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I have been talking on-line to this girl and I would like to meet her, but I don't want to scare her off, how do I find out if she would agree to meet me?

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Question - (11 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this girl i met through a friend, i been talking to her online a fair bit. She starts new conversations when one dies down so she enjoys talkin to me. We've only spoken for few days. I do like her, how do i find out if she would consider meetin me or what she thinks of me? I do not want to scare her off.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008):

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she defo knows who i am. The conversation dies i don't know how to keep it goin?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (11 September 2008):

Work up to it. Say nice things about how you like chatting to her.

Then move up to swapping photos, and chatting on webcam if you can.

Once she knows you are who you say you are and not an axe murderer she might be more happy to meet you.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008):

Best you just wait it out for a few weeks and talk like this.

Then you can say that you find the conversations to be a particular highlight of your day and would be honoured if she would allow you to meet in person.

If she says no, then she says no.

Flynn 24

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