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*ueenbee74
writes:My boyfriend and i had a threesome with my best friend while drunk, this was his and mine first and hopefully last threesome together, it was my idea and I've apologized to him because of past relationships where the man cheated on me and i don't want to share mg current boyfriend with anyone and he said that the threesome was no big deal, so in bed with her and him he made love to me then her then me again so does this mean im better in bed than her?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 January 2016):
 It must be difficult to accept this in your relationship now after it has happened. The question is why did you feel the need to suggest a threesome? Are you curious about being sexual with another woman or was it to satisfy your boyfriend?
Either way it is never a great idea to invite someone in to your bed as it breaks many relationships. A lot of girls feel insecure after watching there man with someone else, and also a lot of men want it more and more. You need to talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling about it all and ask him what he thinks. Also maybe talk to your friend about how she is feeling, she might be feeling very guilty.
The best thing to do is get it out in the open now between all of you and move forward from it. You say you got cheated on in the past so therefore maybe you suggested the threesome as a challenge to see if he would accept. All three of you are to blame here, it is a big deal and you do need to try and work it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2016): "The threesome was no big deal." Sorry, it is a BIG deal and with your best friend.How does your best friend feel now? Is she even speaking to you or your boyfriend?I know you were all drunk, but your boyfriend still took advantage of the situation.Next time, don't get so drunk that you will regret what you did come the next day.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 January 2016):
 Make it the last threesome that you ever have..... and THEN decide if - or, that - you want to remain friends with B/F and BFF.....
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2016): It is really difficult to guess what he felt. It could well be that he wanted to show his loyalty and to let you know that he preferred you.Only his actions from now on will show his true feelings. whether he pushes you for more sessions like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2016): it has left you feeling jealous , worried that he thinks less of you. that other women could take him from you. worried that he has an emotional attachment .... ect....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2016): It means that he was aware that he should pay you more attention, personally I think you made a mistake by having one with your best friend whom you will probably see often.
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