex, relationships and even the human touch

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I suffer from social anxiety and it bothers me that he leaves me alone with his mother!

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A.   30 October 2017:  Sorry, maybe I am being too rigid but I don't think that shyness and awkwrdness are a sufficient excuse for incivility. You go as their guest for 1-3 months at a time ( ! ) and can't, ( but I mean seriously " can't ", not just " prefer not " ) ... (read in full...)

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A.   30 October 2017:  If you were in a train or other public places, your husband would win , no contest :). The unwritten laws of etiquette say that the " cold " one dictates the temperature and if the window should be open or not.( I think it may be a remnant ... (read in full...)

My husband is inefficient and forgetful. How do I deal wth him?

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A.   30 October 2017:  The most logical step would be to consult his doctor. Extreme forgetfulness, lack of concentration, severe difficulties with time management and daily tasks in a person your husband's age ( not senile ) can be a symptom of a smattering of various ... (read in full...)

Why did he say he was disappointed?

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A.   30 October 2017:  I would not look for deep, obscure meanings in what he said, I would take it rather literally. He is disappointed because he hoped that his secret admirer was some hot guy and he hoped the convo could prelude to some hot hookup, then find... (read in full...)

Why did this woman pass such a comment on my 'almost' boyfriend?

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A.   28 October 2017:  It sounds to me like an innocuous joke, and it's not that odd . She does not know that you and the trainer are dating, but obviously there's sexual tension between you, and when people are into each other they give away often very perc... (read in full...)

Why would he say "I love you" if he has no intention of changing his life for you?

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Is it wrong if I want to be a housewife and not work for a living?

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A.   28 October 2017:  I think we are mixing up two different things : morally correct and socially desirable. Of course there's nothing wrong per se in wanting to be a mom and a housewife- same as men do not dislike housewives per se,on principle. But in the dating m... (read in full...)

Boyfriend says his phone was hacked. I don't believe him.

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A.   28 October 2017:  I don't even know what " backpage " is, but I know that no hacker could have entered your bedroom and taken pics of your bf in bed. You are right in not believing him; his lies are not believable. What should you do ? That would depend from your... (read in full...)

How do I end a FWB relationship and just be friends?

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A.   27 October 2017:  Piece of cake ! You just tell him: "thanks but no thanks. I'm done .". Or variations of the above. Maybe you think that when you turn him down he will feel offended and will not want to be your platonic friend anymore, but, let me be cynical,... (read in full...)

He's left me yet again but what wrong have I done to be treated like this?

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A.   27 October 2017:  Let's start from the bottom. You should not be still living together if you are not a couple anymore, and you should not be taking care of him as the wifey that he consider you NOT to be. Why all the cooking and washing and ironing etc. If he is y... (read in full...)

My boyfriend took small amounts of money from my purse! What should I do?

Q.   I was dating a guy for 3 months, who I love, and knew was broke/unemployed. 2 weeks ago, $15.00 was missing from my wallet. I thought I miscounted, so the next time he came over I took a pic of my wallet, so I knew for sure. $20.00 went miss...

A.   26 October 2017: I was thinking the same thing that Honeypie remarks about : 20 dollars for taking you out ? Where ? If there's somewhere in USA where two people can have dinner , tip included , for 20 bucks, restaurant prices must have really gone down in the ... (read in full...)

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

Q.   Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he ...

A.   26 October 2017:  I was not particularly differentiating between cell phone and landline ; more between home and work. Meaning that, IF the workplace policy is that no calls should go unanswered and no phone be left unmanned- then if the phone rings and your... (read in full...)

Guys, do you miss the other woman if the affair ends suddenly?

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A.   26 October 2017:  Of course it would vary according to individual situations. Most men, I think, would not sweat it at all. Sex is sex, and fun is fun, - things which feel good no matter who provides them, so when you lose one , you just wait for the next to s... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is being too needy, is it unhealthy?

Q.   How often is too often to see your significant other? In the last few relationships I’ve felt burned out too quickly from them and I think it’s a problem I’m having with myself. I’m dating a girl now and have been for the last year. She does e...

A.   26 October 2017:  It depends. It sounds , anyway, that it is not healthy for you,- because your needs for closeness do not match hers. While surely it is regrettable, and worrisome, that, without you, she does not know what to do with herself , I must admit that... (read in full...)

I found out my husband went for an adult massage before we married

Q.   I just checked my husband phone and found out that he went to adult massage before we marry 2 months back. His friend asked him to join last week and he rejected it as he said hes broke now. Yes he is financially unstable now as he loss some from ...

A.   26 October 2017:  Your husband is a smooth one. By throwing a big , childish, ( and , I have no doubt, STAGED ) tantrum, he deflects the attention from his wrongdoings ( cheating on you ) to yours ( mistrusting him ). Well, why should you not mistrust him ? He ... (read in full...)

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

Q.   Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he ...

A.   25 October 2017: @ Denizen : are we still talking about a cell phone ? The type which you make personall calls from, bring home after work, and generally keep in your pockets- unless you forget it on your office desk :)? .. Then the answer is , obviously, stil... (read in full...)

The relationship I am in has become exhausting

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A.   23 October 2017:  Maybe I am reading this all wrong ( I hope so ) but to me that's basically a complicated version of " I love you , but I am not in love with you ". He apparently is not feeling something that, in his mind, he should be feeling. Everything is good... (read in full...)

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

Q.   Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he ...

A.   23 October 2017:  I respectfully disagree with Denizen- or, at least , conclude that we hang around very different people and different gardens :). I don't know anybody, literally anybody , with such a poor sense of boundaries to go answering the phone in s... (read in full...)

Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

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A.   23 October 2017:  Stop contacting him. Why, do you think that if you keep pushing , you'll see your money back ? unlikely. You have been trying to contact him for the past 2 weeks, and he has been ignoring you, and not even bothering to let you know when, or IF, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend was kissed by a gay guy and now he wonders if he is bi?

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A.   23 October 2017:  Would you consider it cheating if he had kissed another girl ? Yes ? Then it's cheating also if he kisses another guy. I don't see what the gender of the kissed makes a difference. Whether your bf has kissed a girl, a boy , or a hermaphrodit... (read in full...)

He is not being supportive and I am literally broken because of what is happening!

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A.   23 October 2017:  As other DearCupiders have said, this guy is an idiot and a dick. Someone you can dispose of with no regrets . Just file him under " life lessons ". I must say that if he is in your age range, maybe toward the lower end of it, this is not surp... (read in full...)

Is 15 years too big a gap for us?

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A.   23 October 2017:  15 years is a big age gap and some men would think that's too much and would not consider a relationship with you. While some others would not care and would say that age is just a number etc.etc. Both categories have the same right to an info... (read in full...)

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

Q.   Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he ...

A.   23 October 2017: Excuse me ?!... There may be also a cultural component, probably, but I can assure you that I am not Arab, I am not Muslim and I am not a man, yet I would go berserk if someone presumed to do what you did. You are not even married !, or living t... (read in full...)

My long distance love wants me to send sexy pictures of myself

Q.   I've been going out with this boy for 2 months now and it's a LDR situation. I knew it was going to be hard to not spend all that time together but I felt I could handle it. Lately he's been asking me to send naughty pictures to him and it m...

A.   23 October 2017:  I think I asked you this already previously ( - or maybe it was another poster in a similar situation ) but :- why aren't you " majorly fussed" that he won't call you when his parents are at home ?? It IS something to be majorly fussed about, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend revealed a secret and my question is how do I deal with what he told me?

Q.   My new boyfriend of almost 5 month has been suffering from ptsd i knew this when we first got together , he decided to be open tonight and told me a shocking secret he had kept from me , he admitted he sometimes smokes weed to help him relax and ...

A.   21 October 2017:  Curious how the people who suggests you to relax your stance on drugs seems to forget that cannabis is a class B illegal drug in Uk, and its commerce / trafficking is punished with up to 14 years in jail, while even simple possession can land... (read in full...)

Does my FWB have feelings for me?

Q.   I've been friends with benefits with a guy for over 3 years. We hook up nearly every week. I telephoned him today to speak to him, he was busy building a draw and I didn't realise I was on loud speaker, during the call we were talking and he was ...

A.   21 October 2017:  No, Op, it won't work out " one day ". I am not saying that it is absolutely , 100% impossible to be " upgraded " from bootycall/FWB to regular hf or wife. It just happens , percentually, very very seldom, and, most of all, 3 years is quite a ... (read in full...)

Most of the things he does really gets on my nerves!

Q.   I have been going out with a guy for almost a year now, when we first started going out I thought he was really sweet and I really liked him, we see each other every week but now it's been nearly a year I feel like things have changed, he still ...

A.   21 October 2017:  But you have been giving him a chance, for a whole year. You have been dating since almost one year... and it's almost one year that you feel things have changed and you aren't as happy with him as at the very beginning. That means, I guess, that... (read in full...)

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