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LDR: Do I bank on her hooking up with other people and do the same myself? We are separated by a long distance.

Q.   My girlfriend and I split up because she's going to college hundreds of miles away and I'm in another state. so it didn't make sense. I feel a strong connection with her and expect to love her for the next semester and try and spark things back up ...

A.   19 August 2012: Thanks for the advice. It's all good stuff. I just can't decide what I want to do. I don't want to feel like I wasted my time waiting for a girl who isn't coming back. At the same time, she's special to me and it feels noble to wait for her rather ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   4 January 2012: Well shit. I don't like that, haha. Sounds like I'm screwed then 'till I have her back in my arms.... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   4 January 2012: I thought about potentially talking to her about it. I ended up thinking that by being all serious it would push her away. I adopted the mentality that if I just let her spend time with him, she'll realize how much more right I am for her (I believe ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   4 January 2012: Yea I won't be second to anyone. The only way I'd want to "hold onto her" would be to feel like I mean enough to her. And no she didn't say anything definitive when she left. Her last night here was New Years Eve. We went to this party and afterw... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   4 January 2012: Yea I agree. I'm just stating that she meets a dude at college (in Cali). Begins dating him, and about a month later goes home for winter vacation. Once there an old flame is reignited with a boy she has an extensive history with. Unfortunately ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   4 January 2012: It seems the general consensus is that I'm a horny 18 year old who misses the girl I was having steady sex with who I happened to like. 60% of me believes that be true, however logic tells me that just because I'm young and like sex, that does not ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   3 January 2012: Cindy, She goes to school in California, but we are from Colorado. So for break, she's back here with me for a month-ish. So it seemed to me that if she weren't leaving to go back to Cali, we would've stayed together as a couple. It just so ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   3 January 2012: P.S. I always appreciate a good euphemism, so to the man who referred to me as the "rental penis", points to you. ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   3 January 2012: Yea. I guess you are right (all of you). Perhaps I needed to hear (read) it somewhere other than from my own mind or from my family/friends. As soon as I forced myself into believing the reality that: yes it was cool, but now its over, I felt ... (read in full...)

We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...

A.   3 January 2012: I would agree with you on the "once a cheater always a cheater" front, but (stupid as it sounds) I just don't think she'd be like that with me, but I guess I would never know. Perhaps I just don't want to believe that my newest and most alluring ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is more interested in partying with friends than being with me

Q.   Hey everyone. So me and my girlfriend have been together for just about a year and like starting a couple weeks ago she's not acting as cute and cuddly as she always did for the first like 11 months along with not wanting to have sex. To me sex i...

A.   2 April 2010: Hey Lanzie, First off thanks for your insight. Secondly, I was wondering how old you are, because we are 16. I know people generally give teenage relationships a bad wrap, but our being together for a year (about), I believe, is a testamen... (read in full...)

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