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writes:My ex boyfriend is telling me 6 months after our breakup that he is not over me, but I was over him 6 months ago. I feel guilty though. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 Stop feeling guilty. I know that's easier to say than to do, but he has to deal with his own feelings as best he can. They are not for you to fix, honestly. Sometimes in a relationship and more often in a break up, one person cares more than the other one does. It's not anybody's fault, it's just the way it is.
Just don't be mean to him or lead him on that there might be a chance of getting back together. That wouldn't be fair to him, and will stop him from moving on.
Good luck!
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (11 September 2008):
Tell him the truth. Dont lead him on. Tell him that you are sorry he is not over you but you have moved on with your life and dont feel that he is the right person for you. As far as guilt dont worry about it. I think you feeling it just shows how compassionate you are but remember that you two broke up for a reason and that one day he will see that two.
My guess and I might be wrong is that he left you so he might not have gotten over you because he thought he could have you back because he ended things. Knowing that he cant have you back will help him get over you. On the other hand if you broke up with him tell him why and explain in a nonhurtful way. It will help him understand and get closer.
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reader, roxygirl +, writes (11 September 2008):
If you're over him then you answered your own question. You must be feeling guilty for a reason. Maybe you still have feelings for him but you are trying to cover them up? Think about your true feelings. If you are truly over him than there should be nothing to feel guilty about.
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