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I need my man to be sexy AND have brains!

Q.   Hey people.. I recently met a guy ..we have chemistry, but the thing is he's not that educated aka we cant talk about philosophy, literature etc. Sex-wise I'm attracted to him but then again I dont know if I could be satisfied with a sexual re...

A.   9 November 2009: Thanks to all of you guys... Yes I do plan on moving to the states,initially to get my masters and then settle down. I am not just sexually attracted to him. I have fun when I'm with him.We crack jokes,he makes me laugh (humor is imporant to me a... (read in full...)

I need my man to be sexy AND have brains!

Q.   Hey people.. I recently met a guy ..we have chemistry, but the thing is he's not that educated aka we cant talk about philosophy, literature etc. Sex-wise I'm attracted to him but then again I dont know if I could be satisfied with a sexual re...

A.   8 November 2009: @ daniel I am guessing you're white. White guys are perfectly ok. I am not talking about race.It's about nationality. I am from Greece and greek guys just don't do it for me.... (read in full...)

I need my man to be sexy AND have brains!

Q.   Hey people.. I recently met a guy ..we have chemistry, but the thing is he's not that educated aka we cant talk about philosophy, literature etc. Sex-wise I'm attracted to him but then again I dont know if I could be satisfied with a sexual re...

A.   8 November 2009: BTW : I wrote this at 4 am so it seems a tad immature. I do have options but the problem is I'm very picky. So losing this guy will be kind of stupid...i mean let's be real here. When you're not sexually attracted to someone (and you will onl... (read in full...)

He's sending mixed signals - does he like me or not?

Q.   ok here it goes..... i like this guy in uni, we met offically just over a week ago but i liked him before then.. whats been happening is there is some major flirting and chatting when we are sober, and when i was drunk i propa came on to him but he...

A.   8 November 2009: he probably likes u but suffers from the MMS (modern men syndrome) which is the syndrom where guys these days are too scared to take initiative. I suggest you become a little smart with him. Jokingly say "so you never told me what that kiss was ... (read in full...)

I'm the smotherer!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months now and I think that whole honey moon phase is coming to a crashing halt. And well, I don't like it but I'm going to get used to it because I want to be with this guy and that's just how ...

A.   19 September 2009: How do you get distant? Hrmmm... Talk to him and tell him you think of giving up the texts. Say there are times that ur busy and u cant answer so its better if you guys stop it for a while. Dont mention calling. If he does call you,youre good. ... (read in full...)

How do I show him he needs to work for our relationship?

Q.   WHAT CAN I DO BOUT THIS**LONG ONE**? I'm in a long distance relationship with a really nice dude. When we are face to face we get along extremelly well.Now that we're apart from each other we communicate through IM,email,text,calls. A few weeks ag...

A.   19 September 2009: Thanks to all of you for the responses. To Tisha... I always try to have fun time with him and I dont expect us to have long conversations about our feelings.I do expect us to keep getting to know each other even though we're at distance. Th... (read in full...)

I'm aroused before sex, but not during it! How does this make sense?

Q.   hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 5 months every time he touch me or said something to me I get horny but when I'm having sex with him I don't get horny at all what does that mean? do that mean I don't love him because I feel like I love ...

A.   18 September 2009: Ask him to be more aggressive when it comes to sex. Try different positions.Dirty talk helps too. If the situation doesnt improve,consult a doctor. ... (read in full...)

I'm the smotherer!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months now and I think that whole honey moon phase is coming to a crashing halt. And well, I don't like it but I'm going to get used to it because I want to be with this guy and that's just how ...

A.   18 September 2009: Sweetheart,yes you are clingy. He's in college and having a clingy girlfriend is the last thing a guy wants! Stop confronting him all the time,and yes, get distant with him. See how he will react. If he cares,he'll eventually do something... (read in full...)

How do I show him he needs to work for our relationship?

Q.   WHAT CAN I DO BOUT THIS**LONG ONE**? I'm in a long distance relationship with a really nice dude. When we are face to face we get along extremelly well.Now that we're apart from each other we communicate through IM,email,text,calls. A few weeks ag...

A.   18 September 2009: What I'd want... I would want us to talk more online,and have a deeper connection (just like we used to have in real life).. Even one hous is good. I mean if I dont talk to my boyfriend for an hour everyday then how is this supposed to work? ... (read in full...)

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